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Don Juan
The following is a scale of how interest level works. Doc Love talks about interest level a lot, and it seems that romantic interest is in the 50%+ area. To those that wanted a scale to add to the DJ bible, newbies to this board, or Master DJs that just want to broaden their knowledge, or comment, I present to you my version of the interest level scale.
Interest level scale
100% -- She thinks of you as her one true love, and shows it in every way.
Now back in reality, this does not exist, and is as likely as having a HB that everyone in the world can agree is a perfect 10. This will never happen cause we all know Pook will not agree any girl is a 10, so that is not a 100% world population vote.
90-99% -- She is really hot for you, and your presence turns her on. She will jump at any opportunity to be with you, and is always happy when you are around. She thinks of you as her hero.
Good work fellow DJ! J
80-89% -- You are in the green zone. Everything is peachy, and things are going well. The relationship is good, and the sex is good. Disputes are rare, and often resolved quickly and easily. She enjoys your time, and has the deepest respect for you.
You can boost her interest level by being slightly more of a challenge, and doing more spontaneous things. You don’t want to let things get boring and predictable now do we?
70-79% -- This is the green/yellow zone for the DJ, but for our AFC, its still well in the green. With this amount of interest, the girl is well into you, and enjoys your company. However, she feels that in the back of her mind, she may be able to do better. Comparative psychology kicks in here, and her female logic may start up. She may throw some tests at you now and then at a subconscious level to see how manly you are.
At this point, DO NOT PUT HER ON A PETASTOOL UNDER ANY CIRCOMSTANCES!!! Some neg hits now and then may help. Be more ****y and funny, and keep phone conversations to a minimum and only to set up dates. Over the phone, you can’t display things like eye contact, kino, or body language to show you are an alpha male, and the longer you talk, the more AFC you look. Proximity plays a lot for attraction. Keep it short, sweet, and don’t try and impress her. She has to feel she has to impress you. Make sure at this point, you look out for number one, YOUR SELF! Act like you enjoy having her around, but she is not at the top of your lists on priorities. Remain challenging, don’t let anything she says get to you, bother, or phase you. Show social proof, be mysterious, spontaneous, and put your DJ skills to work.
60-69% -- Yellow zone! At this point, the girl thinks of you with potential, but her interest level is iffy. She will do lots of things to test what kind of a man you are, and see how you handle situations. Girls with this much interest seem flaky quite often, but are actually more sinister. Girls with this interest, or show this amount of interest quite often get AFCs on a string. She will flirt with you, and think sexually about you. However, don’t expect her to call you up, and always want you to hang around her.
She feels the man still has to prove himself to her (by not proving yourself to her, and making her feel she has to prove herself to you). Female logic at its best! (but she won’t admit that, so don’t ask girls for advice on what they want.) Lots of girls seem to start around this interest level when you meet them provided you did your DJing well when you met. Some higher, some lower, but you get the idea. You don’t want your relationship to be stuck here though. Lots of AFCs that get into relationships are eternally stuck here at best. The girl will feel she could do better, and you are the back up. The trick is to not be around her all the time. Show you have a life, and are able to take care of yourself. You don’t need her, but if she is with you, she will see what you are about. You are a man, a positive, outgoing strong individual that will enrich her world. Man do the picking, but women do the choosing.
50-59% -- RED ZONE!!! Its still salvageable, but you have to play your cards right. She feels attracted to you, but has doubts in her mind, and isn’t sure where it will go. When you see her, she may be happy to see you, and you get along great. Heavy flirting and even sex may happen. Although, she seems to have to take off early sometimes, or something came up. The time you spend together seems enjoyable, but she isn’t as available as she SHOULD be. Random things come up now and then, and although she doesn‘t have time for you, she has time for her friends.
Don’t take anything personally at this point. A girl like this will attract AFCs well because it quite often toys with their hopes. STOP CALLING HER 10 TIMES A DAY OR YOU WILL MESS THIS UP!!! The trick here is make yourself less available. Give her less attention, and give other girls more attention. Toss a few neg hits, and be more ****y, and for gods sakes, READ THE DJ BIBLE! Don’t call her for a week or two, and don’t act depressed or desperate. DO NOT TELL HER HOW SPECIAL SHE IS OR HOW WONDERFUL SHE MAKES YOU FEEL!! That is total BS and you know it. She is not making you feel good. If you are an AFC, she is toying with your emotions and hopes. If you are a DJ, it’s a more challenging situation to put your skills to the test, and see if you can get her interest level up. Besides who needs her? There are over 3 billion other girls out there. The most important part if her IL is this high (and some girls you meet will start with this much interest) is make sure you don’t look desperate. They can smell it a mile away, and they think it stinks. Desperation = creepy dude, get away. Aloft = I wonder if I can get his attention?
