Some believe being alpha is situational while others believe it is a mindset. I happen to believe it is a mindset. What makes it a mindset is simple. If you take a blue pill beta and give him all the tools to easily become an alpha (money, power, fame, etc) he will still behave like a beta. And we see this in Hollywood on the daily. Even with so many women chasing them and all the status.. these men still revert to acting like pvssies in the end. Examples are endless.. but Mel Gibson is a good one.
An alpha enjoys power and freedom. A beta doesn't know what to do with power and freedom.. so he gives it away.
5 Rules of the Alpha Mind:
#1: Self love above all love
Female love is entirely conditional, fleeting and transient. Its based on your situation today and what you can do for her today. Women are designed to take advantage of a man's position for her own benefit. Once your position changes or her priorities change, she will leave.
This is why betas are fools for seeking female love. Alphas treat women as disposable sources of pleasure... while women treat betas as disposable resources.
If you lose your girl chasing your dream. You can get another one. If you lose your dream chasing a girl.. well.. you're an idiot.
Love yourself first.
#2: Keep your Resources for yourself
As far a women go.. exercise moderation with how much you give them. Its more important that women know you have stuff than it is for you to actually give them stuff. Tease them with your resources, but only give them a small taste. Use a cost per orgasm approach.
Rich betas will buy cars, houses and giant diamonds for women. This is why beta is a mindset more than a situation. No woman deserves these things just for spreading her legs and showing respect. Don't give women large rewards for small things which require little effort.
#3: Maximize your body, mind, education and financial status
Not to get laid.. but to improve your quality of life and give you maximum power and freedom. Knowledge is power and the more you know the better decisions you will make... which will lead to more power and status as well as better mental, emotional and physical health.
The alpha is all about the long-term. The alpha can maintain. The beta will have spurts of success, then he will drop down later.. like many Hollywood betas who end up broke or on drugs. Beta is a mindset where everyone the beta knows benefits but himself. Wh0res milk rich betas on the daily and abandon them once the money and status is gone. And when you are beta and can't handle having money and status (as most can't).. you lose it in short order.
Lift weights, eat well, stimulate your brain, engage in critical thinking, save money, read, work hard on your passions, be confident, etc.
#4 Women don't give a sh!t
Women are along for the ride. They don't care about men or society outside of their own personal benefit. In another thread I pointed out how in France the women sided with the Nazi's after they were conquered.
Women go with the WINNER and they don't care who the winner is. Obama, Hitler, Tony Soprano, doesn't matter. This is why the white knight is the dumbest person alive.
How many intelligent beta men who could of been the next Einstein or the first person to cure cancer never got a chance because he abandoned his dreams for a woman/family or got killed in a pointless war? Even when a man is on the path to greatness.. a woman will still put her needs first and try to force that men into serving her.. rather than his dreams. Beta men of course.
But betas are the most important people in the world. Alphas and women need betas to be their loyal brainwashed pawns. This is why its important for betas to "fall in line" and follow the social norms, be good fathers and protect women. No one give a sh!t about the beta himself though. Betas die every day in wars and people just shrug. One cute college girl dies and its a national tragedy. One small child dies and its a national tragedy. But a beta man? Who cares. See what I mean?
So never ask women for help or go to them with your problems. They don't care. They will pretend to, but they don't.
Only alphas truly understand this and so they never let women side-track them form their goals. Never.
#5 Male Value is always higher
Men always offer more than women and are more important than women (alpha or beta). So never feel bad about a woman leaving you, or any dry spell you have. Do not be defined by female approval. A woman's approval of a man is always based on her priorities at the time. These priorities change like the wind.
So giving a woman's opinion of you any weight is a game you will always lose at. Her opinion of you is based on what you can do for her.. not who you are or how you think. Again.. going back to #1.
You should be totally immune to blue pill toxic shaming tactics. Notice they will come from some betas as well as women. As betas are women's pawns.
Betas want to be alphas.. but they resent the alpha at the same time. They too will shame and attack alphas for engaging in the alpha behaviors they are too weak or chicken to engage in themselves.. while at the same time wishing they were the alpha.
Its all in the mindset. Alphas take control of their lives while betas let society lead them. Society needs betas to keep the world running. Women need betas to protect them and clean up their messes.
