You're cute for a black guy

[Ringleader41]

A lot of girls say this about me. Pretty much all of the girls in my area place black guys at the lowest tier. What do I do?

 

[DonJuanit0]

Change area

 

[Ringleader41]

I can't, I'm stuck here for four years unless I go to a ghetto college

 

[floydb25]

You could probably get sex easily.... That's a compliment in sexual terms, but doesn't bode well if you're looking for a relationship. Kind of like saying, they're not that into you, but still find you attractive enough to ****.

I used to know girls that hated black people, but still said they would **** them if they were "hot". That seems to eliminate a lot of negative qualities and standards these days. Ha ha.

 

[ilikecharlene]

go elsewhere for ***** and/or dating. Do you live in a racist area? is it in the South or a general redneck area?

perhaps try internet dating, but seek out girls in a neighbouring state.

 

[SSAD.MORGAN]

Take it as a compliment man. I get girls telling me that I am cute for an Asian guy all the time. Sometimes it pans out sometimes it doesn't but it sure as hell beats being ugly.

 

[Azidoro]

Blatant racism brah, I would not interact with these type of hoes

 

[MrI0wn]

Grown ass black men aren't supposed to look "cute", I would be offended if someone said that to me. Are you short? A pretty boy? I wouldn't even interact with women like that.

 

[Ringleader41]

6ft and built.

 

[whosthat]

its like a minor complement, but with no real interest behind it. your statement is too blunt, what are the settings?

 

[zekko]

Grown ass black men aren't supposed to look "cute", I would be offended if someone said that to me.

I doubt that it was meant as an insult.

I've noticed different people define words differently. I used to date a girl who didn't like being called "cute", she thought it meant ugly, but somehow endearing, like a bulldog might be. Some girls think "attractive" is a word people use for girls who aren't pretty. Some think "pretty" means plain and not beautiful.

Similarly, some girls think "dating" is more serious than "seeing each other" and vice versa. "Going out with" could mean anything too.

"Cute guy" is generally a compliment, and I've definitely heard it directed toward huge muscled alpha types.

 

[cola]

A lot of girls say this about me. Pretty much all of the girls in my area place black guys at the lowest tier. What do I do?

"And your average for a white chick".. and walked away.
Don't be a chump.

 

[floydb25]

"And your average for a white chick".. and walked away.
Don't be a chump.

Ha ha... Nice one. Watch the *****ing and snottiness come out then. Sometimes its fun to see.

 

[IamJosan]

Tell them to stop being racist. If it offends you, address it and punish their behavior.

 

[perseverance]

I prefer to keep the stiff upper lip, I'd have said "Cheers" and walked away.

The best reaction to most given situations is simply not to react at all, or laugh it off.

I'm thick skinned and have a good sense of humour, when a girl says to me "Wow, you have small hands (I do, I have tiny hands), that must mean you have a small something downstairs", I laugh it off because that's my sense of humour and also because I know they'll more than likely never see what's in the pants department.

 

[Chamber36]

I can't say to a black girl: "you're cute for a black girl".
That's fvcking racist.
besides that they're trying to get you to qualify yourself.

I would straight out avoid these people. But I would switch it around first, like cola said: "and you're average for a white girl". The perfect comeback.

 

[Yo'Mama]

I can't believe they would say that. It's really not a good thing to say at all. Agree with Chamber, avoid these *****es. You can do better.