Green Team
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Hey guys, first post, great report.
So I was at a neighborhood bar in south Florida trying to run game. I talked to a few girls during the night, trying to get in the right mood for the ones I want (and I always keep in mind that I deserve them).
And I see this girl standing in the parking lot, I walked over to her right when I saw her, trying to keep with the three second rule and this is how it went:
Me: Hey are you waiting for someone?
HB: Yea, I'm waiting for my friend.
Me: Oh, I thought you might be waiting for me.
(laugh)
Me: So what's your name?
HB: It's Merebeth
Me: Well, I'm Green Team, nice to meet you.
Shake hands, I held it to look for IOI's and when I squeezed it, she squeezed back. So, I held her hand until they natural came apart, I think I wanted to smoke a cigarette. And I made bull**** conversation (i.e. building rapport, a neg, ect.) I think we talked about jobs, which I used as an opportunity to demonstrate value with her by telling her about my job which sounds much harder than it is.
At one point, she said, "you're short" (5'5"), and I responded, "Well you're wearing hells and I'm like a dog, I feel a lot bigger than I actually am." I thought that would say I had confidence indirectly, I don't know if she was smart enough to pick up on it, but I carried myself as such and I know she felt that because then I said:
Me: Are you single ..? (by this time, I forgot her name, yea I ****ed up, but you'll see how I recover)
HB: "Yea" as she was throwing her cigarette in a bush.
Me: Oh, well you didn't break up with him this morning did you? Because I'm not trying to pick up some rebound.
HB: No, it was a while ago.
Me: How long did you date him? (in retrospect, this was probably a bad question, but I wanted to gauge the severity of the relationship)
HB: 9 months (to me: not married/egaged), the only other long relationship I had was 9 months too, so I guess that's the cut off.
Me: (thinking: don't care about you're bullsh!t relationships, change subjects), cool. So, can I have your number?
HB: Yea, (number).
Me: Cool. I majored in journalism so don't take this the wrong way, but how do I spell your name?
HB: M-e-r-e-d-e-t-h.
Me: Cool, sometimes people spell their names weird, I was trained in college to ask that question. So, I'm going to use the bathroom and I'll see you later.
So, I have her kiss me on the cheek and tell her it was very nice meeting her, and I walk away. I take a piss, talk some **** to the manager, and speak with my friend, whose ready to leave. So, I go pay my tab, and I see the HB and I tell her good night. I walked up next to her and put my arm around her, she accepted it when she saw me but it probably would have been better to have her see me approach.
Me:"I'm leaving, it was nice meeting you, maybe we can do something next weekend?"
HB: My friend is going to be in town.
Me: Well, maybe we can do something during the week, hit up happy hour or something.
HB: Maybe, I didn't know how to tell you this outside, but I'm not looking for a relationship.
Me: That's fine, I don't want one either.
HB: ...and I'm not a wh0re.
Me: That's good. I'm not looking for a *****.
HB: Alright.
I had her kiss me on the cheek again. and I left. I'll probably call her Wednesday and have a few drinks with her, I'll post a recap if I do, but my car is broken down and I'm sharing my mom's so who knows.
How could I have improved? I've only really been at this for about two weeks, reading stuff on the internet and watching videos, so constructive criticism would be awesome.
So I was at a neighborhood bar in south Florida trying to run game. I talked to a few girls during the night, trying to get in the right mood for the ones I want (and I always keep in mind that I deserve them).
And I see this girl standing in the parking lot, I walked over to her right when I saw her, trying to keep with the three second rule and this is how it went:
Me: Hey are you waiting for someone?
HB: Yea, I'm waiting for my friend.
Me: Oh, I thought you might be waiting for me.
(laugh)
Me: So what's your name?
HB: It's Merebeth
Me: Well, I'm Green Team, nice to meet you.
Shake hands, I held it to look for IOI's and when I squeezed it, she squeezed back. So, I held her hand until they natural came apart, I think I wanted to smoke a cigarette. And I made bull**** conversation (i.e. building rapport, a neg, ect.) I think we talked about jobs, which I used as an opportunity to demonstrate value with her by telling her about my job which sounds much harder than it is.
At one point, she said, "you're short" (5'5"), and I responded, "Well you're wearing hells and I'm like a dog, I feel a lot bigger than I actually am." I thought that would say I had confidence indirectly, I don't know if she was smart enough to pick up on it, but I carried myself as such and I know she felt that because then I said:
Me: Are you single ..? (by this time, I forgot her name, yea I ****ed up, but you'll see how I recover)
HB: "Yea" as she was throwing her cigarette in a bush.
Me: Oh, well you didn't break up with him this morning did you? Because I'm not trying to pick up some rebound.
HB: No, it was a while ago.
Me: How long did you date him? (in retrospect, this was probably a bad question, but I wanted to gauge the severity of the relationship)
HB: 9 months (to me: not married/egaged), the only other long relationship I had was 9 months too, so I guess that's the cut off.
Me: (thinking: don't care about you're bullsh!t relationships, change subjects), cool. So, can I have your number?
HB: Yea, (number).
Me: Cool. I majored in journalism so don't take this the wrong way, but how do I spell your name?
HB: M-e-r-e-d-e-t-h.
Me: Cool, sometimes people spell their names weird, I was trained in college to ask that question. So, I'm going to use the bathroom and I'll see you later.
So, I have her kiss me on the cheek and tell her it was very nice meeting her, and I walk away. I take a piss, talk some **** to the manager, and speak with my friend, whose ready to leave. So, I go pay my tab, and I see the HB and I tell her good night. I walked up next to her and put my arm around her, she accepted it when she saw me but it probably would have been better to have her see me approach.
Me:"I'm leaving, it was nice meeting you, maybe we can do something next weekend?"
HB: My friend is going to be in town.
Me: Well, maybe we can do something during the week, hit up happy hour or something.
HB: Maybe, I didn't know how to tell you this outside, but I'm not looking for a relationship.
Me: That's fine, I don't want one either.
HB: ...and I'm not a wh0re.
Me: That's good. I'm not looking for a *****.
HB: Alright.
I had her kiss me on the cheek again. and I left. I'll probably call her Wednesday and have a few drinks with her, I'll post a recap if I do, but my car is broken down and I'm sharing my mom's so who knows.
How could I have improved? I've only really been at this for about two weeks, reading stuff on the internet and watching videos, so constructive criticism would be awesome.