So.....19 days ago my Ex of 7 years dumped me. We had been doing long distance for the past 10 months and had experienced some issues.
You can read the story here:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=221742
Anyway, after she dumped me, I didn't beg or plead for her back, I just went silent. Not a word from me or her.
Today she texts me "Hey, I hope you've been well. I'm coming to town in 3 weeks....maybe we could meet for coffee or something and talk."
I have not responded. I'm not sure if I want her back, or want to move on. I'm torn between the two.
Regardless, what do you think the intention of her wanting to meet is? So she can feel less guilty for dumping me? To re-affirm her decision was right to dump me? To boost her ego? Or just to get me talking to her again now?
How should I respond....if at all....? And....should I meet her?
You can read the story here:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=221742
Anyway, after she dumped me, I didn't beg or plead for her back, I just went silent. Not a word from me or her.
Today she texts me "Hey, I hope you've been well. I'm coming to town in 3 weeks....maybe we could meet for coffee or something and talk."
I have not responded. I'm not sure if I want her back, or want to move on. I'm torn between the two.
Regardless, what do you think the intention of her wanting to meet is? So she can feel less guilty for dumping me? To re-affirm her decision was right to dump me? To boost her ego? Or just to get me talking to her again now?
How should I respond....if at all....? And....should I meet her?