Broke up with my ex about 3 months ago (I broke up with her) and since then we've been seeing eachother as fvckbuddies. It was me that pushed to keep seeing her again as I thought I could handle my emotions and just keep her around for sex.
So far I've stayed at her apartment twice and every time it's like we're back together and nothing happened...nothing is mentioned about the breakup and we cuddle up and act like a couple then once I leave we send a couple texts saying how good it was to see eachother again and then we don't speak for weeks.
I still see her on the dating site we met on as I'm still using it to meet women and every time I see her pic it hits me hard...just knowing she's currently flirting and arranging to meet with other guys annoys the hell out of me.
I've made a decision to stop torturing myself as I can't go on like this...it's as if we're still together but I have to deal with the fact that she's fvcking other men and I can't handle it. In my head she's still mine and this sh1t just isn't right.
I've been on dates with 3 other women since the split and I just kept thinking how they were nothing compared to my ex. I honestly think even if I met the perfect woman I'd still be thinking about her.
This is what it must be like giving up heroin I'm guessing...I quit smoking 3 years ago after smoking for 10 years and it wasn't this hard ffs.
I'm going to see her one last time and tell her exactly how I feel about this and say I'm never going to see her again. I'm not giving her my affection as if she were my girl when she's getting screwed by other dudes.
If I keep on like this I'm never going to move on so I need to completely cut her out of my life. I'll delete my profile so I'm not tempted to check to see if she's online. I'll just have to stick to POF instead.
This will be hard but I know I need to do it for my own sanity. I'll update you guys on how it goes.
So far I've stayed at her apartment twice and every time it's like we're back together and nothing happened...nothing is mentioned about the breakup and we cuddle up and act like a couple then once I leave we send a couple texts saying how good it was to see eachother again and then we don't speak for weeks.
I still see her on the dating site we met on as I'm still using it to meet women and every time I see her pic it hits me hard...just knowing she's currently flirting and arranging to meet with other guys annoys the hell out of me.
I've made a decision to stop torturing myself as I can't go on like this...it's as if we're still together but I have to deal with the fact that she's fvcking other men and I can't handle it. In my head she's still mine and this sh1t just isn't right.
I've been on dates with 3 other women since the split and I just kept thinking how they were nothing compared to my ex. I honestly think even if I met the perfect woman I'd still be thinking about her.
This is what it must be like giving up heroin I'm guessing...I quit smoking 3 years ago after smoking for 10 years and it wasn't this hard ffs.
I'm going to see her one last time and tell her exactly how I feel about this and say I'm never going to see her again. I'm not giving her my affection as if she were my girl when she's getting screwed by other dudes.
If I keep on like this I'm never going to move on so I need to completely cut her out of my life. I'll delete my profile so I'm not tempted to check to see if she's online. I'll just have to stick to POF instead.
This will be hard but I know I need to do it for my own sanity. I'll update you guys on how it goes.