Why do I feel like this?

DonJuan11

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Why do I always feel that girls never want to have sex and when they do, they only want it with 6'1 hockey players and models? I always think girls hate sex and will only have it with you after you court them for 6 months. We have the equipment and we want it all the time. Why would they want it when they don't even have the equipment?

Does anyone else feel like this?
 

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DonJuan11 said:
Why do I always feel that girls never want to have sex and when they do, they only want it with 6'1 hockey players and models? I always think girls hate sex and will only have it with you after you court them for 6 months. We have the equipment and we want it all the time. Why would they want it when they don't even have the equipment?

Does anyone else feel like this?
Don't let anyone confuse you, girls want it just as bad as guys. Just who is more than likely to give them that screaming orgasm, A big muscular guy or a weakling? From the get go people who are closer to weakling are at a disadvantage, but that doesn't have to mean you won't get intimate. If you've already had some positive experiences with woman, feed your ego with those.

I thought this entire forum was about getting confidence with woman. Just buck up and don't worry about the ones that get away.
 

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I can confirm...

WE WANT IT JUST AS BAD.

Unless I'm odd.
 

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Again, social conditioning comes up.

Ever heard the guy in high school crack the dirty comment that all the guys laughed at and all the girls blushed? The girls secretly loved it, unless it was something creepy.
 

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I've had sex with women I've known in a week. While girls compliment me on my muscular form and have said I'm good looking, before I've learned all this stuff I never even got a kiss from a girl, and even when interest did materialize it quickly faded away a week after. Just learn the material and continue to improve your game and you'll soon have a new perspective.
 

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DonJuan11 said:
Why do I always feel that girls never want to have sex and when they do, they only want it with 6'1 hockey players and models? I always think girls hate sex and will only have it with you after you court them for 6 months. We have the equipment and we want it all the time. Why would they want it when they don't even have the equipment?

Does anyone else feel like this?
Because it's true, they don't want sex anywhere near as much as guys. If you're talking about them wanting an ego boost, validation, social power, bragging to friends etc. then yes I think they are driven by that. I see women as social creatures, not sexual creatures. Which explains how they reject guys they are attracted to because they deem it unworthy to give up their sacred vagina.

I don't buy into the slut factor thing. Girls often dress up sluttily in view of the public and their friends when they go out, even if they are just going to reject every guy that wants them. So they set themselves up to be labelled sluts by their dressing method yet they aren't even doing anything slutty, so it's a bad return for doing nothing. Yet they could dress nice, act unslutty etc. yet act slutty with guys behind closed doors and nobody would know or judge them for it, so they would get lots of fun at the return of no slut label.

Yet many girls seem to dress slutty and enjoy rejecting guys rather than not dressing slutty and actually giving guys sex much more easily and regularly. So that relates to my point above, about how they are social creatures and not very sexual compared to the sex drive of a man.

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Baruch said:
Women want sex equally as much as men. But alot of it also depends on attractivenes off the guy, social status, etc...
That's just not true, I explained above why, but also when you factor in that women have it on a plate so easy that also devalues sex and makes them less bothered about it. Infact, the fact that guys are always doing the chasing points at a distinct imbalance in desire. There's no evidence that suggests women want it as much other than what a book or a guru might say. Guys don't care about BS like social status and whatnot, they judge the girl on the girl. Girl's aren't even capable of doing that, they need others to validate the guy for her aka jealousy tactics.

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Girls do want it just as much as guys, sometimes even more. Just that the standards women hold for men take longer to unscrew than for men. Men can decide to have sex with a woman just by looking at them, women it takes a process. The reason is because what attracts the opposite sex is different for males and females. Just because women are more resistant doesn't mean they don't want it; they're just rejecting you.
 

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DonJuan11 said:
Why do I always feel that girls never want to have sex and when they do, they only want it with 6'1 hockey players and models? I always think girls hate sex and will only have it with you after you court them for 6 months. We have the equipment and we want it all the time. Why would they want it when they don't even have the equipment?

Does anyone else feel like this?
Man you gotta get out there...CHICKS LOVE LOVE LOVE LOVE LOVE LOVE SEX, I wish I could describe to you how serious it is that chicks love sex, its safe to say 24/7 they think about it.

