Joe The Homophobe
Master Don Juan
I'm just wondering what made you guys say TO HELL WITH THIS when it comes to your women problems and overall decision to change your ways. It could be your decision to stop being a nice guy, or to sarge, to learn PUA techniques, change your style etc. What happened? obviously this would take a little bit of soul searching and talking about "feelings" and stuff, but we are allowed to once in a while
I thought this would be a good exercise to get to know each other better and maybe provide better advice. Be honest though. Say something about the present and how things are now.
I have made 2 big decisions when it comes to women.
Why I started sargin
Mine was basically being a lazy procrastinator when it came to women. I'm a procrastinator with everything and the only times I had gf's was basically being at the right place at the right time. I have a lot of hobbies so I kept myself busy with them and didn't really see a need for a girlfriend. I thought I should just wait for another lucky situation where I would get asked out by a girl or through her friends. But then again God made Women so man wouldn't be lonely and even if you have hundreds of friends, you will still crave the touch and companionship of a good woman, just the way we are engineered I guess. I saw time pass by and I became a butt of jokes because when you're good looking and you don't have a gf people either think (and call you) gay or a metrosexual. So I got tired of the usual teasing from buddies. I never liked going to parties I hate b|tches and hos so those type of girls are not my type. This obviously cut my chances of meeting girls by like 80%. I just had to make a change because I was either gonna wait "to be at the right place at the right time" again for another 2 or so years, or just grab my balls and sarge. So I started sarging college campuses. For once in my life I had to actually work to get women myself, and not rely on good looks and the luck involved in girls getting the courage to ask me out directly or indirectly.
My other decision: NO MARIAGE! (well, not with an American one)
I lost the respect I had for women I really did. When I was a nice guy I believed in being a gentlemen and all that stuff because I believed women were special. Why should I be a gentleman to these HORS? just browse myspace and tell me how many female profiles you see which have pictures of the girl at some bar getting pissed drunk. Why should I be a "gentleman" to some hors that on the weekends get pissed drunk, puke and all that stuff and that is their idea of "fun." How can I be a gentleman to these HORS who on their profile which is their window to the world post such pictures? I would say 6 out of 10 female profiles have some reference to this. Where is their value? THEY HAVE NO VALUE! A woman's value is in their charm, morals, and the way they carry themselves (looks too). A woman without those qualities is just a walking vagina. Sure you find good hearted girls....IN THE 1950'S!
Being a gentlemen/nice guy to women got me nowhere, in fact it took me the opposite direction. As much as I didn't want to believe that women weren't so screwed up in the head to actually dislike gentlemen (in terms of what they want in a romantic partner) I realized it was true. Women don't like gentlemen/nice guys and this is not something they want in a romantic partner. Realizing this changed my life. Imagine one day walking around and realizing "you know what, just the way I carry myself makes me unattractive to women, but all I am is a decent, nice guy." It would be the same as if some hippi realized he was hated by women because he likes to save trees which is a good quality. Imagine being an intelligent guy and realizing women hate intelligence which is a good quality. I felt discriminated against FOR A GOOD QUALITY OF MINE!. So how can I marry women who actually discriminate against my very essence? this made me decide I just can't marry an American woman. Why should I when there are still plenty of traditional women from oversees who appreciate my good qualities.
This could also explain why I lost respect for women. They are just screwed up in the head. When they shun good qualities that is just screwed up in the head.
The Present
So right now I don't go out of my way to be nice, I don't go out of my way to be charming. I just behave normal and still refuse to behave like a jerk even though I know it would help me (but it would help me attract the type of females I don't want, which unfortunately are 90% of females). Recently I read a book called "mode one" which basically says be direct with women, tell them your intentions and if they don't like it, to hell with them! that method allowed me to still be a gentleman and not have to waste my time with women.
I thought this would be a good exercise to get to know each other better and maybe provide better advice. Be honest though. Say something about the present and how things are now.
I have made 2 big decisions when it comes to women.
Why I started sargin
Mine was basically being a lazy procrastinator when it came to women. I'm a procrastinator with everything and the only times I had gf's was basically being at the right place at the right time. I have a lot of hobbies so I kept myself busy with them and didn't really see a need for a girlfriend. I thought I should just wait for another lucky situation where I would get asked out by a girl or through her friends. But then again God made Women so man wouldn't be lonely and even if you have hundreds of friends, you will still crave the touch and companionship of a good woman, just the way we are engineered I guess. I saw time pass by and I became a butt of jokes because when you're good looking and you don't have a gf people either think (and call you) gay or a metrosexual. So I got tired of the usual teasing from buddies. I never liked going to parties I hate b|tches and hos so those type of girls are not my type. This obviously cut my chances of meeting girls by like 80%. I just had to make a change because I was either gonna wait "to be at the right place at the right time" again for another 2 or so years, or just grab my balls and sarge. So I started sarging college campuses. For once in my life I had to actually work to get women myself, and not rely on good looks and the luck involved in girls getting the courage to ask me out directly or indirectly.
My other decision: NO MARIAGE! (well, not with an American one)
I lost the respect I had for women I really did. When I was a nice guy I believed in being a gentlemen and all that stuff because I believed women were special. Why should I be a gentleman to these HORS? just browse myspace and tell me how many female profiles you see which have pictures of the girl at some bar getting pissed drunk. Why should I be a "gentleman" to some hors that on the weekends get pissed drunk, puke and all that stuff and that is their idea of "fun." How can I be a gentleman to these HORS who on their profile which is their window to the world post such pictures? I would say 6 out of 10 female profiles have some reference to this. Where is their value? THEY HAVE NO VALUE! A woman's value is in their charm, morals, and the way they carry themselves (looks too). A woman without those qualities is just a walking vagina. Sure you find good hearted girls....IN THE 1950'S!
Being a gentlemen/nice guy to women got me nowhere, in fact it took me the opposite direction. As much as I didn't want to believe that women weren't so screwed up in the head to actually dislike gentlemen (in terms of what they want in a romantic partner) I realized it was true. Women don't like gentlemen/nice guys and this is not something they want in a romantic partner. Realizing this changed my life. Imagine one day walking around and realizing "you know what, just the way I carry myself makes me unattractive to women, but all I am is a decent, nice guy." It would be the same as if some hippi realized he was hated by women because he likes to save trees which is a good quality. Imagine being an intelligent guy and realizing women hate intelligence which is a good quality. I felt discriminated against FOR A GOOD QUALITY OF MINE!. So how can I marry women who actually discriminate against my very essence? this made me decide I just can't marry an American woman. Why should I when there are still plenty of traditional women from oversees who appreciate my good qualities.
This could also explain why I lost respect for women. They are just screwed up in the head. When they shun good qualities that is just screwed up in the head.
The Present
So right now I don't go out of my way to be nice, I don't go out of my way to be charming. I just behave normal and still refuse to behave like a jerk even though I know it would help me (but it would help me attract the type of females I don't want, which unfortunately are 90% of females). Recently I read a book called "mode one" which basically says be direct with women, tell them your intentions and if they don't like it, to hell with them! that method allowed me to still be a gentleman and not have to waste my time with women.
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