Knight's Cross said:
Funny story,
So I meet this attractive Morrocan woman the other day. She's about 5'4" probably weighs in at 125-130. She proceeds to tell me on date one that she used to weigh 200 lbs. Now, what kind of $hit test is that? Date went fine, however in my book once they've been large, no matter how many spin classes, they will return to that weight. It's enevitable. My IL in her dropped immediately to 0. Sure, I went thru with the date plans, but there's no future there.
KC
you are a short sided idiot.
first, you have no idea why she was fat. could have been depression, could have been injury related, she very well could have been just a lazy fat fvck.
secondly, you obviously have never been fat. A woman that used to weight 200 pounds and loses 40% of her body weight, is not done by eating slim fast or walking around the neighboorhood. To lose 70 pounds, at a healthy avg of 2 pounds a week, takes damn near a year to do. AFter you do something for that long, it's not a diet it's a way of life.
I was 135 in high school. Because of bad dieting, for reasons too complex to get into in this thread, i balloon to my highest of about 235 ish. it took, i went from 235 to 155 at my lowest and that took 8 months to do but i don't think i had a cookie or cheated at all the entire time. After 8 months of that, you just don't wake up the next day and say "okay it's gone, let's eat!". I spend between 15-20 hours a week in the gym. Unless it's a scheduled rest day, and even those I have trouble taking but make myself, if i can't get to the gym my day is a wreck, but according to your ass backwards logic it's only a matter of time before i'm fat again. good god man 41 years old.
you get used to going to the gym in the morning you get used to watching what you eat, yo ulike being able to fit your clothes, you like the attention from the opposite sex, you like having more energy.
The prudent thing would be to get to know her and see what her normal dietary habits and workout routine are. But I can promise you to lose that much weight, it's pretty good. Her going out to eat with you was probably her cheat day.
so in short, you "lost interest" for being proud of the fact she lost 70 pounds, who probably has a better workout routine then you do, because of some preconceived notion that once fat always fat. truth be tol, and i normally don't say this here, but you did her a favor, you don't deserve her. A woman that tells me that and if it's true tells me that she is willing to work for something. No one is perfect, we all have ups and downs in life. She got her **** together and now she's (assumingly) hot.
I would honestly rather have that, than to have someone who is 110 pounds and is genetically "gifted", who can eat whatever the fvck she wants and not worry about it.