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    Day Dates

    Ok, I declare my ignorance on this subject, Untill now, I have never went out on a day date with a woman. (Always been dinners). I have also always "Heard" FRIENDZONE affilated with it. Is this true or is there any hope for a romance ? Just curious. LOL
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    Love Stinks...

    Ok, Maybe Im venting, but here goes.. Im almost 41 years old. Never been married. Been on several dates. Only a few relationships. but not once, Have I ever met anyone that I had chemistry with. A Soul mate, so to speak. 4 years ago, I move to Chicago and start a new...
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    Obsession

    Upfront, I dont know if this is discussed in the DJ bible or not. To be honest, I work such long hours. I just havnt had time to read it. Quick question.. How do you really know if you are in love with a woman vs just Obessing over her?
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    Flirting With Disaster

    This is a subject that I have brought up on another forum and wow, does it bring controversey and tempers. Im just going to generalize the question . If you are friends with a woman at work to the point of a flirtatious level and she is married and you know there is a mutual attraction...
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    Seperated women

    Simply. Would you go out with a woman that is seperated, but not divorced?. There is a woman that I have met at the gym and we have really hit it off. She has been seperated for a couple of years, but her x wont agree to file. She hasnt seen or heard from this guy since then.
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    Phone number

    Have a question here. I met this woman in California via another discussion board. We have gotten to know each other fairly well. She recently gave me her phone number on a PM message on this forum. Should I just take the intiative and call her or wait till she gives me an ok time?
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    Were They For Real??

    There was a while back that I stopped in a gas station. After paying for my gas, I was walking back to my car when these two hot young girls drove around me. They both were around their mid 20's. Right away they caught my eyes . At the same time, they smiled at me and circled...
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    What gives???

    There is this girl that works in the Spa at my gym . I have become to know here very well, so I always take time to talk to her when I see her. I have never flirted with her or hit on her because I have heard her mention her husband. Still, She is very down home and friendly, so I...
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    The Loner Image

    Just curious. In general. Do women find a loner attractive or is this something I need to shed off of me? I have very good friends, but I dont feel a need to hang around them very often. I generally like time by myself as preference. I still mix it up everyone once in awhile. but...
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    Married Or Not Married??

    Just curious to why a woman would tell you one time she is married. Another time she has a boyfriend and go back n forth wth that? This very attractive woman that works in the spa area of my gym does this. There is definitely some chemistry between us, but I have hesitated to ask her...
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    Should I be interested or Run?

    There is this computer Tech woman that works at my office. She has worked on my computer several times over the last month and we seemed to hit it off. She has already told me on her will that she was divorced. She also went fishing on me the following Monday after Fathers day. She asked...
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    Did I just miss this ship at my gym??

    I was working out at my gym the other day and noticed this attractive red head I had never seen before. We made eye contact once while I was on the leg press. I thought she was quite attactive, but didnt put alot of thought into anything after that. I went on about my routine and...
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    Is This A Paradox???

    There is a woman at my job that I think is interested in me, but I have been afraid to ask her out because she works in HR... LOL Any thoughts here??
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    No Explode....

    My trainer recently got me onto taking No Explode. I just this weekend ran out of my first container. One of my buddies at the gym tonite said he was told its a good idea to wait two weeks before you get back on it again. Just to clear your system out. Anybody ever heard this or...
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    Where is the strangest place where you got a date?

    I am curious about this guys. I never seem to get what would be "Cold" dates. Like the gym, Grocery store. Bookstore. ect... All of my dates and relationshps have happened via my work, Friends and relatives and one on the internet. (Boy was she a nut....LOL). I guess I have...
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    Just when you think you are stuck in the friendzone

    I was talking to my long time *girl* friend the other night. I told her that I got my invitation to my 20 year class reunion(Yes, Im 37 years old...lol) . She said she was nt going to go to hers, but asked to go as my escort to mine in the summer. Anything to make out of this or...
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    Why cant I forget about this woman?

    There is this woman that I have been attracted to since day one at my job. Started out periodically with eye contact. Either she would stare, look away real quick or wink at me. I always felt what seemed to be a mutual connection about her . but I could never really get a chance to...
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    What is she really Thinking??

    There is this woman at my job. Tall, Blonde, perfect figure. Beautiful smile. You name it. She is very easy on the eyes, so its very difficult not to look at her when she walks by. Once and a while she will smile and say hello. Most of the time , she wont make eye contact...
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    Why do I just attract married women?

    I know this question sounds corney, but one of my co workers just today came up to me and he asked me why are you always flirting with married women for? (He has seen me talking to this woman often and he overheard our confersation as he came into the break room this morning.) she had asked...
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    Can You Have More Then One Soul Mate?

    Is this possible? I met this co worker at my job a couple of years ago and felt there was always a connection between us. My latest projects have put me working along side her the last few months and I am now even more convinced there is a mutual attraction between us. We are exactly...
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