Knowledge is power. A beta who knows his position is more powerful than a delusional white knight beta. The alpha mindset leads to alpha behavior and eventually to alpha status.
An alpha enjoys power and freedom. A beta doesn't know what to do with power and freedom.. so he gives it away.
5 Rules of the Alpha Mind:
#1: Self love above all love
Female love is entirely conditional, fleeting and transient. Its based on your situation today and what you can do for her today. Women are designed to take advantage of a man's position for her own benefit. Once your position changes or her priorities change, she will leave.
This is why betas are fools for seeking female love. Alphas treat women as disposable sources of pleasure... while women treat betas as disposable resources.
If you lose your girl chasing your dream. You can get another one. If you lose your dream chasing a girl.. well.. you're an idiot.
Love yourself first.
#2: Keep your Resources for yourself
As far a women go.. exercise moderation with how much you give them. Its more important that women know you have stuff than it is for you to actually give them stuff. Tease them with your resources, but only give them a small taste. Use a cost per orgasm approach.
Rich betas will buy cars, houses and giant diamonds for women. This is why beta is a mindset more than a situation. No woman deserves these things just for spreading her legs and showing respect. Don't give women large rewards for small things which require little effort.
#3: Maximize your body, mind, education and financial status
Not to get laid.. but to improve your quality of life and give you maximum power and freedom. Knowledge is power and the more you know the better decisions you will make... which will lead to more power and status as well as better mental, emotional and physical health.
The alpha is all about the long-term. The alpha can maintain. The beta will have spurts of success, then he will drop down later.. like many Hollywood betas who end up broke or on drugs. Beta is a mindset where everyone the beta knows benefits but himself. Wh0res milk rich betas on the daily and abandon them once the money and status is gone. And when you are beta and can't handle having money and status (as most can't).. you lose it in short order.
Lift weights, eat well, stimulate your brain, engage in critical thinking, save money, read, work hard on your passions, be confident, etc.
#4 Women don't give a sh!t
Women are along for the ride. They don't care about men or society outside of their own personal benefit. In another thread I pointed out how in France the women sided with the Nazi's after they were conquered.
Women go with the WINNER and they don't care who the winner is. Obama, Hitler, Tony Soprano, doesn't matter. This is why the white knight is the dumbest person alive.
How many intelligent beta men who could of been the next Einstein or the first person to cure cancer never got a chance because he abandoned his dreams for a woman/family or got killed in a pointless war? Even when a man is on the path to greatness.. a woman will still put her needs first and try to force that men into serving her.. rather than his dreams. Beta men of course.
But betas are the most important people in the world. Alphas and women need betas to be their loyal brainwashed pawns. This is why its important for betas to "fall in line" and follow the social norms, be good fathers and protect women. No one give a sh!t about the beta himself though. Betas die every day in wars and people just shrug. One cute college girl dies and its a national tragedy. One small child dies and its a national tragedy. But a beta man? Who cares. See what I mean?
So never ask women for help or go to them with your problems. They don't care. They will pretend to, but they don't.
Only alphas truly understand this and so they never let women side-track them form their goals. Never.
#5 Male Value is always higher
Men always offer more than women and are more important than women (alpha or beta). So never feel bad about a woman leaving you, or any dry spell you have. Do not be defined by female approval. A woman's approval of a man is always based on her priorities at the time. These priorities change like the wind.
So giving a woman's opinion of you any weight is a game you will always lose at. Her opinion of you is based on what you can do for her.. not who you are or how you think. Again.. going back to #1.
You should be totally immune to blue pill toxic shaming tactics. Notice they will come from some betas as well as women. As betas are women's pawns.
Betas want to be alphas.. but they resent the alpha at the same time. They too will shame and attack alphas for engaging in the alpha behaviors they are too weak or chicken to engage in themselves.. while at the same time wishing they were the alpha.
Its all in the mindset. Alphas take control of their lives while betas let society lead them. Society needs betas to keep the world running. Women need betas to protect them and clean up their messes.
Knowledge is power. A beta who knows his position is more powerful than a delusional white knight beta. The alpha mindset leads to alpha behavior and eventually to alpha status.
