Daydream Engineer
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I couldn't find any tips, threads or articles about not being able to keep a secret. I am curious, how do train yourself to not be a blabbermouth, and to keep things people tell you to yourself, and to not tell everybody the crazy things that happen in your life? This is a new habit of mine that started several months ago, and when they say " how are you?" i want to be able to say," Not Much", instead of saying " good. I went on a date with so and so" or " I rapped at a hip hop festival and sucked". I have noticed that i am only a blabbermouth at work, (grocery store), and not anywhere else, and this is one of the only flaws in my inner game. I think i blab because im a good storyteller and people like to listen when i talk, (ego?), and i feel influential and i don't tell people directly, it slips out most of the time . Also one of the problems is that when i tell somebody something, several days everybody knows, and it hasn't been a problem in the past, but one day somebody is going to call me out on it. I am a very social person, everybody at work has known each other for at least a year, but i don't want to be a gossip guy.
Basically, how do i keep myself verbally grounded when i have cool things to say?
Any intelligent feedback welcome.
Basically, how do i keep myself verbally grounded when i have cool things to say?
Any intelligent feedback welcome.