TheGambino
Master Don Juan
I feel fvcking stupid that I told her I see her as ltr potential and that I really want to try. She just craved for my uncertainty, cex, fear of loss but now that she knows that she has me, the thrill for her is over because she means it that the other guy seems as a better option and that I’m not ltr pot for her for a longer time.
why would that be a sh*t test? If her interest level would be so high she wouldn’t dare to say such a thing or even kiss a guy even tho we’re casually hooking up.
I think the fear of loss and letting her chase is what kept this fwb going for so long. Now I showed my cards and she now she’s sure we need to stop.
It’s an tough learning experience for me again. The one thing I’m happy about is that I’m probably glued to the “rejection breeds obsession” instead of actually wanting her as my girlfriend because if that was the case I wouldn’t played her along in the beginning. I would ltr her in the first months when I could.
We live and learn I guess.
why would that be a sh*t test? If her interest level would be so high she wouldn’t dare to say such a thing or even kiss a guy even tho we’re casually hooking up.
I think the fear of loss and letting her chase is what kept this fwb going for so long. Now I showed my cards and she now she’s sure we need to stop.
It’s an tough learning experience for me again. The one thing I’m happy about is that I’m probably glued to the “rejection breeds obsession” instead of actually wanting her as my girlfriend because if that was the case I wouldn’t played her along in the beginning. I would ltr her in the first months when I could.
We live and learn I guess.
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