Been on this forum for a long time, and I still struggle with approach anxiety. I feel my game is getting better and better, but I can't seem to get over the anxiety from approaching.
I've been told that it is all a matter of self-confidence. I'm not looking for advice, just here ranting I guess.
Sometimes I give my buddies money when I'm out at the bars, and ask them not to give it back unless I approach a certain amount of girls. I'm a big sports better, so I guess monetary incentive is needed for me.
It just angers me that I'm still, not yet, the type of person that approaches girls w/o thinking about it, like it comes naturally. Its all a mindset I suppose.
I have developed my game quite nicely in the past year or two, yet I still feel like I don't have the conversational skills mastered. This i suppose, is a reason for my approach anxiety.
I've ****ed 8 hb7's or better in 2006 alone, but I feel that I didn't game them as much as I impressed them with looks / muscles.
Long road to be a PUA. Guess my motivation and determination just aren't up to par just yet.
I've been told that it is all a matter of self-confidence. I'm not looking for advice, just here ranting I guess.
Sometimes I give my buddies money when I'm out at the bars, and ask them not to give it back unless I approach a certain amount of girls. I'm a big sports better, so I guess monetary incentive is needed for me.
It just angers me that I'm still, not yet, the type of person that approaches girls w/o thinking about it, like it comes naturally. Its all a mindset I suppose.
I have developed my game quite nicely in the past year or two, yet I still feel like I don't have the conversational skills mastered. This i suppose, is a reason for my approach anxiety.
I've ****ed 8 hb7's or better in 2006 alone, but I feel that I didn't game them as much as I impressed them with looks / muscles.
Long road to be a PUA. Guess my motivation and determination just aren't up to par just yet.