GO SALSA DANCING!
Every weekend in America (and most other places) countless guys will head on over to hip hop clubs hoping to meet women, get numbers, dance with women. What usually happens is that you have a bunch of guys standing with drink in hand, watching other guys dancing with their girlfriends, or watching "girls night out" circles where women only dance with themselves and kick any guy that tries to break in to the curb.
You spot a hot girl, go on and try to "dance" with her hoping to get some grinding action only to be turned away. You end up going back to standing around to watch the crowd with your buddies, getting another drink. This cycle repeats itself over and over again for YEARS.
A good night is getting some good grinding action or getting a #. Most of the time you might not get anything but at least you went "clubbin" and had some "fun" right??
Does the above sound familiar? Is this YOU??? Is this YOU THIS WEEKEND?? (and the next one, and the next one and so forth)
Not ashamed to admit it that used to be me every week and by the grace of God, the universe, destiny or whatever you want to call it I found salsa.
Why should you start salsa dancing? I will give you the scoop below.
TOP 7 REASONS WHY YOU SHOULD DO SALSA VS HIP HOP CLUBS OR BARS
1. In salsa everyone dances with everyone: There I said it. Salsa is a partner dance but you don't need to go to a club with a partner. Girls stand on the sidelines waiting for guys to ask them to dance, and sometimes they will ask you! Compare this to the sloots at the hip hop clubs that will turn you away the moment you get close to them hoping to do some grinding or just "dance" with them. In salsa women actually want to dance with men because they can't dance salsa by themselves!
It is a heaven vs hell difference. In 1 night of salsa dancing you will probably dance with more women than 30 guys at a hip hop club (and that's so sad these guys are wasting their money at these places). Because when you think about it most of these clubs have 30+ guys standing around with drink on their hand doing nothing and never even touching a woman all night.
2. Salsa is physical, sensual: There's a lot A LOT of touching in salsa (like i mentioned above). You always read about problems guys have with kino but to us salsa dancers touching women is as natural as touching our hair.
Salsa trains you to handle women like an alpha male. If you are shy with women it is guaranteed to turn you into a pro at handling women. We touch so many women every night it's insane when you look at it from a hip hop clubin guy's point of view.
Because there is so much kino in salsa it makes it way way easier to get women. I know plenty of womanizers and these guys are not what you would expect. Short, ugly, not very good looking, these guys have nothing you don't have except that they have been dancing for some time. The ones I know are HORRIBLE dancers you don't even need to be good to be a womanizer in salsa. I guess you can say another difference between you and them is that their smart and you're spending your weekend nights somewhere besides salsa clubs.
It is inevitable that you will become a womanizer if you stay in salsa because there is so much kino going on. I know it sounds too good to be true but it is. In fact probably the #1 reason why most guys might not like to talk about salsa it so to keep women to themselves! Let those other guys stay at their sausage fests at hip hop clubs!
3. BACHATA!: Salsa is not all they dance at salsa clubs. Bachata is another form of latin dance. It is a slower, more sensual type of dance that you dance closer to your partner.
Watch some Bachata dancing below to get an idea. Do you really want to keep spending your time at hip hop clubs when you could be doing THIS with hot girls at salsa clubs??
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kzGCgQ5Bdfs
Bachata does come with a warning. There is so much close contact in it that it can put a spell on either you or her. It took me a while to be able to dance bachata correctly as it is difficult not to get aroused when dancing so close to a woman. You'll get better as you practice but because she is rubbin against you some women are really good at getting you hard watch out..
If you learn to dance Bachata well you can get pretty much any girl you want. So much kino going on in this dance it can overpower even the toughest woman. But like I said earlier this goes both ways don't be surprised if you end up falling for women you dance Bachata with as well. It's a dangerous dance ha.
4. Salsa solves all your meeting women problems: Unlike hip hop clubs which are sausage fests in salsa clubs the # of women and men are more evenly distributed. In fact a lot if not most of the times there are more women! For salsa lessons there just aren't enough guys to go around most of the time! (but I guess all those guys at hip hop clubs standing with drinks in their hand are too scared to do some real dancing and touch a woman)
There are just so many women in salsa clubs (and so few guys taking advantage) that it's almost crazy.
