Well,i take all the advice to be 98.7% true.but lets be realistic DJs,i think most of the words,techniques,methods etc.you've only heard about them but half(the advice)have little or no effect on women.But wat i can only say is(according to my experience in the field)that what we learn without action is useless.No offence.As at now,me,personaly am working on A Beta Me lyk Ay stacs 2.0.
When i was Becoming a dj(somewhere 2 years ago)i learnt that;
1.develop a self-confident mindset.remember What u think,you become!
2.Looks do matter.honestly can you date a gorilla.do your very best in maintaning your physical appearance.If i remember,so often when i wanted to speak to a girl that caught my interest,i got A+ in making excuses.i wud get nervous by saying things like,am not in my best clothes,what if she alredy has a BF,and stuff lyk that.so headsup-You look good,you feel good and Confident.
3.Women are more interested on how you make them feel than anything else that has to do with seduction.learn to be a master in how to feel good
4.Also have something interesting going on in your life(it might be your education,career or job)learn new hobies,expand your social circle,suround yoself with successful people,whatever separates you from the other guys.Be creative.believe me you,womem will flock to you like fly's on Sh*#.alittle historical there!
5.ONe of the best things i have learnt in the seduction community(on every other book sugested to impove a beta me,aystacs 2.0)including experience.is that*drum roll*
How you persive life.yes i know,but experience is the best teacher.when you persive life wonderful,everything you do(though we are not perfect)will be wonderful.let be your career,ambition,job,women(or whatever)execellent works will be done.This includes your mood.ok,tell me...some point in your life you've experienced that moment,when everything you did seemed flawless.every conversation leadin to a date and eventualy to whatever(you wanted out of that woman) happened at the time when you came to a point that''i love my life.am happy and nothing can reuine it''was all in a state(or mood)on a subconciously and consciously
Level.You was the real you.i bet as you recal that day,moment and feeling,u feel the emotions u felt which were Great if not Awsome.right?ofcourse.just imagine your day-to-day life feeling like this.huh?magical ryt?yes.Now all you have to do to be great in everything you do is-have the right frame when perceving your life.the'i dont give a f*ck mindset,the am fun guy to be around,am not perfect but atleast am real'frame.Do not dwel in the past nor be anxious about the future but simply embrace the present.
6.fear.
Fear destroys talents and prevents development.sometimes certain unexpected events and unfavourable circumstances create a sense of fear in us but we should always be guarded against fear takin over us.fear is only an imaginary perception,a sort of negative feeling and not reality.most of our fears are implanted in our subconscious mind and we are not aware of the reasons.the only way to get rid of them is to face them boldly.when you start acting boldly such fears gradualy disappear.i shal give you an example.Supose u are afraid of darkness.You know fuly wel darknes is nothing but absence of LIGHT.The place was filled with light is now dark bcoz of its absence.only light is absent otherwise the place remains the same.Then what is there to fear?nothng.inspite of your reasoning it continues to haunt you.Then how does one drive away fear to become fearles?Go into the darknes,boldly,determined to face watever might happen to you.Once you take this step and venture into the darkness,fear wil leave you for the simple reason that you experience,that darknes has no power to harm you.REPEAT THE SAME ACT SEVERAL TIMES UNTIL YOU ARE TOTALLY FEARLESS.
The same approach applies to any type of fear that haunts you.start doing the things you fear and repeat it until you become fearless.By the law of averages most things we think will happen,never happen at all.by g.c gonsan.i hope that helps.
There are so methods,techniques i can write but am sure you'll find what you need on this website.gota go...have chimpanzis to feed.Aystacs
US women, especially, want WAY too much from us.
