Montybelko
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Hey guys hopefully some of you can give me some advice on this.
Here's a little backstory.
Basically just got out of a LTR bout three months ago. My fiance broke up with me pretty out of the blue and I was extremely devastated.
There is this girl at work who even a while back I always in the back of my mind thought perhaps had a crush on me. Anyways you know she was really cool when this **** went down and we started hanging out with a few other co workers now and again. All casual, hanging out at her place having some beers etc.....
I found myself starting to like her quite a bit so I was like **** it and up and asked her out. She basically rejected me and apologized etc. etc and I was like whatever no hard feelings. So I backed off a bit, made sure not to get emo or anything about it cause **** happens.
About two weeks ago she asked me to watch T.V at her place so I went over and did. Somewhere along the line she started talking about sex and her lackthereof and the conversation turned into her straight out saying she's had a crush on me for a while, that she likes me but she is afraid, doesn't want to be just a rebound.
Now, in retrospect that was a perfect opening for me. I know now what I should have done in that moment but it's passed to alas. She also asked me 'when we were going to go on that date!'
I feel like we are in this bizarre little dance at the moment she has said she's into me, I'm definitely in to her.....I don't want to just do a cliche dinner and movie and I have been trying not to come on too too strong..I don't want to seem desperate. But I also realize I can't wait forever and I'm just kinda feelin up against the wall and could use some help!
Thanks.
Here's a little backstory.
Basically just got out of a LTR bout three months ago. My fiance broke up with me pretty out of the blue and I was extremely devastated.
There is this girl at work who even a while back I always in the back of my mind thought perhaps had a crush on me. Anyways you know she was really cool when this **** went down and we started hanging out with a few other co workers now and again. All casual, hanging out at her place having some beers etc.....
I found myself starting to like her quite a bit so I was like **** it and up and asked her out. She basically rejected me and apologized etc. etc and I was like whatever no hard feelings. So I backed off a bit, made sure not to get emo or anything about it cause **** happens.
About two weeks ago she asked me to watch T.V at her place so I went over and did. Somewhere along the line she started talking about sex and her lackthereof and the conversation turned into her straight out saying she's had a crush on me for a while, that she likes me but she is afraid, doesn't want to be just a rebound.
Now, in retrospect that was a perfect opening for me. I know now what I should have done in that moment but it's passed to alas. She also asked me 'when we were going to go on that date!'
I feel like we are in this bizarre little dance at the moment she has said she's into me, I'm definitely in to her.....I don't want to just do a cliche dinner and movie and I have been trying not to come on too too strong..I don't want to seem desperate. But I also realize I can't wait forever and I'm just kinda feelin up against the wall and could use some help!
Thanks.