Social Conditioning is the main reason why you don't see it as openly because they will be judged as a slut. Women will play hard to get, act like they dislike sex, and overall act like they dislike you because they want to look high value.

First thing you must realize is...

A chick has something call a **** which is only used for pleasure. Imagine the urges you feel times 1,000. Anything that even contacts the chicks ****, she can feel. I've spoke to a lot of chicks and everyone of them masturbate, they always speak about how good it feels sitting on a horse (not my dik a real horse) or the shower head hitting there ****.

I'm a pretty non-judgmental guy so women open up big time to me and the way chicks act when your about to *** its almost like I've been set up. All this time she wanted me to seduce her because she wants the validation of getting my *** to hit her tongue. Think of vampries going crazy trying to get blood.

I remember telling a story about how I once came all over this chicks house and how it hit the door and everything, this chicks eyes lit the fuk up as if I was saying I would do that to her. I've had girls sit there listening to conversations with me and my friends about what I'd do sexually, and when I talk about having chicks sit on my face, and how much I eat puss, these chicks act like they not paying attention and even agree with my friends that its nasty...

...As soon as my friends leave the area these chicks bring back up everything I said and actually stats that they love how sexually free I am.

Then there was the time I hung out with 5 lesbians and a sh!tload of bi-sexual and bi-curious chicks. (This was the greatest experience) These chicks told me so many stories and basically fuked more chicks back when I was in that school more than all the guys put together.

I'm talking about stories of them using strap-ons, girls eating each other out in the girls bathroom, all the girls who are bi-sexual, all the girls they are converting, telling me how at one girls house all you'll see is used condoms and ky jelly on the floor. I'm telling you it would scare alot of guys away and most guys aren't ready to see how sexual a chick is.

I remember actually witnessing a transformation of this one girl who I used to mess with and how she was in a battle between social conditioning and sex. This chick used to say giving head was nasty, eating a chick out was nasty, and everyone believed this. I was the only one saying she'd do all that stuff because every girl would do it, the LOVE sex. A month later she tells me how she gave head before, she is bi-curious and wants to experience it, she wants her cooch ate and want to eat cooh.

Another chick I ended up in a store with and she wanted to see my dik after we were dirty talking right in the food court. It got really tense to the point where I could've went in the bathroom and fuked her hardcore.

The thing is women only bring this side out depending on the guy. All girls are willing to get down and dirty because thats what they love, but thanks to social conditioning they'd never put it out there just like that. They want the guy to lead and take full responsibility for everything that happens. I remember a big reality shift was about public sex. EVERY chick would do it if that right guy is with her.

I've known chicks who've...fuked on a public train, beach, behind a tree on a busy road, bus stop, stairwell, classroom, etc. Any guy who doubts girls are sexual don't get it yet and still have awhile to go. Up to this day some of my friends are talking to chicks we know that have told me there most kinky stories and only I know lol.
 

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Mad Manic said:
That's just not true, I explained above why, but also when you factor in that women have it on a plate so easy that also devalues sex and makes them less bothered about it. Infact, the fact that guys are always doing the chasing points at a distinct imbalance in desire. There's no evidence that suggests women want it as much other than what a book or a guru might say. Guys don't care about BS like social status and whatnot, they judge the girl on the girl. Girl's aren't even capable of doing that, they need others to validate the guy for her aka jealousy tactics.

MM
HOw about what a WOMAN might say??? YES WE DO want it as much and sometimes more than men. How do you know??? Maybe you're just getting rejected.

War Against Betaism explained it perfectly.
 

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I can't exactly confirm that girls want sex more than guys for sure, nor have I seen scientific evidence explaining this, other than from a guru saying this (just as you said) all I know is that some girls I know (not all) LOVE SEX. Are horny for it all the time 24/7 all they think about, all they talk about, almost the main or one of the main reasons they go out with guys is because of sex....
but then again I know girls who either never had sex, nor have sex, don't crave sex or have sex once in a blue moon and never have sex again for a long time and don't crave it enough to go find some dik....
So saying that every single girl in the entire world loves SEX more than guys IMO is Untrue....
 

