Two months ago I met this chick at a house party and she ended up asking me for my contact info. Soon we were having some incredible sex. She was always initiating contact, wanting to hang out, and inviting me to things she was doing. She's hot and nerdy and we really seemed to connect.
We spent a couple weekends together that were like mini-honeymoons, and I was waiting for her to open up to me and try to define what "we" were, but she never did (and I wasn't going to initiate that talk first).
Now it's been two weeks since we've had sex and I'm facing the reality that whatever it was is over. I started to see that she wasn't acting the same way about 10 days ago. I haven't contacted her now for 4 days.
I know that usually when a chick does this it's because there's another guy. Whatever it is, it sucks knowing that she lost so much attraction and respect for me so quickly. She just woke up one day and flipped the switch, and then left it up to me to figure it out.
This is the first chick in 1.5 yrs since my EX (who I think is HPD and left me mind-focked) who really did something for me. She un-mind-focked me, and now she has (very quickly) mind-focked me herself.
I did protect my heart much better this time, but I still found myself way too easily willing to fall hard for this girl and always struggling to get my frame back. I also stopped spinning plates. At this point, I'm just hoping that I get another chance to bang her hard.
We spent a couple weekends together that were like mini-honeymoons, and I was waiting for her to open up to me and try to define what "we" were, but she never did (and I wasn't going to initiate that talk first).
Now it's been two weeks since we've had sex and I'm facing the reality that whatever it was is over. I started to see that she wasn't acting the same way about 10 days ago. I haven't contacted her now for 4 days.
I know that usually when a chick does this it's because there's another guy. Whatever it is, it sucks knowing that she lost so much attraction and respect for me so quickly. She just woke up one day and flipped the switch, and then left it up to me to figure it out.
This is the first chick in 1.5 yrs since my EX (who I think is HPD and left me mind-focked) who really did something for me. She un-mind-focked me, and now she has (very quickly) mind-focked me herself.
I did protect my heart much better this time, but I still found myself way too easily willing to fall hard for this girl and always struggling to get my frame back. I also stopped spinning plates. At this point, I'm just hoping that I get another chance to bang her hard.