boynamedsue
Don Juan
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- Mar 30, 2010
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Was off and on with a girl for years. We've been broken up now for 3 months or so. We were still goin out every two weeks or so till she started saying she was too busy two times in a row. I then said ok, well you call me to go out now bc I've tryed twice already. I knew she wasn't going to call, which she didn't. I then went no contact.
She texts me something about my job and I responded short. She then tells our mutual friend that she thinks I was a jerk for being short with her on the text (I know go figure)? She then tells her that she doesn't want to give me the wrong idea (don't know what she's implying) which is why she didn't call me to ask me out when she said she would. She then an hour later calls our mutual friend again and says how she's missing me and can't stop thinkn about me.
I for some reason became mad.. I'm tired of her being uncertain and not telling me what she's thinking. I decided to text her to call me.
She calls and right away I get to the point. I asked "is there something you want to tell me?" She said "why have you been a jerk lately?" I said I'm being straight forward. Is there something you want to tell me? She says no.? I said fine well ill talk to you another time and just hung up.
She then texts me asking why I'm being a jerk. I said "when ur ready to open up we can try this again without the rudeness.". She said I would be open if u weren't rude. I said "that's not how I was trying to come off. Call me tonite and well try this again.". She said ok. The thing I'm confused about is I already know/knew she wasn't going to call. Why does she say she is when we both know she isn't? Its more than just her not being able to say no. Any ideas?
She texts me something about my job and I responded short. She then tells our mutual friend that she thinks I was a jerk for being short with her on the text (I know go figure)? She then tells her that she doesn't want to give me the wrong idea (don't know what she's implying) which is why she didn't call me to ask me out when she said she would. She then an hour later calls our mutual friend again and says how she's missing me and can't stop thinkn about me.
I for some reason became mad.. I'm tired of her being uncertain and not telling me what she's thinking. I decided to text her to call me.
She calls and right away I get to the point. I asked "is there something you want to tell me?" She said "why have you been a jerk lately?" I said I'm being straight forward. Is there something you want to tell me? She says no.? I said fine well ill talk to you another time and just hung up.
She then texts me asking why I'm being a jerk. I said "when ur ready to open up we can try this again without the rudeness.". She said I would be open if u weren't rude. I said "that's not how I was trying to come off. Call me tonite and well try this again.". She said ok. The thing I'm confused about is I already know/knew she wasn't going to call. Why does she say she is when we both know she isn't? Its more than just her not being able to say no. Any ideas?
