Domo_Arigatoo
Don Juan
- Joined
- Jun 8, 2011
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I've read roughly 80% of the material on here giving advice to aspiring DJ's and i've noticed a trend in contradiction. This is kind of confusing because i'll invest myself in the advice given here... I'll base my entire approach on something i've learned and then a week or two later there will be a post contradicting what i've learned. It kind of shakes me up mentally, it makes me doubt the truth of some of the stuff on this website. Of course i know it works, but certain things seem to be just someone bull****ting to get attention, and other people who know little to nothing agreeing with them because it sounds appealing, and also it gives themself attention as well.
Also i think this may be because people tend to generalize the info they give to people, leaving you to pick out the things that don't contradict and follow what really stays true
Some contradictions:
- If a ***** disrespects you, delete her number and don't bother with her ever again
- Never burn your bridges!
- You have to compliment the girl to let her know you're interested! otherwise she won't know your intentions and just view you as a friend!
- Don't compliment the girl, this immediately shows your intentions and she's supposed to be unaware and guessing of your intentions
-Get out there and practice on as many girls as you can, this will help you get comfortable with yourself and you'll be able to talk to any girl eventually without fear
-Don't bother with the uglies, only go for 8+ otherwise you're just wasting your valuable time
There's many other contradictions that i've noticed... What i tend to do is pick out the best of each, and weld it into one solid piece of advice, kind of how your eyes view something from two different angles and percieve depth.
Still, it's very frustrating to watch this happen so often on this forum.
Also i think this may be because people tend to generalize the info they give to people, leaving you to pick out the things that don't contradict and follow what really stays true
Some contradictions:
- If a ***** disrespects you, delete her number and don't bother with her ever again
- Never burn your bridges!
- You have to compliment the girl to let her know you're interested! otherwise she won't know your intentions and just view you as a friend!
- Don't compliment the girl, this immediately shows your intentions and she's supposed to be unaware and guessing of your intentions
-Get out there and practice on as many girls as you can, this will help you get comfortable with yourself and you'll be able to talk to any girl eventually without fear
-Don't bother with the uglies, only go for 8+ otherwise you're just wasting your valuable time
There's many other contradictions that i've noticed... What i tend to do is pick out the best of each, and weld it into one solid piece of advice, kind of how your eyes view something from two different angles and percieve depth.
Still, it's very frustrating to watch this happen so often on this forum.