Let's compare notes on this DJs.
I see/hear all this talk about how easy it is to find a quality girl,a girl who will not play you,who will respect your time and even call you
I meet few girls,maybe 3-4 a month and yet to find a girl matches the description of the nice girl. Last week I had met a girl in my class,she opened me actually and I suggested we hang out soon. She accepted and seemed to be happy about us hanging out. Then she flaked on me and broke our plans. Two weeks passed,I played busy and hard to get with her,but the third week came and exatly the same sh1t happened. She called me up and instead of us hanging out she suggested we go to a party with some of her friends( probably guys). I said no to that. And she didnt care it seems.
So this is kinda typical scenario I run into....the got initial interest,then flake on me. I dont give them second chances after that...unless they are being really nice.
I go to a big University where girls are getting approached a lot!...So I see how they always have someone who is hittin on them and therefore have lots of guys to choose from. Girls are dating multiple guys here...openly...and if you dont like it..then that's too bad,they got like a dozen of other guys chasing them.So what's the best angle to work from here?
I am the one who supose to date multiple girls...not the girls! Or I am expecting too much?... I feel pretty uneasy knowing that the girl I am interested in is also dating ( possibly sleeping with) another dudes.
My female friends say that I expect too much and untill I had a talk with a girl about being exclusive I shouldn't expect her not to date other guys.
My male friends tell me I got bad luck with women.
I am so confused...seems like women here have all the power.
I see/hear all this talk about how easy it is to find a quality girl,a girl who will not play you,who will respect your time and even call you
I meet few girls,maybe 3-4 a month and yet to find a girl matches the description of the nice girl. Last week I had met a girl in my class,she opened me actually and I suggested we hang out soon. She accepted and seemed to be happy about us hanging out. Then she flaked on me and broke our plans. Two weeks passed,I played busy and hard to get with her,but the third week came and exatly the same sh1t happened. She called me up and instead of us hanging out she suggested we go to a party with some of her friends( probably guys). I said no to that. And she didnt care it seems.
So this is kinda typical scenario I run into....the got initial interest,then flake on me. I dont give them second chances after that...unless they are being really nice.
I go to a big University where girls are getting approached a lot!...So I see how they always have someone who is hittin on them and therefore have lots of guys to choose from. Girls are dating multiple guys here...openly...and if you dont like it..then that's too bad,they got like a dozen of other guys chasing them.So what's the best angle to work from here?
I am the one who supose to date multiple girls...not the girls! Or I am expecting too much?... I feel pretty uneasy knowing that the girl I am interested in is also dating ( possibly sleeping with) another dudes.
My female friends say that I expect too much and untill I had a talk with a girl about being exclusive I shouldn't expect her not to date other guys.
My male friends tell me I got bad luck with women.
I am so confused...seems like women here have all the power.