Alex DeLarge
Master Don Juan
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So like the thread title says, I broke things off with this girl I had been seeing for about a month. Throughout this whole dating thing she has told me over and over "I just want friends with benefits" I thought "okay that's cool".
Then last week, she was sleeping over my place. After we had sex she was saying things like "It seems like you're getting attached". I then told her right then "No I'm not getting attached".. She replied with "Oh, well I think I am".
Then I told her this..
"Well to be honest with you, I wasn't just looking for a FWB relationship at this moment in my life, I wanted to meet a girl I like enough to be my girlfriend. You said you didn't want anything further than this, so I don't expect it to go further. We're just having fun."
Then the next day she says something to me like "I feel like if I don't have sex with you you're just gonna lose me." I said back to her "But you only want an FWB relationship. If you take the benefits out of it, then what have you got? You said you didn't want to take things further, so it's going to be meaningless to even keep this a FWB situation. We might as well just be friends."
She sent me some 5 paragraph long text that I didn't give a **** about nor reply to.. In the text she wrote about how she got scared because she started to have "feelings" for me and wanted to avoid any situation that would make things complicated. This seems so fvcking immature to me. So I don't even reply after the 5 paragraph text. I don't talk to her for a day, then she texts me asking to get her sh1t.
I say, "Yeah, ill be working later tonight but i put everything together. You can just grab it from one of my roomates. they'll be home." She asks me to just bring it to school, I agree just cause I want her to stop bothering me. She tells me to keep some book she gave me as a gift (and wrote some message in) but I told her "no im not gonna read it, just take it back".. She then said why was I mad at her blah blah.. I told her I'm not mad and to just take her book back.
She goes off on a big rant. Winds up talking to me. I told her "We're not dating remember? I'm going to bed and I think it's pointless to argue about this. It's over now. Goodnight."
Now I have to see this girl at school wednesday and give her her crap back. To be honest, I don't really want to be friends with her other than a "Oh hey what's up" friend at school. She really got on my nerves and turned me off when she freaked out at me a few days ago. What do you guys think I can do here? Been trying to go NC but she blows up my fvckin phone!
Then last week, she was sleeping over my place. After we had sex she was saying things like "It seems like you're getting attached". I then told her right then "No I'm not getting attached".. She replied with "Oh, well I think I am".
Then I told her this..
"Well to be honest with you, I wasn't just looking for a FWB relationship at this moment in my life, I wanted to meet a girl I like enough to be my girlfriend. You said you didn't want anything further than this, so I don't expect it to go further. We're just having fun."
Then the next day she says something to me like "I feel like if I don't have sex with you you're just gonna lose me." I said back to her "But you only want an FWB relationship. If you take the benefits out of it, then what have you got? You said you didn't want to take things further, so it's going to be meaningless to even keep this a FWB situation. We might as well just be friends."
She sent me some 5 paragraph long text that I didn't give a **** about nor reply to.. In the text she wrote about how she got scared because she started to have "feelings" for me and wanted to avoid any situation that would make things complicated. This seems so fvcking immature to me. So I don't even reply after the 5 paragraph text. I don't talk to her for a day, then she texts me asking to get her sh1t.
I say, "Yeah, ill be working later tonight but i put everything together. You can just grab it from one of my roomates. they'll be home." She asks me to just bring it to school, I agree just cause I want her to stop bothering me. She tells me to keep some book she gave me as a gift (and wrote some message in) but I told her "no im not gonna read it, just take it back".. She then said why was I mad at her blah blah.. I told her I'm not mad and to just take her book back.
She goes off on a big rant. Winds up talking to me. I told her "We're not dating remember? I'm going to bed and I think it's pointless to argue about this. It's over now. Goodnight."
Now I have to see this girl at school wednesday and give her her crap back. To be honest, I don't really want to be friends with her other than a "Oh hey what's up" friend at school. She really got on my nerves and turned me off when she freaked out at me a few days ago. What do you guys think I can do here? Been trying to go NC but she blows up my fvckin phone!