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Lol snow plowman i was gonna ask where in the galaxy you live where girls are this way...i see ur from NY

Bro, if I was sure of what you just said - I would pack all my $hit right NOW and move to New York.
 

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SunnyD said:
War Against Betaism explained it perfectly.
He explained that girls have a larger list of criteria when deciding whether to have sex with a guy and that they are socially conditioned, this suggests they don't want sex anywhere near as much because guys are the hungry pursuers without a huge list of criteria.

If you want it so bad why aren't you cold approaching guys and asking them for sex then? Why are you rejecting good guys who are better than you? It's all to do with ego boosts, power, social dominance, etc. and not sex. Women always seem to open their legs as a trade for something. That's why they hold out for the best guy they can get rather than fvcking all 10 that they like. Women are social creatures, not sexual creatures.

It doesn't make sense why women always seem to avoid sex, play hard to get, put up resistance etc. if they love it so much. In a room with the guy 1 on 1 why on earth put up resistance? She doesn't want it enough.

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DJ1234 said:
I can't exactly confirm that girls want sex more than guys for sure, nor have I seen scientific evidence explaining this, other than from a guru saying this (just as you said) all I know is that some girls I know (not all) LOVE SEX. Are horny for it all the time 24/7 all they think about, all they talk about, almost the main or one of the main reasons they go out with guys is because of sex....
but then again I know girls who either never had sex, nor have sex, don't crave sex or have sex once in a blue moon and never have sex again for a long time and don't crave it enough to go find some dik....
So saying that every single girl in the entire world loves SEX more than guys IMO is Untrue....
Exactly there are just far too many that avoid sex and reject men THEY ARE ATTRACTED TO to suggest they love sex as much as men.

To Sunny D, I've heard this quote before, "I find that guy attractive but I wouldn't have sex with him" from girls. This tells me they really have little interest in sex compared to a guy.

It's one thing saying you're hungry when a top class meal happens to arrive on your table and you eat it all but it's another thing when you're hungry and you go hunting for bread to eat.

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HOw about what a WOMAN might say??? YES WE DO want it as much and sometimes more than men. How do you know???
Then why does it take a woman 6 months to decide to have sex with a guy and it takes a guy 8 seconds? Guys can be ready to go anytime to have sex while a girl it takes months and months of preparation, they have to be in mood, the setting has to be right, etc, etc, etc.

I've been with a few girls that say they only have sex when they are in mood and that was once every other Tuesday while watching Friends and eating strawberries. If you tried to have sex with them after Friends, they would reject it because they were simply not in the mood after Friends.

It gets frustrating.
 

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this is great! haven't been on sosuave for a couple months and when i get back here you are again, DonJuan11 and Mad Manic rambling about women not wanting to/not enjoying sex...

so i m guessing you guys haven't got laid in the meantime? :nono:
 

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DonJuan11, I'm sorry man, but you still have quite a bit of learning to do. Women LOVE sex.

My girlfriend would have sex with me 20x a day if I could get it up that many times. I wouldn't even have to put on Barry White and light a thousand candles to do it either. She'd do it with me on a cold dirt floor.
 

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Yeah sorry Mad Manic and DonJuan11...you must be meeting the wrong women.

I think about sex all the time, I watch porn, I get myself off if I'm not getting any, I contemplate having a FWB with an ******* ex-bf just to get some. I'd have sex 3+ times a day if I were in a relationship right now.

Yes I LOVE and CRAVE sex...HOWEVER, I am not DESPERATE for it. There is a difference. I'm not going to go ask "Terry the Tech" to go bang in the supply room just because he's the only option.

It's like a breakfast joint. I LOVE breakfast and will eat it anytime of the day or night. If I'm out in the city craving breakfast and my favorite joint is closed and the only other option is Golden Griddle where I know there are mice and roaches in the kitchen and food picked up from the floor and served...I'll pass and go make my own at home.
 

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SunnyD said:
Yeah sorry Mad Manic and DonJuan11...you must be meeting the wrong women.

I think about sex all the time, I watch porn, I get myself off if I'm not getting any, I contemplate having a FWB with an ******* ex-bf just to get some. I'd have sex 3+ times a day if I were in a relationship right now.
How old are you?
 
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