NoBiscuits
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When men realize money is attractive to women:
"I will have more money than the average man."
When men realize muscles are also attractive:
"I will have more money and be more fit than the average man."
Men then realize confidence is attractive too:
"I will have more money, be more fit, and have more confidence than the average man."
Then having interesting hobbies becomes the current thing, and everyone then adds that to the self improvement list as well.
etc.
Now there's a gigantic list of "self improvement" checkboxes to spend your time on, with many items on the list becoming more challenging to achieve as time goes on (eg. owning a car). We're at the point where learning about nootropics, jaw surgery, and face creams is somewhat common. The mantras that men are "transforming themselves" and "doing it for themselves" and "becoming men" will feel real (as achieving male beauty standards has become such a massive personal project in 2024). But "self improvement" is, ultimately, just matching the current male beauty standard and moving it to +1, is it not? It's just gotten hard to see under the massive list of current requirements.
The inspiration to this thread was hearing about how Rust recently became the official programming language of the US government (if you know, then you know). They used the last decade wisely, cooperated as a team, got funding and resources from the big fish, and are now managing something prestigious which secures their community stable, high income work + federal government authority for the rest of their lives. And they even got the satisfaction of purging out their straight white male compeitors in C, C#, and C++ from having a future.
There is/was a whole subsection of the internet for men (Manosphere + adjacent spheres), but it was mostly spent on just training men to become more attractive to women. Are we going to move on from this?
"I will have more money than the average man."
When men realize muscles are also attractive:
"I will have more money and be more fit than the average man."
Men then realize confidence is attractive too:
"I will have more money, be more fit, and have more confidence than the average man."
Then having interesting hobbies becomes the current thing, and everyone then adds that to the self improvement list as well.
etc.
Now there's a gigantic list of "self improvement" checkboxes to spend your time on, with many items on the list becoming more challenging to achieve as time goes on (eg. owning a car). We're at the point where learning about nootropics, jaw surgery, and face creams is somewhat common. The mantras that men are "transforming themselves" and "doing it for themselves" and "becoming men" will feel real (as achieving male beauty standards has become such a massive personal project in 2024). But "self improvement" is, ultimately, just matching the current male beauty standard and moving it to +1, is it not? It's just gotten hard to see under the massive list of current requirements.
The inspiration to this thread was hearing about how Rust recently became the official programming language of the US government (if you know, then you know). They used the last decade wisely, cooperated as a team, got funding and resources from the big fish, and are now managing something prestigious which secures their community stable, high income work + federal government authority for the rest of their lives. And they even got the satisfaction of purging out their straight white male compeitors in C, C#, and C++ from having a future.
There is/was a whole subsection of the internet for men (Manosphere + adjacent spheres), but it was mostly spent on just training men to become more attractive to women. Are we going to move on from this?
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