I have a couple of questions about the site, and guys

[CuriousGirl]

First of all, are girls allowed to join? Are there many on here?

I came across the site by chance, and never realised this kind of thing existed... Do all guys know about this kind of thing? Do you have any tips on how to differentiate between guys who just want sex and guys who want something more?I've been single for ages but lots of guys just want sex with me, I was wondering if I've been giving off the wrong signals...so I'd like to know if you have any advice on what men perceive as the right/wrong signals. I'm an art student, its mostly girls on my course, so really the only guys I see are when I'm out in bars or old school mates.
Also what made you join? What kind of guys do you get on here? Misogynistic but horny guys or nice guys that just need help with confidence and socialising? Sorry if any of this comes across as offensive, I don't mean it to.

EDIT: Ok clearly I've offended some people, I meant "misogynistic but horny" as an example, of course all men and women want sex, but it's just that I noticed some of the posts on here came across as fairly misogynistic (although I fear this word is a little tabboo here) and I think it's a shame that someone can have a bitter attitude towards a whole group of people, whether it's based on gender or not. Then again, maybe I'm jumping to conclusions about a couple of the posts, like some people have with mine. I asked because I didn't want to assume that everyone on here was that "type" of guy or any "type" of guy, I wanted your own opinion on your own community. I joined because I wanted some (sort of) first hand insight into this whole thing..or some insight into the male mind...that sounds a little more intrusive than I mean to be, but what I mean is I want to be able to empathise more, see how women are perceived through the eyes of (some) men so that in the future I can be more aware of my actions and how I come across. (Clearly online I've made a bad start.) So that's why I wanted your opinion on this community, I want to know if its pretty representational of most guys attitudes to women and other things really. Obviously everyone has their own walk of life and personality that fine tunes their perception of things but I think there is probably some stuff you can generalise to some extent.

Edit2: Just to clarify again, I do not mean guys who want sex = misogynistic. I'm regretting using such a strong word now! Blame it on my limited vocabulary perhaps, who'd've thought I took english. And when I say "guys who want more" I mean the comparison between guys only looking for one night stands/fvck buddies and guys looking for a committed/exclusive relationship (with sex)

 

[PRMoon]

A storm is imminent.

 

[CuriousGirl]

A storm is imminent.

eh?
Do you mean to say I'm going to have lots of users annoyed and ranting at my post?

 

[CuriousGirl]

Come on, 18 views, I know you're looking, don't be shy

 

[Amazing]

Girls are allowed to post threads after they show their tits. I am surprised you haven't been banned! Quickly upload some pics before it's too late!

 

[mpimpin]

Welcome to the forums! We have a few female posters here. you will find that you are welcome by some and not so much by others.

 

[wait_out]

Read Charlotte Allen's article. It sums up the world you just stumbled across comprehensively. You can find answers to your questions about dating below, at the sites which are meant for women.

http://www.weeklystandard.com/articles/new-dating-game
http://girlgame.wordpress.com/
http://studyitonline.com/g4g/

This site isn't meant to indulge women's curiosity about guys, or for you to seek attention from them. I advise you to do your own reading and keep a low profile until you're grounded enough to understand the dynamics of this place and contribute something of value to the discussion.

Here's why:

Come on, 18 views, I know you're looking, don't be shy

That's what we usually call attention whoring; it's not cute, it's irritating, and it will cost you respect from men. If you don't understand why you will catch static here over things guys will let slide in real life, you would benefit from *reading* not posting. Get the drift? No? You're an adult and can figure it out.

Which is all really just the polite way of saying: buy a fvcking clue...

 

[Robert28]

i'll let you in on a little secret about guys. we all want sex. every last one of us.

 

[Rescue Mission]

Misogynistic but horny guys

Funny how every single feminist out there loves to call sex-loving guys "misogynistic". Since you decided to call sexual guys women haters, I'll call you a misandrist, and a feminist piece of shyt.

You are a feminist piece of shyt because you dared to call men who enjoy sex with women as "women haters"......now go and fvck off, you are completely USELESS to this forum and any men who need to learn how to properly deal with women.

 

[Julius_Seizeher]

I get to brand SS on her butt.

 

[wait_out]

To be fair, Rescue Mission, those guys do exist.