5. Salsa is very open, friendly, welcoming: Alglo/European culture is known for being a bit "cold." You gotta earn trust but salsa comes from Latin Culture which is very open, friendly, welcoming. There's no need to earn trust people are welcoming and friendly to you without knowing you. The night you step into a salsa club you will make friends and meet people.
It's just a very social and open atmosphere unlike hip hop clubs and bars. Another reason for this would be the human touch involved. In salsa there is a lot of touching and touching is energy transfer, touching is human.
This gets to my other point
6. Salsa improves you as a whole/makes you more human: Not only will it kill your shyness with women/build up your confidence for the rest of your life but it also makes you a better human being.
Salsa is very social and open and you will become more of a social person because of it. Your social circle is guaranteed to get bigger and bigger (I meet new people almost every week I have trouble remembering names) but you will become more human. It will help you become more human because you are always touching people. It's the opposite of the facebook generation. Salsa is as human as it gets.
Salsa is like toastmasters but for the human being. It truly improves you and makes you more open, friendlier, social, more confidence. If you were to decide between toastmasters and salsa you should take salsa.
7. Salsa is fun!: Last but not least Latin dancing is just way more fun. I wouldn't go to a hip hop club or bar even if you paid me. I would be wasting my life there when I could be dancing the night away with beautiful women. Why would I want to trade that away??
Salsa becomes more fun as you learn and develop your dancing. You will think it is fun when you start but it gets better.
HOW TO START SALSA
1. Google salsa clubs in your town: Most clubs give you a beginner lesson that comes with the cover charge! In these lessons you are guaranteed to meet women. In fact in a lot of these lessons there are just never enough guys to partner up with the girls! After the lesson the social dancing starts so what you do is ask those same girls that you were in the lesson with to dance. It's a great way to build up your dance confidence by learning with girls at your same level.
Salsa clubs usually tend to be cheaper than hip hop clubs even with the lesson! No reason why you shouldn't try it out.
2. Google salsa lessons: Yes you can learn the basics of salsa with the free lessons the clubs give you but if you truly want to learn how to dance you need to pay for some lessons. The investment is well worth it in terms of how much fun you will have/your confidence improvement/all the women you will get once you become decent. Salsa classes will do more for your confidence with women than anything you read on sosuave.
Every weekend in America (and most other places) countless guys will head on over to hip hop clubs hoping to meet women, get numbers, dance with women. What usually happens is that you have a bunch of guys standing with drink in hand, watching other guys dancing with their girlfriends, or watching "girls night out" circles where women only dance with themselves and kick any guy that tries to break in to the curb.
You spot a hot girl, go on and try to "dance" with her hoping to get some grinding action only to be turned away. You end up going back to standing around to watch the crowd with your buddies, getting another drink. This cycle repeats itself over and over again for YEARS.
A good night is getting some good grinding action or getting a #. Most of the time you might not get anything but at least you went "clubbin" and had some "fun" right??
Does the above sound familiar? Is this YOU??? Is this YOU THIS WEEKEND?? (and the next one, and the next one and so forth)
Not ashamed to admit it that used to be me every week and by the grace of God, the universe, destiny or whatever you want to call it I found salsa.
Why should you start salsa dancing? I will give you the scoop below.
TOP 7 REASONS WHY YOU SHOULD DO SALSA VS HIP HOP CLUBS OR BARS
1. In salsa everyone dances with everyone: There I said it. Salsa is a partner dance but you don't need to go to a club with a partner. Girls stand on the sidelines waiting for guys to ask them to dance, and sometimes they will ask you! Compare this to the sloots at the hip hop clubs that will turn you away the moment you get close to them hoping to do some grinding or just "dance" with them. In salsa women actually want to dance with men because they can't dance salsa by themselves!
It is a heaven vs hell difference. In 1 night of salsa dancing you will probably dance with more women than 30 guys at a hip hop club (and that's so sad these guys are wasting their money at these places). Because when you think about it most of these clubs have 30+ guys standing around with drink on their hand doing nothing and never even touching a woman all night.
2. Salsa is physical, sensual: There's a lot A LOT of touching in salsa (like i mentioned above). You always read about problems guys have with kino but to us salsa dancers touching women is as natural as touching our hair.
Salsa trains you to handle women like an alpha male. If you are shy with women it is guaranteed to turn you into a pro at handling women. We touch so many women every night it's insane when you look at it from a hip hop clubin guy's point of view.
