That hits hard. Thanks.You can't punch loyalty into a person. They are either loyal or they are not.
That hits hard. Thanks.You can't punch loyalty into a person. They are either loyal or they are not.
Yeah, I confronted her about the flirting she said apologized and had a get over it attitude. I was cold for a week because I was still angry about the "tight" comment. But she broke up with me 1 week later saying I take her for granted and she doesn't feel appreciated. If that was the case then she would've broken up with me before I confronted her. There was something else going on that I don't know about..I only got through the OP and my goodness that is such disrespect. Man should never allow that level of disrespect from his woman. And that guy is no friend. Don’t ever allow people to neg you, let alone in public and in front of your woman.
If someone publicly negged me, my wife would check me on why I’m allowing the disrespect. Respect is everything.
If someone publicly insults me, my kittens know that behind my calm expression bloodlust lurks and they are always glad for my restraint.If someone publicly negged me, my wife would check me on why I’m allowing the disrespect. Respect is everything.
My guess, she was getting mentally ready to f0ck (and/or monkeybranch to) your friend. Might as well break up with you before to feel less guilt and not be technically cheating.Yeah, I confronted her about the flirting she said apologized and had a get over it attitude. I was cold for a week because I was still angry about the "tight" comment. But she broke up with me 1 week later saying I take her for granted and she doesn't feel appreciated. If that was the case then she would've broken up with me before I confronted her. There was something else going on that I don't know about..
Yeah or monkeybranch to somebody else I don't know about. My friend has two newborns and a GF so the probability is lower there.My guess, she was getting mentally ready to f0ck (and/or monkeybranch to) your friend. Might as well break up with you before to feel less guilt and not be technically cheating.
It was a harsh experience but In the end you are all better for cutting not one but a few toxic people out of your life. You will learn a lot from this and become better at vetting/screening.
Does it though? You’re doing and saying things that are in response to her. If you didn’t care you wouldn’t have written her back with such a pithy line and tried to show her up in front of her sister. You literally manufactured the situation so that she would contact you. Don’t bull**** a bull****ter.A little update. Doing better. Was out last weekend at a bar and saw her sister, said hi and kept it moving. I knew her sister was watching me at the bar so I scanned for the best lookin chick and approached her and exchanged insta. I know it's petty but it gave me satisfaction because I know she will tell my ex what she saw.
Guess who contacted me the next day? She wanted to see me and work things out. I told her "nope we're done, you crossed the boundary of no return" and that I would never have a child with someone who has flirted with my friend (she was always pushing for marriage).
Moral of the story, no contact and working on yourself works.
he probably begged her to come back in reality lolDoes it though? You’re doing and saying things that are in response to her. If you didn’t care you wouldn’t have written her back with such a pithy line and tried to show her up in front of her sister. You literally manufactured the situation so that she would contact you. Don’t bull**** a bull****ter.
I never claimed that I didn't care. It's obvious that I care and I'm not over her 100%. I'm doing better than I was a couple months ago. If you read through the thread then you'll know I have enough leverage to tell her to f*** off.Does it though? You’re doing and saying things that are in response to her. If you didn’t care you wouldn’t have written her back with such a pithy line and tried to show her up in front of her sister. You literally manufactured the situation so that she would contact you. Don’t bull**** a bull****ter.
So what's happening with the IG girl? What's that saying "the best way to get over someone is to get under someone else"?Was out last weekend at a bar and saw her sister, said hi and kept it moving. I knew her sister was watching me at the bar so I scanned for the best lookin chick and approached her and exchanged insta.
Yeah, I bet.What's that saying "the best way to get over someone is to get under someone else"?
I never used to believe that, now I do.
Yeah man, it was difficult the first month but it got easier as the days went by. I just remind myself and if I miss her I just read through the thread to remind myself the disrespect I had to go through.Bro let me say weldone to you.
Ignore the jokers who are pointing out the obvious, that you still care.. Obviously to some degree you still care, which makes you a man of strength who was able to tell her to get lost, even though you still have some feelings for her.
This is a sign of strength & not weakness.
Weakness would have been allowing her back into your life, which you didn't.
Healing from a break up is different for everyone. Some dudes can get over a girl in a matter of weeks, other dudes it might take a little longer, depending on the chemistry and attachment you had with said girl.
Your on the right path. From what I remember it's a relatively recent break up.
Don't let the chest beating on here, throw you off your path of healing and moving on.
I have a date planned with her on Sunday.So what's happening with the IG girl? What's that saying "the best way to get over someone is to get under someone else"?
I never used to believe that, now I do. To some degree anyway.
It's also important to spend some time alone, introspecting, reflecting, owning our role and learning from mistakes. We ALL make them.
You can do both!
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You should've kept that to yourself. If she doesn't know you didn't intend to hurt her, your text is not going to change her mind. Just leave her texts on 'read'.I replied with "my intention wasn't to hurt you" and this is a fact.