Saying so doesn't exactly put you on the same level as Andrea Dworkin.

 

[sharkbeat]

Right/Wrong signals? Don't worry about it. To us, you are only vibing off one signal: "**** me".

 

[Robert28]

To be fair, Rescue Mission, those guys do exist.

Saying so doesn't exactly put you on the same level as Andrea Dworkin.

ofcourse "those type" of guys exist. to be fair though there are PLENTY of girls that like to play games and mess with guys minds too. these guys shes referring to use to be the nice guys, never got anywhere with it, so theyre out looking to get revenge. women created this monster by creating that d@mn friend zone.

 

[wait_out]

I don't think anyone who's been at this site for more than a week isn't aware that women are just as capable of evil as men.

My personal example is the middle aged Iraqi woman who would arrange for young women to be raped and shamed in order to press them into a suicide bombings. Sick.

It's a big world out there.

 

[Warrior74]

*grabs popcorn*

if you plan on sticking around prepare to have a very very very very tough skin. There are all types of guys here. Some really nice guys who are trying to figure out why being a nice guy doesn't work for them, some who are angry at past relationships and will sh1t all over you, and some who know the score but really won't put up with any BS from some chic who wandered in a guys locker room and starts spouting the exact opposite of what guys have learned really works. It's the internetz, people say any and everything. Most girls who come here don't stay too long, their pretty lies die here like they do at roissy's site.

And yes...every guy wants sex. It's how we are made. This is the age of sex first, relationship second unless there is a huge disparity in attraction.

 

[Rescue Mission]

First of all, are girls allowed to join? Are there many on here?

I came across the site by chance, and never realised this kind of thing existed... Do all guys know about this kind of thing? Do you have any tips on how to differentiate between guys who just want sex and guys who want something more?I've been single for ages but lots of guys just want sex with me, I was wondering if I've been giving off the wrong signals...so I'd like to know if you have any advice on what men perceive as the right/wrong signals. I'm an art student, its mostly girls on my course, so really the only guys I see are when I'm out in bars or old school mates.
Also what made you join? What kind of guys do you get on here? Misogynistic but horny guys or nice guys that just need help with confidence and socialising? Sorry if any of this comes across as offensive, I don't mean it to.

EDIT: Ok clearly I've offended some people, I meant "misogynistic but horny" as an example, of course all men and women want sex, but it's just that I noticed some of the posts on here came across as fairly misogynistic (although I fear this word is a little tabboo here) and I think it's a shame that someone can have a bitter attitude towards a whole group of people, whether it's based on gender or not. Then again, maybe I'm jumping to conclusions about a couple of the posts, like some people have with mine. I asked because I didn't want to assume that everyone on here was that "type" of guy or any "type" of guy, I wanted your own opinion on your own community. I joined because I wanted some (sort of) first hand insight into this whole thing..or some insight into the male mind...that sounds a little more intrusive than I mean to be, but what I mean is I want to be able to empathise more, see how women are perceived through the eyes of (some) men so that in the future I can be more aware of my actions and how I come across. (Clearly online I've made a bad start.) So that's why I wanted your opinion on this community, I want to know if its pretty representational of most guys attitudes to women and other things really. Obviously everyone has their own walk of life and personality that fine tunes their perception of things but I think there is probably some stuff you can generalise to some extent.

I don't have hate for feminists, or for women (I love them for the most part!), but I DO hate morons who throw around the word "misogynist" just as easily as b1tches throw out the word "creep" these days.

The word misogynist is nothing but a shaming tactic created by feminists when they see men acting in a way that they disapprove of.

 

[Cure]

First of all, are girls allowed to join? Are there many on here?

Do all guys know about this kind of thing?

Do you have any tips on how to differentiate between guys who just want sex and guys who want something more?

I've been single for ages but lots of guys just want sex with me, I was wondering if I've been giving off the wrong signals...so I'd like to know if you have any advice on what men perceive as the right/wrong signals?

Also what made you join?

What kind of guys do you get on here?

answers in order-

Yes, and yes, a few. Probably bout the same as men on the cosmo forums..

Id imagine most guys have heard about it somewhere, but relativly few study/practice it. Even on this website, the % of posters who actually do it, as oppose to just talking about it, is quite small.