Because there is so much kino in salsa it makes it way way easier to get women. I know plenty of womanizers and these guys are not what you would expect. Short, ugly, not very good looking, these guys have nothing you don't have except that they have been dancing for some time. The ones I know are HORRIBLE dancers you don't even need to be good to be a womanizer in salsa. I guess you can say another difference between you and them is that their smart and you're spending your weekend nights somewhere besides salsa clubs.
It is inevitable that you will become a womanizer if you stay in salsa because there is so much kino going on. I know it sounds too good to be true but it is. In fact probably the #1 reason why most guys might not like to talk about salsa it so to keep women to themselves! Let those other guys stay at their sausage fests at hip hop clubs!
3. BACHATA!: Salsa is not all they dance at salsa clubs. Bachata is another form of latin dance. It is a slower, more sensual type of dance that you dance closer to your partner.
Watch some Bachata dancing below to get an idea. Do you really want to keep spending your time at hip hop clubs when you could be doing THIS with hot girls at salsa clubs??
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kzGCgQ5Bdfs
Bachata does come with a warning. There is so much close contact in it that it can put a spell on either you or her. It took me a while to be able to dance bachata correctly as it is difficult not to get aroused when dancing so close to a woman. You'll get better as you practice but because she is rubbin against you some women are really good at getting you hard watch out..
If you learn to dance Bachata well you can get pretty much any girl you want. So much kino going on in this dance it can overpower even the toughest woman. But like I said earlier this goes both ways don't be surprised if you end up falling for women you dance Bachata with as well. It's a dangerous dance ha.
4. Salsa solves all your meeting women problems: Unlike hip hop clubs which are sausage fests in salsa clubs the # of women and men are more evenly distributed. In fact a lot if not most of the times there are more women! For salsa lessons there just aren't enough guys to go around most of the time! (but I guess all those guys at hip hop clubs standing with drinks in their hand are too scared to do some real dancing and touch a woman)
There are just so many women in salsa clubs (and so few guys taking advantage) that it's almost crazy.
5. Salsa is very open, friendly, welcoming: Alglo/European culture is known for being a bit "cold." You gotta earn trust but salsa comes from Latin Culture which is very open, friendly, welcoming. There's no need to earn trust people are welcoming and friendly to you without knowing you. The night you step into a salsa club you will make friends and meet people.
It's just a very social and open atmosphere unlike hip hop clubs and bars. Another reason for this would be the human touch involved. In salsa there is a lot of touching and touching is energy transfer, touching is human.
This gets to my other point
6. Salsa improves you as a whole/makes you more human: Not only will it kill your shyness with women/build up your confidence for the rest of your life but it also makes you a better human being.
Salsa is very social and open and you will become more of a social person because of it. Your social circle is guaranteed to get bigger and bigger (I meet new people almost every week I have trouble remembering names) but you will become more human. It will help you become more human because you are always touching people. It's the opposite of the facebook generation. Salsa is as human as it gets.
Salsa is like toastmasters but for the human being. It truly improves you and makes you more open, friendlier, social, more confidence. If you were to decide between toastmasters and salsa you should take salsa.
7. Salsa is fun!: Last but not least Latin dancing is just way more fun. I wouldn't go to a hip hop club or bar even if you paid me. I would be wasting my life there when I could be dancing the night away with beautiful women. Why would I want to trade that away??
Salsa becomes more fun as you learn and develop your dancing. You will think it is fun when you start but it gets better.
HOW TO START SALSA
1. Google salsa clubs in your town: Most clubs give you a beginner lesson that comes with the cover charge! In these lessons you are guaranteed to meet women. In fact in a lot of these lessons there are just never enough guys to partner up with the girls! After the lesson the social dancing starts so what you do is ask those same girls that you were in the lesson with to dance. It's a great way to build up your dance confidence by learning with girls at your same level.
Salsa clubs usually tend to be cheaper than hip hop clubs even with the lesson! No reason why you shouldn't try it out.
2. Google salsa lessons: Yes you can learn the basics of salsa with the free lessons the clubs give you but if you truly want to learn how to dance you need to pay for some lessons. The investment is well worth it in terms of how much fun you will have/your confidence improvement/all the women you will get once you become decent. Salsa classes will do more for your confidence with women than anything you read on sosuave.
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