Met a girl on a cold bookstore approach. It wasn't fireworks from the get go, but wasn't awkward either. She is a college senior, I am 33. She doesn't know my age. Between her being out of town for Easter and and being busy with this and that, it took a while for our first date. We live about 45 min apart, and meet halfway at a bar. First date ends with us doing oral on each other in the bar parking lot.
After about a week since date #1, she finally agreed to come to my place tonight, but it was a disaster. She left 45 min late, and it took her longer than she thought. She was in a bad mood when she arrived. We arranged to watch a movie, and in retrospect I think I was stupid to put the movie on. The TV was on when she arrived and I think in retrospect I should have tried to make out with her within 10 minutes given what happened on our first date. I put my arm around her about 30 min in and she didn't seem receptive. 45 min in I kissed her but she didn't kiss back all that much. I should have plowed through but was stupid and did not. 10 min before the movie ended she was saying how "tired" she was. When the movie ended I tried a make out and got her to kiss with tongue but she stopped and said how she had to go. She left with no action. I am so mad at myself. I don't get how a girl can give you head on the first date and be sorta cold on the second date. I really think it was b/c she had a long drive.
I guess I was stupid to not make the ho say no from early on, but I could feel she was sorta distant.
After date #1, I would have told you it was a sure thing if I ever got her alone in my house. Boy was I wrong. PS-- my house is nice, clean, doesn't smell, etc. She was grumpy on the phone on the way over and seemed annoyed to have to drive over even though I had earlier offered to come over her way.
How do you guys handle these things? I feel like I should be learning a lesson from this...
After about a week since date #1, she finally agreed to come to my place tonight, but it was a disaster. She left 45 min late, and it took her longer than she thought. She was in a bad mood when she arrived. We arranged to watch a movie, and in retrospect I think I was stupid to put the movie on. The TV was on when she arrived and I think in retrospect I should have tried to make out with her within 10 minutes given what happened on our first date. I put my arm around her about 30 min in and she didn't seem receptive. 45 min in I kissed her but she didn't kiss back all that much. I should have plowed through but was stupid and did not. 10 min before the movie ended she was saying how "tired" she was. When the movie ended I tried a make out and got her to kiss with tongue but she stopped and said how she had to go. She left with no action. I am so mad at myself. I don't get how a girl can give you head on the first date and be sorta cold on the second date. I really think it was b/c she had a long drive.
I guess I was stupid to not make the ho say no from early on, but I could feel she was sorta distant.
After date #1, I would have told you it was a sure thing if I ever got her alone in my house. Boy was I wrong. PS-- my house is nice, clean, doesn't smell, etc. She was grumpy on the phone on the way over and seemed annoyed to have to drive over even though I had earlier offered to come over her way.
How do you guys handle these things? I feel like I should be learning a lesson from this...