Gonna read tomorrow.
Just wanted to say; I'm in this online game and I'm practicing some 'confidence' moves. This girl keeps wanting to do her own thing, we are alone together and she gets up and leaves the tent to see if I'm going to come after her. Then when I don't, she comes back and sits back down beside me.
I met her yesterday (or the day before) and she seemed horny. I tried to have sex with her but got only halfway. She then wanted to 'go swimming' and some other guy (from her guild) joined us. I asked her to make him leave, when she refused I left myself. Then the guy left her and she felt lonely, but I said too bad.
The next day I sent her an email telling her to meet up with me. I was actually scared of doing it, but she responded with effort and eagerness. I tried being 'the gentleman' after I had tried to push her the day before.
So we're meeting up and she keeps trying to set the agenda herself. The first time I fell for it, I didn't know what she was up to. She didn't want to get on my 'mount' (call it my car) and she decided she wanted to walk to the place we were going herself. I went along with it. Then she had to get on my mount anyway because she couldn't get to that place by foot. (Made her a bit of a fool? Or me? I dunno.)
I kept telling her to sit down with me, to undress, etc. She kept moving away. Kept asking "why?" When she moved away, I would just move after her and sit down with her again. Or, I would let her move away, then stay put myself, which caused her to move back closer to me after a while. In the end, she sat down in front of me in an intimate way and I 'kissed' her and she didn't resist.
When I told her I liked her being 'naked' she said "you're not gonna see that". I then said "That's because my eyes are already hurting because of your dazzling beauty." Then she went out, took off her clothes, and came back in to dance for me.
I know it's just a game, and you can't do anything serious, you can't kino, there is no eye contact, it's just a tuned down version of reality, but this girl is playing her game no less, and I'm playing my game as well.
Call it silly, but it's the first time I've ever 'dated' a girl. A girl that's playing a hard-to-get game.
The one thing I kept repeating in my head all this time was "I'm the most comfortable person in the room here." It kept me from saying wussy things, stupid things, 'nice' things. It's just a game, but it's difficult for me. I'm doing well though now.
Why I post in this thread; the main theme of my interaction with her was me telling her what to do ("come here, sit down, undress"), with her trying to say no each and every time ("why?", "I'm going out"), with me being persistent (or trying to) in a comfortable way, just keeping it up, keeping her to tell what i wanted her to do, not getting wussy when she asked "why", not being afraid to force myself onto her when it was needed, etc.
I must say it's a whole lotta game :-/. Never done anything like this before. It is truly a game like you guys say.
"I AM COMFORTABLE."
Btw, what is "nexting"?