Here's the situation: I was haninging out with this 18y.o HB7. She doesn't get along with other girls,all her friends are guys,she is a partier,on antidepressents.,so to sum it up,not an LTR material. I want her more like a FB.
We were hanging out a lot( 2 weeks)and it seems she is getting attached to me. We have not had a talk yet about a status of our relationship.We had sex twice..but both times I had to work for it and overcome LMR. So that last time we were hanging out at my place and she starts checking her text messages right in front of me. I looked over her shoulder and saw 3 messages from 3 different guys saying sh1t like: "I miss you baby", "I've been thinking of you all day"..etc...
I ask her about it...She gets upset about me peaking...and then tells me that those guys are just friends...and nothing going on..and she hinted she would want something going on with me. ( like bf/gf thing)
I got visibly upset about the texts....and told her...it's ok...she can see anyone she wants and I'll do the same. HB7 tried to prove me that she is not a slvt and wants a relationship with me.
She left with a promise from me that I don't think she is a slvt.
Now....I have ignored her texts for the last 3 days. She sent me one every night..wishing me sweet dreams
Today I get another text: "If you don't want to talk to me anymore then would you just tell me? having you ignore me just hurts too much"
What I want is to set a solid anchor in her mind...flirting with other dudes= me ignoring her for days.
And I want her to realize that I am the prize and she would actually have to work for me!..( maybe kinky sex will be her idea of winnin me over?)
I don't have any experience ignoring girls,so I dont know how far I can take it with this one. Should I just call her and invite her to my place?...or wait even longer untill she breaks completly down and sends me another few pathetic texts?
I am afraid that if I wait any longer she might just forget about me and move on.
What's your experience with ignoring insecure HB7?...next move?
We were hanging out a lot( 2 weeks)and it seems she is getting attached to me. We have not had a talk yet about a status of our relationship.We had sex twice..but both times I had to work for it and overcome LMR. So that last time we were hanging out at my place and she starts checking her text messages right in front of me. I looked over her shoulder and saw 3 messages from 3 different guys saying sh1t like: "I miss you baby", "I've been thinking of you all day"..etc...
I ask her about it...She gets upset about me peaking...and then tells me that those guys are just friends...and nothing going on..and she hinted she would want something going on with me. ( like bf/gf thing)
I got visibly upset about the texts....and told her...it's ok...she can see anyone she wants and I'll do the same. HB7 tried to prove me that she is not a slvt and wants a relationship with me.
She left with a promise from me that I don't think she is a slvt.
Now....I have ignored her texts for the last 3 days. She sent me one every night..wishing me sweet dreams
Today I get another text: "If you don't want to talk to me anymore then would you just tell me? having you ignore me just hurts too much"
What I want is to set a solid anchor in her mind...flirting with other dudes= me ignoring her for days.
And I want her to realize that I am the prize and she would actually have to work for me!..( maybe kinky sex will be her idea of winnin me over?)
I don't have any experience ignoring girls,so I dont know how far I can take it with this one. Should I just call her and invite her to my place?...or wait even longer untill she breaks completly down and sends me another few pathetic texts?
I am afraid that if I wait any longer she might just forget about me and move on.
What's your experience with ignoring insecure HB7?...next move?