Example of victim mentality of a girl

[nismo-4]

All rise!

Just today, I tossed away a girl I spoke to online.

We had a convo on the phone and was setting up a date with her. I wanted to finalize the day of but my car wouldn't start. I texted her to tell her the issue and reschedule. 3 days later (Saturday) I text her to set up the date after the car got fixed. No response to call or text.

Fast forward to today, I call her up and get no answer. I then text her that I've met a new and better woman, as a way to DHV and covertly show I've moved on and don't want sh*t else to do with her disrespectful ass. 90 minutes later, she texts me back saying she was at the gym. Yeah f**kin' right. You had 2 days to respond to me. A woman always checks her phone.

As in her ass is trying to make me beta backpedal in the hopes of making me an orbiter. I haven't and won't respond. No case pleading here! Hell no! She showed her disinterest, and I don't waste time with uninterested b**ches because they won't f**k me sexually.

Yes, she is deleted from every platform and blocked too.

Internet attention wh0res are all over the place. Give them just one strike until sex, then you can up it.

The point of it all? She gave me the hard-to-get vibe. Did not make time for me, or respond to meeting. Girls behaving like this just want you as an orbiter. Kick them away!

 

[stevo]

Why did you hit her up so much?

 

[nismo-4]

Why did you hit her up so much?

I mirror interest with new women. Acting aloof only brings women to you that already have high interest in you. If you read the story, I showed that I learned the importance of getting a woman offline quickly. Shoot first, analyze later.

If she ain't answering, ditch the bytch and move on. That's what I did. Would she do this sh*t to Channing Tatum? Not at all.

 

[stevo]

All rise!
We had a convo on the phone

I texted her to tell her the issue and reschedule. 3 days later (Saturday)

I text her to set up the date after the car got fixed. No response to call or text.

Fast forward to today, I call her up and get no answer.

I then text her that I've met a new and better woman

Why did you hit her up so much?

:nervous:

 

[SmooveMooves]

IMO, you should've deleted her after she ignored the 2nd time. I don't see the point in telling her you've met a new woman, that's petty dude.

 

[VladPatton]

Yep yep. This should be standard operating procedure. We've all dealt with these types, and if you haven't.... you will!

 

[Sofomore]

You sure showed her who the ALPHA MALE is!!

 

[Yewki]

From her perspective she may have thought you flaked on her with a BS story about your car. Don't know the entire story, just sayin.

Texting her about finding a better woman is some pretty insecure sh*t too. Might as well have just told her, "Hi I'm kind of desperate and insecure"

 

[nismo-4]

From her perspective she may have thought you flaked on her with a BS story about your car. Don't know the entire story, just sayin.

Texting her about finding a better woman is some pretty insecure sh*t too. Might as well have just told her, "Hi I'm kind of desperate and insecure"

Perhaps her mind asked if I'd have a car problem if Eva Longoria was talking with me.

But AFAICT, she suddenly stopped responding to me after being "interested" (BTW, she messaged me first)

Being desperate would be going back to her, hell I might as well give her my balls if I was going to do that! Nobody red pill would!

A person who wants to see you will make time. If not reschedule. Just the covert message she sent me by her actions told me a lot about her character way more than words.

I feel I did the right move by moving on. Woman goes ghost on you? It's usually for one of these reasons.

1. She was an attention wh0re from the get go/ approval seeking/ searching for orbiters, just wants to be friends and you refuse to comply with this. (HER frame)

2. You f**ked up somewhere in the attraction process/ phone game sucks.

3. A better man entered the picture/ her ex or husband came back.

4. Something about your value/ SMV turned her off.

Episodes like this is why I give ONE strike for new online women. She can't respond to a date request, but she can respond to a notice that I moved on? What the f**k does that tell you?

 

[TheMonkeyKing]

Fair enough.... but this is the profile of a chick I had a brief conversation wit this evening - I got bored with the pretense of being a 'b!tch'.... pretty f*cking quickly:


firstly, if you ask me a lousy question like 'hi, how are you/you alright/anything along those lines?' i will ignore you. this question is completely pointless because what the hell are you gonna say if i reply i'm depressed and suicidal? you don't actually care how i am so you better work on a better opener. for the record, i don't care how you are either

update- read this is if you want, don't if you can't be bothered. it's an old long rant. these days i couldn't care less if you do, i was just venting out and this was the outlet. i removed the wall of shame because it's a bit outdated and the messages i receive these days have got way ordinary/not provocative/not unbelievable enough to deserve the time of day and the publicity haha

profile - criminally selfish! stubborn, impulsive, aggressive (even ferocious when the situation calls for it and when it's a matter of slow tourists at king's cross cause i really can't walk slow!), sarcastic, highly irritable, domineering, impatient (that's my biggest virtue), loyal (at least to friends), persevering (actually, enthusiastic at least at the beginning of each new venture), cynical, sceptical, tomboy and all sorts of other, mostly negative adjectives ;P (oh, forgot to add vain. and hypocritical. lol)

pet hates and turn offs: lack of hygiene, body hair, people who don't bother to read my profile in full and then ask me dumb questions i've already expressed my stance on, dullness, people who don't get my sense of humour, text language and ppl dat spk lik dis aaaaaaaaaaaaargh it does my head in so if you're one of those, don't waste your time sending me messages (by the way i know perfectly well how to use grammar and punctuation, i just CHOOSE not to use capital letters!), narrow-mindedness, hopeless romantics and people who are needy or jealous. or weak (unfortunately i tend to predominantly attract weak men, which is very discouraging). saying that, i'm not out to hurt anyone, i don't like causing people pain. but if you're weak and let me walk all over you, i will. not out of maliciousness. just because i can.

