Hey guys,
I need some advice. I have been with my girlfriend for 3 years now. I'm her first boyfriend and shes my first girlfriend. We are both 20 years old.
Everything has been going great so far.
Today, I turned on my computer, and her facebook was open from the last time she was over. The chat window was open, and it was a conversation between her and her best friend.
In this conversation, she said that she feels she will be with me for a long time, so her and her friend must go to Spain and party and have a fling with a hot tanned Spanish guy so she can feel that she has lived life fully.
I was pretty shattered when I read that. I wouldnt cheat, but the fact she could so easily is upsetting and makes me want to cheat. And then she mentions to her friend that she wishes I would tan. (Unfortunately I get moles easily and would probably get skin cancer and melanomas if I tanned).
Anyway. Thoughts? I know it is easy to say 'NEXT' but it has been 3 years and I have invested so much in the relationship. I'd appreciate your advice bros.
I need some advice. I have been with my girlfriend for 3 years now. I'm her first boyfriend and shes my first girlfriend. We are both 20 years old.
Everything has been going great so far.
Today, I turned on my computer, and her facebook was open from the last time she was over. The chat window was open, and it was a conversation between her and her best friend.
In this conversation, she said that she feels she will be with me for a long time, so her and her friend must go to Spain and party and have a fling with a hot tanned Spanish guy so she can feel that she has lived life fully.
I was pretty shattered when I read that. I wouldnt cheat, but the fact she could so easily is upsetting and makes me want to cheat. And then she mentions to her friend that she wishes I would tan. (Unfortunately I get moles easily and would probably get skin cancer and melanomas if I tanned).
Anyway. Thoughts? I know it is easy to say 'NEXT' but it has been 3 years and I have invested so much in the relationship. I'd appreciate your advice bros.