40-49% -- Point of no return AKA friends zone. At this point, the wise thing to do is next her. The sexual energy isn’t there, or is gone. At best, she thinks of you as a friend, but doesn’t think of you in a romantic way. She may still call you up to help her move her couch, borrow money, or be the sympathetic crying shoulder (emotional tampon) when her X con X boyfriend dumped her. If you are still around her, you are nothing more then an ego boost, and its not healthy for you. Lots of AFCs waste years of their lives in this zone. They don’t get any action other then the occasional hug, cuddle on the couch, or peck on the cheek.
If all you want with this girl is just to be friends, that’s cool. However realize that that is all you are, and don’t get hopeful of anything else coming out of it. Don’t do nice things for her hoping that she will think you are sweet, and feel more romantically for you. That is not how things work. If she is a friend, treat her like one. If she was a guy with the personality she has, would you want her as a friend? AFCs have a habit of letting friends with p*ssys push them around more, even if they won’t take sh!it from a 300 pound psycho killer.
30-39% -- This is what I call the “Why are you still putting up with this chick?” zone. At this point, the girl will porously go out of her way to avoid you.
You should have already picked up all the signs and moved on. She is probably referring to you as “this annoying guy that won’t leave me alone”. She won’t say it to your face though. The reason for that is not because she is “to nice to do something like that” as she would say, but rather she is to disrespectful to be honest and say it straight out. If the worst case scenario comes up, you are always an ego boost to her.
20-29% -- This level of interest is only achievable if you are either forced to be together through marriage, work, school, or other places/situations of that nature. She is repelled by you, and being in the same room makes her sick.
She will find things purposely just to put you down. She can only think of the bad things you did, and has little to no respect for you. She can tolerate being with you only because of work, kids, friends or parental influences. Gold diggers may actually stick around to this level, feign sexual interest, and still say nothing provided they are getting lots of cash and nice gifts, but if they could divorce with half your estate, they are gone!
10-19% -- If you have sunk this low, you are a work of art and a dying, yet sick breed. The girl you are still lingering around or stalking thinks of you as a joke, and an absolute loser. If ever she speaks about you ever, she insults you, and says what a creep you are. You are a true women repellant.
Have some dignity, get a life, leave that poor girl alone, and don’t act so sickeningly depressed. Stop stalking her, and giving her freaky looks. The only way you have a chance with any women is if you get your act together.
0-9% -- if you managed this, you are a very very bad man… You must have done something extremely terrible to her, or someone she cared about. She is frightened of you, and hates you with a cold agonizing fire. You have caused her much suffering and pain.
Most in this category end up in jails for murders, rapes, or other terrorist acts. Most women never hate guys this much.
Hope this info helped to clear up any questions on female interests.
Interest level scale
100% -- She thinks of you as her one true love, and shows it in every way.
Now back in reality, this does not exist, and is as likely as having a HB that everyone in the world can agree is a perfect 10. This will never happen cause we all know Pook will not agree any girl is a 10, so that is not a 100% world population vote.
90-99% -- She is really hot for you, and your presence turns her on. She will jump at any opportunity to be with you, and is always happy when you are around. She thinks of you as her hero.
Good work fellow DJ! J
80-89% -- You are in the green zone. Everything is peachy, and things are going well. The relationship is good, and the sex is good. Disputes are rare, and often resolved quickly and easily. She enjoys your time, and has the deepest respect for you.
You can boost her interest level by being slightly more of a challenge, and doing more spontaneous things. You don’t want to let things get boring and predictable now do we?
70-79% -- This is the green/yellow zone for the DJ, but for our AFC, its still well in the green. With this amount of interest, the girl is well into you, and enjoys your company. However, she feels that in the back of her mind, she may be able to do better. Comparative psychology kicks in here, and her female logic may start up. She may throw some tests at you now and then at a subconscious level to see how manly you are.
At this point, DO NOT PUT HER ON A PETASTOOL UNDER ANY CIRCOMSTANCES!!! Some neg hits now and then may help. Be more ****y and funny, and keep phone conversations to a minimum and only to set up dates. Over the phone, you can’t display things like eye contact, kino, or body language to show you are an alpha male, and the longer you talk, the more AFC you look. Proximity plays a lot for attraction. Keep it short, sweet, and don’t try and impress her. She has to feel she has to impress you. Make sure at this point, you look out for number one, YOUR SELF! Act like you enjoy having her around, but she is not at the top of your lists on priorities. Remain challenging, don’t let anything she says get to you, bother, or phase you. Show social proof, be mysterious, spontaneous, and put your DJ skills to work.
60-69% -- Yellow zone! At this point, the girl thinks of you with potential, but her interest level is iffy. She will do lots of things to test what kind of a man you are, and see how you handle situations. Girls with this much interest seem flaky quite often, but are actually more sinister. Girls with this interest, or show this amount of interest quite often get AFCs on a string. She will flirt with you, and think sexually about you. However, don’t expect her to call you up, and always want you to hang around her.
