Ok guys. I've started going to bars a little more frequently lately since I've gotten out of my LTR.
The guys I usually go with are pretty good with the ladies, as am I. We know how to work the women in a bar.
Now, here's the problem: We'll go into a bar, talk to most of the women in there. By the end of the night, we usually have 3 or 4 girls each that we're trying to game simultaneously.
The problem is, I think we're gaming them *too* well, because they start getting really jealous of eachother. They get catty on the dance floor, giving eachother bad looks, saying **** etc.
I know that this is awesome for social proof purposes. IE: women seeing that other women want us.
BUT, we never really want to stick to ONE girl each the whole night. Because, well, we're not really sure which girls we want lol.
So, sometimes one of the girls I'll be gaming will get too jealous and refuse to talk after seeing me grind with another chick.
It's as if they think I'm their property at the bar, and get really offended when they see me talking to/dancing with another girl.
Question is: Is it better to try to pick the best girl of out the few you're gaming, and forget about the others? Or keep gaming like 3 or 4 girls and take the chance that some of them or all of them might get too jealous and refuse to talk to you by the end of the night?
It's great being out at the bars again, but this problem is causing a bit of confusion
The guys I usually go with are pretty good with the ladies, as am I. We know how to work the women in a bar.
Now, here's the problem: We'll go into a bar, talk to most of the women in there. By the end of the night, we usually have 3 or 4 girls each that we're trying to game simultaneously.
The problem is, I think we're gaming them *too* well, because they start getting really jealous of eachother. They get catty on the dance floor, giving eachother bad looks, saying **** etc.
I know that this is awesome for social proof purposes. IE: women seeing that other women want us.
BUT, we never really want to stick to ONE girl each the whole night. Because, well, we're not really sure which girls we want lol.
So, sometimes one of the girls I'll be gaming will get too jealous and refuse to talk after seeing me grind with another chick.
It's as if they think I'm their property at the bar, and get really offended when they see me talking to/dancing with another girl.
Question is: Is it better to try to pick the best girl of out the few you're gaming, and forget about the others? Or keep gaming like 3 or 4 girls and take the chance that some of them or all of them might get too jealous and refuse to talk to you by the end of the night?
It's great being out at the bars again, but this problem is causing a bit of confusion