In the last two days, I've realized that I will do subtle things to get a girl to give me a blatant hint or IOI. These things are ambiguous, and I usually do them testing for a certain response, but I've never consciously noticed that I do it before.
I have two examples of this.
The other day, a girl called me and invited me to go see a movie with her. I told her that I didn't have enough money to go see the movie (true story), but invited her back to my place for a rented flick. She came over, and we sat in the living room, not alone at all due to roommates who wouldn't take a hint, and a couple of people were complaining about it being cold. I walked into my room and grabbed a blanket, and sat down next to (but not right next to) the girl, waiting for her to hint that she was cold so I could offer her to share the blanket. She never asked, and so I lost interest in her and started to watch the movie silently.
Today, I went to a girls house, and she was there with her roommate, who was sitting next to me on the couch. Her roommate went to bed, and the girl got up to get a glass of water, so I shifted on the couch and made it plainly obvious (without saying anything) that the couch had an available seat. She still sat in the chair across the room, so I just watched the movie, looking bored and waited for her to make conversation. She said something, and I pretended like I couldn't hear, only responding after she repeated herself and then I smirked a bit and said "Why are you trying to talk to me from way over there" as I glanced at the empty cushion. She stayed where she was, so I watched a little bit more of the movie and then told her I wanted to go home and read.
This may seem like a useless post, because the girl did not play into what I was going for in both examples, but those are the very examples that made me aware of what I do. Thinking back to all of the girls I have ever hooked up with, I have used tactics like the above almost every time.
In short - I give her an excuse to be near me, so that she can make it easy for me without showing interest.
This is my own interest test. Instead of checking for hair twirls, lip biting, etc. I just see if she will make herself available for me to escalate. This is, of course, at a point beyond the first meeting but before the first kiss.
Does anybody have anything similar that they do - or a better approach?
If you have given a girl a reasonable excuse to be close to you, and she refuses, what do you think would be the best way to continue to game her?
I have two examples of this.
The other day, a girl called me and invited me to go see a movie with her. I told her that I didn't have enough money to go see the movie (true story), but invited her back to my place for a rented flick. She came over, and we sat in the living room, not alone at all due to roommates who wouldn't take a hint, and a couple of people were complaining about it being cold. I walked into my room and grabbed a blanket, and sat down next to (but not right next to) the girl, waiting for her to hint that she was cold so I could offer her to share the blanket. She never asked, and so I lost interest in her and started to watch the movie silently.
Today, I went to a girls house, and she was there with her roommate, who was sitting next to me on the couch. Her roommate went to bed, and the girl got up to get a glass of water, so I shifted on the couch and made it plainly obvious (without saying anything) that the couch had an available seat. She still sat in the chair across the room, so I just watched the movie, looking bored and waited for her to make conversation. She said something, and I pretended like I couldn't hear, only responding after she repeated herself and then I smirked a bit and said "Why are you trying to talk to me from way over there" as I glanced at the empty cushion. She stayed where she was, so I watched a little bit more of the movie and then told her I wanted to go home and read.
This may seem like a useless post, because the girl did not play into what I was going for in both examples, but those are the very examples that made me aware of what I do. Thinking back to all of the girls I have ever hooked up with, I have used tactics like the above almost every time.
In short - I give her an excuse to be near me, so that she can make it easy for me without showing interest.
This is my own interest test. Instead of checking for hair twirls, lip biting, etc. I just see if she will make herself available for me to escalate. This is, of course, at a point beyond the first meeting but before the first kiss.
Does anybody have anything similar that they do - or a better approach?
If you have given a girl a reasonable excuse to be close to you, and she refuses, what do you think would be the best way to continue to game her?
