Sup guys...long time reader...good page ya have here. So..where do I start?
Hell, not sure where I should even start. Its pretty complicated, so just bare w/ me.
Not that I mind bein single, but, sometimes the lonesome bit , just wears me down to a knub. Guess, I just thought Id never see the day, when, if ya wanna meet women, ya always have to partake in the "chase".
I absolutely hate to chase...emphasis on hate. Seriously, as a man, doesnt it make you feel, almost like a worm, knowing that, if YOU dont take the initiative to chase, you very well may just be completely alone, for the rest of your life. Maybe the rebel in me, just martyrs going against the grain.
Ive read the "picking up girls on myspace" threads on here & think they all have great points & merits to them. I have to sincerely say, though, it wasnt like that on myspace 2 years ago. I used to get flooded w/ mail/friend requests etc, but, times have changed, I guess.
Speaking of the internet, heres sumthing Id like 2 share w/ you guys. A buddy of mine, whom I grew up w/, is a professional model & roughly 2 months ago, he finally got around to signing up 2 myspace & plentyoffish. In 2 months, on both sites, he hasnt recieved JACK. I dunno about you guys, but, to me, things like that just completely wipe my confidence out.
Now, mind you...Im a resident of Southern California & have been, for 2+ decades, & Ive just never seen things, the way they are now, in the "women dept". Ive known, since I was a teenager, that, *****, is indeed "power" & women know it, but, its just to the point....wow, I just have no words for it. When a great looking man, whom has everything going for him, has to chase unattractive women, for ANY type of companionship...well, I guess it makes me feel defeated & by saying that...I have almost completely givin up on "chasing" women.
As far as I go....Ive been a construction worker/musician my entire life. I still don the sleeves(tattoos)/bandana/ripped jeans, but, I work out/ tan religiously, have a great job w/ great income...60K sports car....live 1 block from the beach & I just can no longer score a piece of ass.
Mind you....I havent completely thrown in the towel. If I see a women Im attracted to, on the internet...Ill attempt to make contact & not throw any lines or bs at her & Ill just be myself & lately....zero. Sincerely..after a while of that, I dont care how "strong" you may think you are, it basically reduces you to feeling like trash.
Believe me, it takes alot, for a 35 year old man to post on a board, consisting of guys, 10 years my younger, askin for "women' advice. lol, but, Id appreciate any input.
Thanx Guys.
Hell, not sure where I should even start. Its pretty complicated, so just bare w/ me.
Not that I mind bein single, but, sometimes the lonesome bit , just wears me down to a knub. Guess, I just thought Id never see the day, when, if ya wanna meet women, ya always have to partake in the "chase".
I absolutely hate to chase...emphasis on hate. Seriously, as a man, doesnt it make you feel, almost like a worm, knowing that, if YOU dont take the initiative to chase, you very well may just be completely alone, for the rest of your life. Maybe the rebel in me, just martyrs going against the grain.
Ive read the "picking up girls on myspace" threads on here & think they all have great points & merits to them. I have to sincerely say, though, it wasnt like that on myspace 2 years ago. I used to get flooded w/ mail/friend requests etc, but, times have changed, I guess.
Speaking of the internet, heres sumthing Id like 2 share w/ you guys. A buddy of mine, whom I grew up w/, is a professional model & roughly 2 months ago, he finally got around to signing up 2 myspace & plentyoffish. In 2 months, on both sites, he hasnt recieved JACK. I dunno about you guys, but, to me, things like that just completely wipe my confidence out.
Now, mind you...Im a resident of Southern California & have been, for 2+ decades, & Ive just never seen things, the way they are now, in the "women dept". Ive known, since I was a teenager, that, *****, is indeed "power" & women know it, but, its just to the point....wow, I just have no words for it. When a great looking man, whom has everything going for him, has to chase unattractive women, for ANY type of companionship...well, I guess it makes me feel defeated & by saying that...I have almost completely givin up on "chasing" women.
As far as I go....Ive been a construction worker/musician my entire life. I still don the sleeves(tattoos)/bandana/ripped jeans, but, I work out/ tan religiously, have a great job w/ great income...60K sports car....live 1 block from the beach & I just can no longer score a piece of ass.
Mind you....I havent completely thrown in the towel. If I see a women Im attracted to, on the internet...Ill attempt to make contact & not throw any lines or bs at her & Ill just be myself & lately....zero. Sincerely..after a while of that, I dont care how "strong" you may think you are, it basically reduces you to feeling like trash.
Believe me, it takes alot, for a 35 year old man to post on a board, consisting of guys, 10 years my younger, askin for "women' advice. lol, but, Id appreciate any input.
Thanx Guys.