So here the setup i took her out first date dinner and movie went well. She call me back the next day saying she enjoy herself, so i promptly set up the next date by going bowling and dinner. At this dinner she did alot talking bout her family and ****. after that we kiss it was cool. Then we went out clubbing in which she did the wet t-shirt contest she has big natural double d's, i was happy. Took her back her place and bang her. Well that in the first month. pretty i got what i wanted pretty easily and fast. the first date was like 50 bucks and restuarant for the second one was wing night for 39 cents so i didn't go crazy on spending. oh im 21 and she 26 if that makes difference in this matter.
Now this where i **** up i got emotional i was like where do i stand in this relationship she said we just play it by ear me thinking i guess she still hung up over her ex almost fianace so i didn't bring up again.
My next screw up was that i was texting/calling her than she was calling me.
Then when i ask her out to go again. " amazing it was a friends birthday sorry i had to reschelude. was really her friend friend some girl she met in class but i was like cool. Or when text her lets say three times she text back 1 messages at end of nite with some crap.
now we first dated it was in december she didn't have any family here, so i gave her small gift for christmas. wasn't no nice guy **** kinda felt pitty whatever. Then valentine day she was supposely to busy see me. So that right there was the hint i needed to say bye.
Another problem with this situation is she claim to busy in third months in dating scene i shouldn't have put up with this ****. Definatly since she doesn't have a job and just going school ill be damn if your that busy.
So after valentine day i broke up with her.I didn't wanted do it on valentine day because i didn't want be total jackass. But i got sick of the confusion cause actually like her personalities and obvious her look to consider this girl girlfriend material. So when i broke up with i was like look you dont have worry about me calling no more you keep your time to yourself.
She was surpise when i did this saying i told you that i was interested but me back old player self was thinking your words dont match action, so they are worthless to me. didn't say it but thought it. then she said i told you could pick day when i said i was going out with my friend and told her no you choose the date because i already invested my time coming to see you on this day. She saw that me rejecting her, no i just want her put some effort in this ****. then during the break up convo she was like maybe i don't have much time put in to this realtionship so we can be friends. I promptly said no we can't be friends. i like you too much. now this whole time we weren't exclusive but we acted like we were.
I guess if i just wanted fwb i could easily had it. But in this rare instance i was looking for something more. when i realize my **** i broke off with her.
But know im thinking you know what maybe i can get back with her. and just be friends benefits and not worrying about realtionship aspect of it.
And finally my question is after breaking up with her, how do i get her back on my team, i need my kobe back on my squad cuz the other broads are slackin.
Now this where i **** up i got emotional i was like where do i stand in this relationship she said we just play it by ear me thinking i guess she still hung up over her ex almost fianace so i didn't bring up again.
My next screw up was that i was texting/calling her than she was calling me.
Then when i ask her out to go again. " amazing it was a friends birthday sorry i had to reschelude. was really her friend friend some girl she met in class but i was like cool. Or when text her lets say three times she text back 1 messages at end of nite with some crap.
now we first dated it was in december she didn't have any family here, so i gave her small gift for christmas. wasn't no nice guy **** kinda felt pitty whatever. Then valentine day she was supposely to busy see me. So that right there was the hint i needed to say bye.
Another problem with this situation is she claim to busy in third months in dating scene i shouldn't have put up with this ****. Definatly since she doesn't have a job and just going school ill be damn if your that busy.
So after valentine day i broke up with her.I didn't wanted do it on valentine day because i didn't want be total jackass. But i got sick of the confusion cause actually like her personalities and obvious her look to consider this girl girlfriend material. So when i broke up with i was like look you dont have worry about me calling no more you keep your time to yourself.
She was surpise when i did this saying i told you that i was interested but me back old player self was thinking your words dont match action, so they are worthless to me. didn't say it but thought it. then she said i told you could pick day when i said i was going out with my friend and told her no you choose the date because i already invested my time coming to see you on this day. She saw that me rejecting her, no i just want her put some effort in this ****. then during the break up convo she was like maybe i don't have much time put in to this realtionship so we can be friends. I promptly said no we can't be friends. i like you too much. now this whole time we weren't exclusive but we acted like we were.
I guess if i just wanted fwb i could easily had it. But in this rare instance i was looking for something more. when i realize my **** i broke off with her.
But know im thinking you know what maybe i can get back with her. and just be friends benefits and not worrying about realtionship aspect of it.
And finally my question is after breaking up with her, how do i get her back on my team, i need my kobe back on my squad cuz the other broads are slackin.