on the other hand, i just discovered that really dominant men who go to the other end of the scale, put you down because they're insecure about the other aspects of their life which they feel they don't have control over. i don't need any of those either, thanks

i'm also rather irritated by those people who go to great lengths to explain how it's impossible to describe yourself in this space here. or the ones who just say 'i don't know what to put here'. worse still, blank profiles! you obviously haven't reached the necessary level of intelligence or creativity to be of any interest to me so if you're one of those, move on from this page, like, now...

oh, and i have a phobia about body fat, both my own and other people's. i make an effort to stay in shape (well, some shape anyway) and i appreciate people who do so too
What I’m doing with my life
*i'm a professional pain in the ass. so professional i'm even a pain in my own ass.

*unfortunately i also deserve a prestigious award in the field of procrastination, if there ever was one being handed out. the only award i ever got was a plastic gold medal from an ex in the 'biggest b!tch' category

 

[No.Danny]

You sure showed her who the ALPHA MALE is!!

He sure did. Now she knows of all the women at his disposal too

 

[Bokanovsky]

Not sure if it's an example of "victim mentality" rather than an example of low interest on the girl's part. If a girl I met online cancelled our first date because of car trouble, I'd probably next her right away too (because it's far more likely that "car trouble" is an excuse rather than an actual predicament).

 

[pyros]

I dont understand why OP insisted so much, texting, calling, texting...wtf?
did you forget about the 1, or 2 max strikes rule man?
you texted to tell her that you met another woman?
whaaaat??

YOUR PRINCESS WAS IN ANOTHER CASTTLE from the get go.

 

[goodasitgets]

We had a convo on the phone and was setting up a date with her. I wanted to finalize the day of but my car wouldn't start. I texted her to tell her the issue and reschedule. 3 days later (Saturday) I text her to set up the date after the car got fixed. No response to call or text.

Sorry, I don't see a victim mentality coming from this chick. Looks like you hastily overreacted to the whole event. Seems like she had interest until you texted the car wouldn't start. Car excuses are lame as fvck to some people, that turns them off. I think she thought you were flaking. Would you next a girl that texted her car wouldn't start?

 

[Roni_88]

Sorry, I don't see a victim mentality coming from this chick. Looks like you hastily overreacted to the whole event. Seems like she had interest until you texted the car wouldn't start. Car excuses are lame as fvck to some people, that turns them off. I think she thought you were flaking. Would you next a girl that texted her car wouldn't start?

I believe it all depends on which terms they ended the conversation,, maybe they agreed to reschedule and then she changed all of a sudden when he was trying to confirm the date again.. **** happens to anyone its all about how you communicate it and how receptive the other person is

 

[goodasitgets]

I believe it all depends on which terms they ended the conversation,, maybe they agreed to reschedule and then she changed all of a sudden when he was trying to confirm the date again.. **** happens to anyone its all about how you communicate it and how receptive the other person is

We can't speculate since we weren't there. All we have to go on, is what he is telling us.

We had a convo on the phone and was setting up a date with her. I wanted to finalize the day of but my car wouldn't start. I texted her to tell her the issue and reschedule. 3 days later (Saturday) I text her to set up the date after the car got fixed. No response to call or text.

He was setting up the date with her, after he texted his car wouldn't start wanting to reschedule. Normally a person would take that as a flake. If she had high IL maybe it would be different. We all can agree calling her after radio silence, then texting her he found a new woman wasn't too smooth.

 

[Peña]

Being desperate would be going back to her, hell I might as well give her my balls if I was going to do that! Nobody red pill would!

Fast forward to today, I call her up and get no answer. I then text her that I've met a new and better woman, as a way to DHV and covertly show I've moved on and don't want sh*t else to do with her disrespectful ass.

Isn't calling her going back to her? Why does she matter so much for that text?

 

[SmooveMooves]

LOL. This is pretty shocking stuff from a veteran member.

How can you allow a girl you haven't even met yet to ruffle your feathers so much?

Online chicks pull this crap all the time. Shrug your shoulders and move on.

Telling her you had another girl in the mix was pointless and a little bit of a weak move. Showed you cared way too much.

Spin plates, and appreciate the reality that most women deserve zero emotional investment.

Case closed.

Exactly, hopefully he was drunk or something cause' It didn't sound like his usual self.

 

[stevo]

appreciate the reality that most women deserve zero emotional investment.

I owe you a beer for that.

 

[dutchmaster]

I mirror interest with new women. Acting aloof only brings women to you that already have high interest in you. If you read the story, I showed that I learned the importance of getting a woman offline quickly. Shoot first, analyze later.

If she ain't answering, ditch the bytch and move on. That's what I did. Would she do this sh*t to Channing Tatum? Not at all.

No she wouldn't.. But you're not Channing Tatum lol.