hello people,
here's my FR from thursday night.
for the explaining: it was jewish version of halloween, i mean all the desguise thing, the history is different.
long short story after hesitation, i decided to suit up like steve urkel:
as i get to the place, everyone complimented me on my disguise suit.
anyway, there was that chick (let's call her R) that was introduced to me by my cousin, didn't really gave her attention, but i was polite and said Hi.
in the club i was dancing with every people on the place (it's kinda my usual club, so i basically know almost everyone), with chicks i was kinda sexual in my dancing, and with guys i was dancing normally.
so i went to sit on our table, and R was there with a friend.
started to talk to them, had some laugh.
then i started dancing with her, and it was cool, we were really close, our faces were close, she was giving me a lot of interest.
after 5 minutes of dancing with that sexual tension and without doing anything with her excepted dancing, i told her i was going to drink some water befor ill get dehydrate.
after a while away, came back and started to dance with friends( guys) doing some dumb things.
she then came up to me asking if i was gay.
convo time:
R: hey you're gay ?
me: not that i know about it
R: so why you're dancing like that with guys ?!
me: what ?! are you homophobic ?
R: i'm not beliveing til i'm not seeing it !
me: you are free to think whatever you want, as long as i know what i am.
R: so prove it ! (i think i was suppose to kiss here, but didn't do it. instead >>>)
so i just walk away, but not to far so she can see me, i started to dance with some chicks i know, it was a bit sexual, like they was rubbing my d!ck with her ass, i was holding her tight to me etc.
then just came back next to her (my table) and then she told me: 'i'm not believing you until you're not proving it !'
then i grab her, started to dance a little bit, again, we were close, and went for the kiss just with lips.
an she was: 'you're definitely not gay !'
me: 'who said i'm not bi ?!'
R: 'no you're not !'
so after i kissed her again with the tongue this time.
and it was like that for almost 20 minutes, one time dancing, kissing the other.
i was playing with her, she was coming for the kiss and i was leaning back, then again but this time with a little lick on her lips.
leaded her hands, on my body (but i wasnt putting it on my c0ck or on my ass)
even though she touched my ass a few time, but like she was just passing her hand to my lower back.
in a moment she was rubbing her ass on me, and i started to get hard, but didn't even try to hide it. it was like i wanted to let her know she's exciting me.
she even kiss me after with passion, and she was really close so she can even feel i'm hard (and i'm sure she felt it)
while i was kissing her, i had my hand all around her body excepted one thing that still intrigue me for some reason ... i was touching her ass, putting some pressure on it, and when i was just passing my hands on her breast just so my hand can reach her neck, she had a little thing with her hand like trying to prevent me from doing it, i think it was because we were on a public place ?!
and again was like that for 2 or 3 more times, sure i did some pause between them, and wasnt playing it like a needy.
so i just lean back, told her, i'm gonna see my friend and have some great time with them.
all the time i was with my friend she was next to me, touching me in hand, arms, lower back etc.
she tried to dance with me so i kinda ignored her gently without words.
after a while, told her i was going out to take some fresh air and she should come with me.
so we went outside (i was leading her, all over the place olding her hand above my shoulder)
we went outside, saw my cousin, his GF and the cousin of the gf.
we talked together, all of us, had some laugh.
while talking, she gave me a little slap (playfully), i first told her 'watch out i'm doing kung fu'
so she did it again, so i stared at her and told her i don't like hands play.
and she started again, so i just walked away, she cam to me running and excusing, and tried to kis me, and i was leaning back didnt let her do it.
convo time:
R: 'i'm sorry'
me: 'cool' (and leaned back)
R: 'stop it'
me: 'yeah it's like i was hurting you with a car and then telling you i'm sorry, it's easy, doing thing and then appologize.'