There is no such thing as a guy who wants somthing more. So you can stop deluding yourself, I will lay it out for you.

All men want sex, all the time. Even those nice guys you meet who take you out for a romantic meal, dont preassure you into anything, treat you like a princess etc etc, would nail you on a dustbin down a dark alley 10 minutes after meeting you if they could, and they are thinking about it. They dont because very few men have the balls to do that, and of the men with sufficent balls, very few can generate enough attraction in a girl.
When I see a girl in a bar, I dont think "oh she looks nice I wonder if we'd get on", I think "wow Id love to tap that". And Im not unusual.

Now that we've established that all men want it off you, you want a relationship as well.. thats fine, all you have to is either-
A. find a guy who is a total sucker, who will offer the relationship without the sex first. Or
B. sleep with a guy long enough for him to fall in love with you/want to be with you.

Lots of guys want relationships, but the ones that only want that and dont want sex at the same time, are weak men who have been conditioned by society to deny their true nature.
There is no way to tell them apart, some guys who only want sex are so persistent they will date you for ages then dissappear as soon as you put out. Some guys you can sleep with on the first date and spend the rest of your life with.

moving on-

I joined to discuss a topic of interest with other men in a similar position/interest. Im hopeless with women and want to improve.

You get all sorts of men on here, but for the most part we are men who never "figured it out" with women when we were younger and are only now starting to learn. You do get men who are insecure and take it out on gays/women, but not many.


I have a couple of questions, are you hot? are you in London? Im looking for a serious long term relationship with an art student, its not just about sex, honest.. Im different from all other men

Serious question-

Do you want sex? if so how often, does it depend on the guy you are with?
What exactly is your problem with guys only wanting sex?
Why do you expect a guy to want a relationship if you're not putting out?
If you are single and have been for a while, but "loads of guys want sex with you" my guess is that you are just rejecting all of them, waiting for mr perfect who doesnt exist.

welcome to the forum.


Cure.

 

[Amazing]

I came on this forum because I blew it with a girl who was INTO me. I was having fun by myself, not really worrying about her, and then everyone said that she liked me, so I called her up a couple of times, and it went nowhere.

I was really confused because she was suppose to shoe in - we both like each other, right?


it was May at that point. Around the same time I went to a party and was too shy to do anything.


so after those two things, I came home and googled "how to get women"


boom.


after about 2 months on this site, all it really did was showed me two things:

1. don't be so eager to want her, play it cool.
2. just be your social self, since i was already outgoing.


I saw that girl in August and within 30 seconds she was head over heels into me. I started talking about her new nipple rings within a minute.. but i never called her since now I could go after better women

I went to the same party again, and I ****ing dominated it. Like walk in a group of 5 girls and have them eating out of my hand.. it was great.



So yeah, there are all sorts of guys here but id bet the majority were like me.

PS. Don't kid yourself, all of us know better than to hook up with any girl off this site.

 

[Colossus]

CuriousGirl-

Welcome.

SS is a collection of men (all ages but mostly late teens thru mid thirties) who came here to learn better game, and get some answers as to why things haven't gone as they wanted with the ladies. Some guys stick around to give back and contribute to the SS literature.

There are a few regular 'types' here:

-The teen-early twenties guys who simply want to seduce and lay as many women as quickly as possible.
-The mature men who have some sage insight into life and women but are often a bunch of whiners.
-The guys who have been seriously burned by women and adjusted their world views and treatment of women accordingly.
-The regulars who just like to chime in from time to time on various topics.

Women generally don't post much because they get flamed into oblivion (reflexively) by most guys. Keep in mind many, many guys on SS have serious beef with women in general; and often rightfully so. I wont use the "M" word but a spade is a fvcking spade.

If you sift through threads you can find some golden insights. Like any other forum, there are wise lecturers, clowns, and bad seeds. Decide for yourself. If you are looking for unfiltered advice I suggest finding a poster you like and sending him a PM.

 

[Strelok]

And let's not forget about guys who are looking for suggestions to make their lifes easyer.
I'm talking about mind games and social rules and all that stuff.
Nowadays it seems like you have to be Hercules in order to get laid or even have a chance.