tincanman99
Don Juan
- Joined
- Jul 18, 2004
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I had dated this girl a while back. Went out a bunch of times and than she flaked on me. After she basically disrespected me by blowing off my contact attempts with her I totally cut her off. My contact consisted of a few texts, 1 email, 1 phone call and thats it. No response so I called it quits. Its been about 8 weeks already.
In the past month she has escalated the contact from just showing up at my office to now speaking to me. At first it was just hi at which point I replied hi and went about my business. That was last week and now it has reached the hi, how are you doing stage. I am sensing she is going to escalate this further.
Realize this girl was stringing me along while dating another guy which I did not know about till it was too late. Because I never would have gone out with her if had known.
She broke no contact with me. So now what? Continue ignoring?
The only thing I can figure is I am her back up guy and something must have happened with the primary.
Frankly I am not sure I want anything to do with her. I caught her in multiple lies. Yes, I would hit it but I dont think I could ever "date" her if you know what I mean because I just dont trust her nor believe anything she says now.
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In the past month she has escalated the contact from just showing up at my office to now speaking to me. At first it was just hi at which point I replied hi and went about my business. That was last week and now it has reached the hi, how are you doing stage. I am sensing she is going to escalate this further.
Realize this girl was stringing me along while dating another guy which I did not know about till it was too late. Because I never would have gone out with her if had known.
She broke no contact with me. So now what? Continue ignoring?
The only thing I can figure is I am her back up guy and something must have happened with the primary.
Frankly I am not sure I want anything to do with her. I caught her in multiple lies. Yes, I would hit it but I dont think I could ever "date" her if you know what I mean because I just dont trust her nor believe anything she says now.
Hit me with opinions.