I've opted out of marriage. Never felt ready to have kids, and it's kind of late now. I enjoy LTRs as long as it is with a cool chick who meets my requirements. I made money for myself. If someone else can get some enjoyment out of it, that's a bonus.
Never understood the whole "I'll be poor, that'll show those b!tches" attitude.
I confess I'm not as civic or community minded as I could be. I'm not proud of that, but I'm more of a loner at heart.
I do think it is a shame that we're losing the family in western culture. That's not going to end well. A lot of the problem is a lack of morality, but the "manosphere" generally spits on the idea of morality, so they don't help either.