She feels the man still has to prove himself to her (by not proving yourself to her, and making her feel she has to prove herself to you). Female logic at its best! (but she won’t admit that, so don’t ask girls for advice on what they want.) Lots of girls seem to start around this interest level when you meet them provided you did your DJing well when you met. Some higher, some lower, but you get the idea. You don’t want your relationship to be stuck here though. Lots of AFCs that get into relationships are eternally stuck here at best. The girl will feel she could do better, and you are the back up. The trick is to not be around her all the time. Show you have a life, and are able to take care of yourself. You don’t need her, but if she is with you, she will see what you are about. You are a man, a positive, outgoing strong individual that will enrich her world. Man do the picking, but women do the choosing.
50-59% -- RED ZONE!!! Its still salvageable, but you have to play your cards right. She feels attracted to you, but has doubts in her mind, and isn’t sure where it will go. When you see her, she may be happy to see you, and you get along great. Heavy flirting and even sex may happen. Although, she seems to have to take off early sometimes, or something came up. The time you spend together seems enjoyable, but she isn’t as available as she SHOULD be. Random things come up now and then, and although she doesn‘t have time for you, she has time for her friends.
Don’t take anything personally at this point. A girl like this will attract AFCs well because it quite often toys with their hopes. STOP CALLING HER 10 TIMES A DAY OR YOU WILL MESS THIS UP!!! The trick here is make yourself less available. Give her less attention, and give other girls more attention. Toss a few neg hits, and be more ****y, and for gods sakes, READ THE DJ BIBLE! Don’t call her for a week or two, and don’t act depressed or desperate. DO NOT TELL HER HOW SPECIAL SHE IS OR HOW WONDERFUL SHE MAKES YOU FEEL!! That is total BS and you know it. She is not making you feel good. If you are an AFC, she is toying with your emotions and hopes. If you are a DJ, it’s a more challenging situation to put your skills to the test, and see if you can get her interest level up. Besides who needs her? There are over 3 billion other girls out there. The most important part if her IL is this high (and some girls you meet will start with this much interest) is make sure you don’t look desperate. They can smell it a mile away, and they think it stinks. Desperation = creepy dude, get away. Aloft = I wonder if I can get his attention?
40-49% -- Point of no return AKA friends zone. At this point, the wise thing to do is next her. The sexual energy isn’t there, or is gone. At best, she thinks of you as a friend, but doesn’t think of you in a romantic way. She may still call you up to help her move her couch, borrow money, or be the sympathetic crying shoulder (emotional tampon) when her X con X boyfriend dumped her. If you are still around her, you are nothing more then an ego boost, and its not healthy for you. Lots of AFCs waste years of their lives in this zone. They don’t get any action other then the occasional hug, cuddle on the couch, or peck on the cheek.
If all you want with this girl is just to be friends, that’s cool. However realize that that is all you are, and don’t get hopeful of anything else coming out of it. Don’t do nice things for her hoping that she will think you are sweet, and feel more romantically for you. That is not how things work. If she is a friend, treat her like one. If she was a guy with the personality she has, would you want her as a friend? AFCs have a habit of letting friends with p*ssys push them around more, even if they won’t take sh!it from a 300 pound psycho killer.
30-39% -- This is what I call the “Why are you still putting up with this chick?” zone. At this point, the girl will porously go out of her way to avoid you.
You should have already picked up all the signs and moved on. She is probably referring to you as “this annoying guy that won’t leave me alone”. She won’t say it to your face though. The reason for that is not because she is “to nice to do something like that” as she would say, but rather she is to disrespectful to be honest and say it straight out. If the worst case scenario comes up, you are always an ego boost to her.
20-29% -- This level of interest is only achievable if you are either forced to be together through marriage, work, school, or other places/situations of that nature. She is repelled by you, and being in the same room makes her sick.
She will find things purposely just to put you down. She can only think of the bad things you did, and has little to no respect for you. She can tolerate being with you only because of work, kids, friends or parental influences. Gold diggers may actually stick around to this level, feign sexual interest, and still say nothing provided they are getting lots of cash and nice gifts, but if they could divorce with half your estate, they are gone!
10-19% -- If you have sunk this low, you are a work of art and a dying, yet sick breed. The girl you are still lingering around or stalking thinks of you as a joke, and an absolute loser. If ever she speaks about you ever, she insults you, and says what a creep you are. You are a true women repellant.
Have some dignity, get a life, leave that poor girl alone, and don’t act so sickeningly depressed. Stop stalking her, and giving her freaky looks. The only way you have a chance with any women is if you get your act together.
0-9% -- if you managed this, you are a very very bad man… You must have done something extremely terrible to her, or someone she cared about. She is frightened of you, and hates you with a cold agonizing fire. You have caused her much suffering and pain.
Most in this category end up in jails for murders, rapes, or other terrorist acts. Most women never hate guys this much.
Hope this info helped to clear up any questions on female interests.