R: 'i really meant it, and i wont do it again'
didnt want to be to much stubborn. so i just talked to her, and when she kissed me, i wasnt rejected it.
then her friends came to take her, cause they was going back home.
they went ahead and let us 'separated' behind.
she asked me to go with her to the car (let's say 300metres away),so i told her 'you know what ?! ill come 150 metres, cause i need to get back to my friends'
then we started to kiss and again, she slapped me while talking, and i walked away, she appologized and told me it's automatic, so i was telling her i dont care, i already told here 3 times.
she said she's not gonna do it again, and i asked her how can i believe it cause it's the third time.
she told me she dont meant to and she's really sorry, i should believe her cause she have one word.
decided to teach her a lesson so i was pulling her bra (the part under her boobs, the metal part) a few times, she asked me to stop a few times, told her that now she can understand it's not funny to do thing again and again when the other dont appreciate that.
then i laughed at her, then i started teasing her, and again we kissed.
convo time:
R:'come with me to the car'
me: 'no i cant, i need to go back'
R: 'plz'
me: 'no'
R: 'come !' (like a command)
me: 'hey sweety i'm not an easy boy, i'm not gonna do things when you're telling me to do it, like it's god !'
R: 'boy ?!'
me: 'yeah i still like having fun, like back when i was a kid, so i'm cosidering myself that way' (sure with a smile)
R: 'plz' (she started to kiss me)
me: 'you know it aint gonna work ! besides, no means no'
R: 'ok bye' (started to walk away)
me: 'cia' (walking away)
didn't number closed, i think it was, because i wanted to build a relationship and didnt want her to imagine things with me.
things i can notice:
*i wasnt using canned material (i was used to do it once, back when i was a 'PUA') it was all naturally.
* it really driving them crazy when you goin to dance with other chicks like i did.
* she was into me obviously, but ow come she didnt let me touch her boobs, even if it was just passing to her neck ?!
*while i was out with my cousin the GF and her, we was sitting, and so she can get closer to the groupe, she put her hand between my legs, so her arm touched my d!ck, but again when i was touching her boobs while i was kissing her outside (far from people) she did that 'movement' again
*if i see her again, i'll play it cool, but if she's still into me should i play it like the real man that don't let her another chance, or should i play with her a bit and then kiss make a move ??
your turn, tell me what i did right/wrong, how should i improve my game, your thought.
here's my FR from thursday night.
for the explaining: it was jewish version of halloween, i mean all the desguise thing, the history is different.
long short story after hesitation, i decided to suit up like steve urkel:
as i get to the place, everyone complimented me on my disguise suit.
anyway, there was that chick (let's call her R) that was introduced to me by my cousin, didn't really gave her attention, but i was polite and said Hi.
in the club i was dancing with every people on the place (it's kinda my usual club, so i basically know almost everyone), with chicks i was kinda sexual in my dancing, and with guys i was dancing normally.
so i went to sit on our table, and R was there with a friend.
started to talk to them, had some laugh.
then i started dancing with her, and it was cool, we were really close, our faces were close, she was giving me a lot of interest.
after 5 minutes of dancing with that sexual tension and without doing anything with her excepted dancing, i told her i was going to drink some water befor ill get dehydrate.
after a while away, came back and started to dance with friends( guys) doing some dumb things.
she then came up to me asking if i was gay.
convo time:
R: hey you're gay ?
me: not that i know about it
R: so why you're dancing like that with guys ?!
me: what ?! are you homophobic ?
R: i'm not beliveing til i'm not seeing it !
me: you are free to think whatever you want, as long as i know what i am.
R: so prove it ! (i think i was suppose to kiss here, but didn't do it. instead >>>)
so i just walk away, but not to far so she can see me, i started to dance with some chicks i know, it was a bit sexual, like they was rubbing my d!ck with her ass, i was holding her tight to me etc.
then just came back next to her (my table) and then she told me: 'i'm not believing you until you're not proving it !'
then i grab her, started to dance a little bit, again, we were close, and went for the kiss just with lips.
an she was: 'you're definitely not gay !'
me: 'who said i'm not bi ?!'
