TheVirtualMind
Master Don Juan
A simple, straight forward question that would be answered by a LOT of people on here without a thought. However, that isn't the case.
What brought you here?
Want to answer? Don't. Yet.
Think for a second. A minute. What REALLY brought you here? Is it to learn how to pick up women? Improve your confidence? Finally feel like you found a bunch of people who are going through the same things you are? Feeling the same ways you do?
People come here for the exact same reason, yet have totally different results. Others come here for one reason, yet discover a second, a third, and a fourth reason why they are here.
"But Virtual, I came here to learn to get girls."
Really man? Is that the ONLY reason you came here?
"Well...Yeah. I mean, I wanted to learn to be more confident, of course..."
Before I joined under this pseudonym, I had another. I have seen hundreds, if not thousands of members come and go during my (here we go...) over ten years of time on here. I started off in this VERY forum. That is why I am still here. I want to give back to the place that set me on the path. Unfortunately, the group I came up with is not here anymore.
One thing that made some people become better, more experienced, and who were looked up more was simple. They knew why they came here. It wasn't "I want to learn to get girls." It was "I want to gain confidence." "I want to learn how to read signals." "I want to learn some psychology."
Your complete, main goal might be to learn how to score with chicks. I get that. Great. However, if you keep it at that level, you will have a very hard time succeeding. Think. Criticize yourself. Why are you here?
Can't go up and talk to a crowd of people, let alone a single female? Boost that confidence. Have a hard time getting out what you want to say? Become a better speaker. Having a difficult time in life right now? Get that morale up and learn how to cope. There is a reason you came to sosuave.net. A reason why you read some threads. Why you clicked "Sign Up" and created your virtual account, letting you speak to others in your very situation.
Now, take a minute and ask yourself...
What brought me here?
What brought you here?
Want to answer? Don't. Yet.
Think for a second. A minute. What REALLY brought you here? Is it to learn how to pick up women? Improve your confidence? Finally feel like you found a bunch of people who are going through the same things you are? Feeling the same ways you do?
People come here for the exact same reason, yet have totally different results. Others come here for one reason, yet discover a second, a third, and a fourth reason why they are here.
"But Virtual, I came here to learn to get girls."
Really man? Is that the ONLY reason you came here?
"Well...Yeah. I mean, I wanted to learn to be more confident, of course..."
Before I joined under this pseudonym, I had another. I have seen hundreds, if not thousands of members come and go during my (here we go...) over ten years of time on here. I started off in this VERY forum. That is why I am still here. I want to give back to the place that set me on the path. Unfortunately, the group I came up with is not here anymore.
One thing that made some people become better, more experienced, and who were looked up more was simple. They knew why they came here. It wasn't "I want to learn to get girls." It was "I want to gain confidence." "I want to learn how to read signals." "I want to learn some psychology."
Your complete, main goal might be to learn how to score with chicks. I get that. Great. However, if you keep it at that level, you will have a very hard time succeeding. Think. Criticize yourself. Why are you here?
Can't go up and talk to a crowd of people, let alone a single female? Boost that confidence. Have a hard time getting out what you want to say? Become a better speaker. Having a difficult time in life right now? Get that morale up and learn how to cope. There is a reason you came to sosuave.net. A reason why you read some threads. Why you clicked "Sign Up" and created your virtual account, letting you speak to others in your very situation.
Now, take a minute and ask yourself...
What brought me here?