The main problem with divorce is that you can easily lose your children. If she has sole custody - normally the case then you are allowed "visitation" rights only if you behave yourself. These rights can easily be revoked. I have visitation rights and about a month ago had an argument with my teenage daughter because I did not give her what she wanted as she was acting like a brat. So she stormed off - didn't think any thing about it at the time.
Tried to contact her no answer exept a SMS "Don wanna c u" when I was supposed to visit - same from the ex. Now thanks to this site I realised only recently that my ex is a high order BPD - no one realises what she is really like. So I didn't send a lawer off to demand my visitation rights and decided to sit this one out.
My suburb is a small community, rumours started to fly that I had abused her and I started been shunned by "friends". I kept in contact a couple of times via SMS which she ignored. Then dedided not to contact her until she contacted me. Things got worse - even strangers were abusive torwards me -What the? Eventually they made contact "Seen the pschologist we need to talk". Have learned in the meantime about the traps they can set for you - so didn't go that week. Women are saying at work "What did you do to your daughter that you haven't seen her in 3 weeks" Nothing! "Yeah!!". Only went the next week after been asked again. Both of them try to shame me. I refused to apologise since I did nothing wrong and found out the real reason that they needed me to sign a form for a new shool. Why? "Oh she's not happy at the old school because the teachers are nasty" Also turns out that she hadn't been to school for 3 weeks - because she's stressed.
Her absence from school had been taken that there was substance in the rumours. If I had demanded to see her - restraining order could of been slapped on me because of my "history of abuse to her mother". Men are guilty by default.
I turned the tables by being a DJ and not playing their games. I am reunited with my daughter who enjoyed going out with me because we do cool things and mom has blown all the money. The best revenge is living well
Tried to contact her no answer exept a SMS "Don wanna c u" when I was supposed to visit - same from the ex. Now thanks to this site I realised only recently that my ex is a high order BPD - no one realises what she is really like. So I didn't send a lawer off to demand my visitation rights and decided to sit this one out.
My suburb is a small community, rumours started to fly that I had abused her and I started been shunned by "friends". I kept in contact a couple of times via SMS which she ignored. Then dedided not to contact her until she contacted me. Things got worse - even strangers were abusive torwards me -What the? Eventually they made contact "Seen the pschologist we need to talk". Have learned in the meantime about the traps they can set for you - so didn't go that week. Women are saying at work "What did you do to your daughter that you haven't seen her in 3 weeks" Nothing! "Yeah!!". Only went the next week after been asked again. Both of them try to shame me. I refused to apologise since I did nothing wrong and found out the real reason that they needed me to sign a form for a new shool. Why? "Oh she's not happy at the old school because the teachers are nasty" Also turns out that she hadn't been to school for 3 weeks - because she's stressed.
Her absence from school had been taken that there was substance in the rumours. If I had demanded to see her - restraining order could of been slapped on me because of my "history of abuse to her mother". Men are guilty by default.
I turned the tables by being a DJ and not playing their games. I am reunited with my daughter who enjoyed going out with me because we do cool things and mom has blown all the money. The best revenge is living well