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I've massively upped my financial and social status in the last two years. My physique is almost the same as it was, maybe a bit worse due to being tired from work and my side business, which leaves very little energy to go to the gym regularly. Hopefully with warmer days ahead, I can go biking...

I'm pretty much at the highpoint of my career (so far), doing some very high profile things. Women have definitely noticed and have slid into my DMs lately, but I haven't gotten laid in 2 years and trying to take advantage of this situation. Issue is I can't even get a second date, if I even get...

It's becoming way, way too common and I'm done with dealing with disrespectful b!tches that either disrespect me (also by ghosting me). Do you block these women or just remove them from your socials/numbers?

So my college crush texted me the other day after seeing some of my recent acomplishments saying she's proud of me and said I should stop by when I have time. Now she's coming to my home town this weekend for a concert with some friends (not sure if her LTR that she also has kids with is coming...

So I've known this girl for a very long time and she's hot 7,5/10, she's late 30's now and with 2 kids but always flirts with me like crazy, we also went for a drink a few times when I'm in my home country (I'm usually not as I live abroad). We were messing around about 12 years ago but never...

It's in the title - let's say you get some IOI from a girl, then you either go out with her once and there's no second date, or she rejects the first date invite. But she still follows you on socials; do you remove her from the followers or do you let her stay in your orbit? And why?

Today I met with a girl that was my classmate in primary school when we were 8 years old, the first crush of my life. She's still super hot and incredibly cute and was being very flirty and fun the whole time, she lives with some dude though. Funny how even after 30 years the emotions can still...

I'm 37, with a good career and a good creative side career. However over the last 1,5 years since I've been single, I've only (except 1) had rejections / first dates that never went on to become second dates. OK, I get that it's a numbers game, but whenever I get rejected (like I said, almost...

I've had some cases where the first dates were cancelled on the day due to some bullsh1t exuse or "other engagements". I think this is due to low interest level on their side. How do you balance the level of IL so that it's high but not having to chat too much to her before the first date? They...

I've noticed that 80% of the time, I'm the person that reaches out to people. And with women, that number pretty much goes up to 99%. I'm gonna live my life and do my thing, which is busy enough, and let people reach out first more. If they don't, I'll at least know who is legit and who to cut...

I've been on a number of first dates these last few weeks and all apart from one (which raised red flags) have not actively initiated contact/messages. They always reply fast and we have a good back and forth, but nothing initiating on their own. I don't act particularly different from my usual...

I started thinking about this the other day. Most of us here being red pill aware, we know that often women won’t love a man for who he is but what he can do for her. I cannot seem to shake this notion with the new dates and my radar is on DEFCON 1. The notion of “she’s probably looking for a...

So I'm noticing this month that a lot of women are more eager to go on dates etc., between late 20's and early 30's. Anyone else having a similar experience?

I have a 19 year old plate potential that lives a few hours away but wants something casual with an older guy. I'm generally down for that, but she seems to be quite a liberal (a bit too lefty), but I think for some younger fun should be fine, wouldn't you say? She's a 4-5

So it's happened with a few women in the last year, when I meet them (either in real life or via OLD) and then connect on IG, they watch my stories as long as I watch theirs; they never message first but they are fast to respond, if I ask them out, they of course give some BS excuse, and if I...

I'm 37, am doing well for myself, average looks I'd say but under average height for the country I'm living in, stable day job and interesting sidecareer, going to the gym, but when it comes to women I'm not the best. Whenever I fall for a girl, I fall for a beautiful one (of course) and can't...

I'm talking to this Ukrainian hottie that lives in the same country but 4 hrs drive away, we're talking about me bringing her over to my city for a nice time and potentially getting a hotel room together for a night together. I mentioned my place but she says in her culture it's very indecent...

Don't mean your head

I was just thinking this the other day, I am so rarely shown affection or love by anyone. Last time a woman told me she loved me was over 5 years ago and that was a long distance thing with a mentally unwell woman - before that, I think it was 10 or more years ago. Affection is only shown to me...

We guys have interests and hobbies / careers that are interesting and provide opportunity for growth, learning and specialisation. I have an interesting side career, but rarely get females to react to that side of me (with a few exceptions). Mostly, women react to the things I post from travels...