R: 'no you're not !'
so after i kissed her again with the tongue this time.
and it was like that for almost 20 minutes, one time dancing, kissing the other.
i was playing with her, she was coming for the kiss and i was leaning back, then again but this time with a little lick on her lips.
leaded her hands, on my body (but i wasnt putting it on my c0ck or on my ass)
even though she touched my ass a few time, but like she was just passing her hand to my lower back.
in a moment she was rubbing her ass on me, and i started to get hard, but didn't even try to hide it. it was like i wanted to let her know she's exciting me.
she even kiss me after with passion, and she was really close so she can even feel i'm hard (and i'm sure she felt it)
while i was kissing her, i had my hand all around her body excepted one thing that still intrigue me for some reason ... i was touching her ass, putting some pressure on it, and when i was just passing my hands on her breast just so my hand can reach her neck, she had a little thing with her hand like trying to prevent me from doing it, i think it was because we were on a public place ?!
and again was like that for 2 or 3 more times, sure i did some pause between them, and wasnt playing it like a needy.
so i just lean back, told her, i'm gonna see my friend and have some great time with them.
all the time i was with my friend she was next to me, touching me in hand, arms, lower back etc.
she tried to dance with me so i kinda ignored her gently without words.
after a while, told her i was going out to take some fresh air and she should come with me.
so we went outside (i was leading her, all over the place olding her hand above my shoulder)
we went outside, saw my cousin, his GF and the cousin of the gf.
we talked together, all of us, had some laugh.
while talking, she gave me a little slap (playfully), i first told her 'watch out i'm doing kung fu'
so she did it again, so i stared at her and told her i don't like hands play.
and she started again, so i just walked away, she cam to me running and excusing, and tried to kis me, and i was leaning back didnt let her do it.
convo time:
R: 'i'm sorry'
me: 'cool' (and leaned back)
R: 'stop it'
me: 'yeah it's like i was hurting you with a car and then telling you i'm sorry, it's easy, doing thing and then appologize.'
R: 'i really meant it, and i wont do it again'
didnt want to be to much stubborn. so i just talked to her, and when she kissed me, i wasnt rejected it.
then her friends came to take her, cause they was going back home.
they went ahead and let us 'separated' behind.
she asked me to go with her to the car (let's say 300metres away),so i told her 'you know what ?! ill come 150 metres, cause i need to get back to my friends'
then we started to kiss and again, she slapped me while talking, and i walked away, she appologized and told me it's automatic, so i was telling her i dont care, i already told here 3 times.
she said she's not gonna do it again, and i asked her how can i believe it cause it's the third time.
she told me she dont meant to and she's really sorry, i should believe her cause she have one word.
decided to teach her a lesson so i was pulling her bra (the part under her boobs, the metal part) a few times, she asked me to stop a few times, told her that now she can understand it's not funny to do thing again and again when the other dont appreciate that.
then i laughed at her, then i started teasing her, and again we kissed.
convo time:
R:'come with me to the car'
me: 'no i cant, i need to go back'
R: 'plz'
me: 'no'
R: 'come !' (like a command)
me: 'hey sweety i'm not an easy boy, i'm not gonna do things when you're telling me to do it, like it's god !'
R: 'boy ?!'
me: 'yeah i still like having fun, like back when i was a kid, so i'm cosidering myself that way' (sure with a smile)
R: 'plz' (she started to kiss me)
me: 'you know it aint gonna work ! besides, no means no'
R: 'ok bye' (started to walk away)
me: 'cia' (walking away)
didn't number closed, i think it was, because i wanted to build a relationship and didnt want her to imagine things with me.
things i can notice:
*i wasnt using canned material (i was used to do it once, back when i was a 'PUA') it was all naturally.
* it really driving them crazy when you goin to dance with other chicks like i did.
* she was into me obviously, but ow come she didnt let me touch her boobs, even if it was just passing to her neck ?!
*while i was out with my cousin the GF and her, we was sitting, and so she can get closer to the groupe, she put her hand between my legs, so her arm touched my d!ck, but again when i was touching her boobs while i was kissing her outside (far from people) she did that 'movement' again
*if i see her again, i'll play it cool, but if she's still into me should i play it like the real man that don't let her another chance, or should i play with her a bit and then kiss make a move ??
your turn, tell me what i did right/wrong, how should i improve my game, your thought.