Alex DeLarge
Master Don Juan
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- May 26, 2011
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So, I've been seeing this HB9 casually for a while now (a few months just kissing, but had sex 2 weeks ago), she's the one I posted about before who asked me to be her boyfriend during sex then changed her mind.. Well anyways, she was texting me earlier saying hi and updated me on her trip to see her cousin. They went to some concert and she told me her cousin's friend tried to make a move on her, but she shot him down. Then she called me up immediately.
She kept going on a rant about this while I was getting phone calls about shows that were still in the booking process for my band and missing the calls (AKA missing money!) So I said to her..
"Hey ____, I don't really want to hear about this guy who tried to move in on you.. I'm not really interested. Call me later." and hung up. I wasn't really thinking about how much of a d0uche I probably was saying this cause I had to get this booking stuff straightened out.
Then I get this huge 4 page text saying how me being rude to her is a huge turn off blah blah.. She knows she's not perfect but she's trying to be a better person.
I replied back about 2 hours later saying "Hey ___, I was just getting bombarded with phone calls and didn't realize I came off with that tone."
I got a reply of "It's okay, I'll ttyl."
I thought to myself "Hmm.. Maybe I should just leave it at that?" But went ahead and just called her up cause texting is way too confusing.. She answered the phone so I took it as a good sign. The convo went like...
Me: "Hey, what's goin on?"
Her: "Nothing really, I can't talk right now though.." (trying to do what I did to her)
Me: "Well all right, I just wanna let you know I'm looking forward to you coming back. I miss your face. Goodnight."
Her: "I miss you too.. Goodnight(She seemed kinda more upbeat after I said the previous statement)"
I think it may have been a little AFC calling her up.. But I've known this girl for so long now (8 years) I wouldn't say I have one-itis for her, but she's been there for me and helped me out a lot of times and I've been there for her too.
I can say to myself that I handled this really well, but I wanna see what you guys think just to get a second opinion. in my book, little arguments will happen here and there, but you just gotta role with the punches and recognize where you went wrong sometimes (like I did).
She kept going on a rant about this while I was getting phone calls about shows that were still in the booking process for my band and missing the calls (AKA missing money!) So I said to her..
"Hey ____, I don't really want to hear about this guy who tried to move in on you.. I'm not really interested. Call me later." and hung up. I wasn't really thinking about how much of a d0uche I probably was saying this cause I had to get this booking stuff straightened out.
Then I get this huge 4 page text saying how me being rude to her is a huge turn off blah blah.. She knows she's not perfect but she's trying to be a better person.
I replied back about 2 hours later saying "Hey ___, I was just getting bombarded with phone calls and didn't realize I came off with that tone."
I got a reply of "It's okay, I'll ttyl."
I thought to myself "Hmm.. Maybe I should just leave it at that?" But went ahead and just called her up cause texting is way too confusing.. She answered the phone so I took it as a good sign. The convo went like...
Me: "Hey, what's goin on?"
Her: "Nothing really, I can't talk right now though.." (trying to do what I did to her)
Me: "Well all right, I just wanna let you know I'm looking forward to you coming back. I miss your face. Goodnight."
Her: "I miss you too.. Goodnight(She seemed kinda more upbeat after I said the previous statement)"
I think it may have been a little AFC calling her up.. But I've known this girl for so long now (8 years) I wouldn't say I have one-itis for her, but she's been there for me and helped me out a lot of times and I've been there for her too.
I can say to myself that I handled this really well, but I wanna see what you guys think just to get a second opinion. in my book, little arguments will happen here and there, but you just gotta role with the punches and recognize where you went wrong sometimes (like I did).