maphive
Don Juan
You're being lied to; you're being decevied. The actions that you have taken since your discovery of some smarmy site that tells you the steps to take to have your way with women are simply the proxy: The liar is you. The one thing that everyone has learned here is to not be yourself: Chage, improve, do whatever you fucking want to; you can incite riots or spend a tranquil hour underneath a tree. You have come under the assumption that you can't be yourself to achieve these goals.
But you're forgetting something.
This isn't you.
You lie to yourself to create an image of who you are. You go under these pathetic beliefs that you are becoming something. The truth is... you aren't. You're no different than you were back in your trite 'AFC' days when the world of women seemed impossible to you. You've discarded one crutch to have another.
Step back and look at yourself.
Rationalize every damn thing you've done.
Do you see yourself going to these forums saying stuff like, "Guyzzz. This girl sed she had a bf. what do i do?" Or, sans hyperbole, do you see yourself having to turn to these forums for guidance at all?
If you do then you're failing.
You will gain nothing by using these forums or whatever documents you seeks as guidance. You will only gain by using them as knowledge. You will learn nothing by knowing how to respond in your one infinitesimally pointless case where another individual responds in x or y manner. You will only learn by grasping the knowledge here as a whole. Getting the response to your long charade with girl x that remedies the situation does not teach you one god damn thing. Why? Because you aren't applying anything you've learned. You've become a fucking sycophant whom leeches off of what is posted here.
In this sense, you aren't yourself.
You are these forums. This festering pit of knowledge that can tell you how to get out of a certain situation. Or the pearlescent library that becomes an indispensible source of knowledge. You can let these forums get you out of your one simple bind or you can let them be the archives of knowledge.
Myriad jewels have come from here. But they're being hidden by the shit and piss of the deluge of worthless members now.
So, which one are you?
The guy who goes out and fucks up with a chick, walks away with a smile, and posts about misinterpreting buying temperature. Or, are you the guy who comes here and asks twenty questions about how to respond when a girl says hello to you?
One of those two people is themself.
But you're forgetting something.
This isn't you.
You lie to yourself to create an image of who you are. You go under these pathetic beliefs that you are becoming something. The truth is... you aren't. You're no different than you were back in your trite 'AFC' days when the world of women seemed impossible to you. You've discarded one crutch to have another.
Step back and look at yourself.
Rationalize every damn thing you've done.
Do you see yourself going to these forums saying stuff like, "Guyzzz. This girl sed she had a bf. what do i do?" Or, sans hyperbole, do you see yourself having to turn to these forums for guidance at all?
If you do then you're failing.
You will gain nothing by using these forums or whatever documents you seeks as guidance. You will only gain by using them as knowledge. You will learn nothing by knowing how to respond in your one infinitesimally pointless case where another individual responds in x or y manner. You will only learn by grasping the knowledge here as a whole. Getting the response to your long charade with girl x that remedies the situation does not teach you one god damn thing. Why? Because you aren't applying anything you've learned. You've become a fucking sycophant whom leeches off of what is posted here.
In this sense, you aren't yourself.
You are these forums. This festering pit of knowledge that can tell you how to get out of a certain situation. Or the pearlescent library that becomes an indispensible source of knowledge. You can let these forums get you out of your one simple bind or you can let them be the archives of knowledge.
Myriad jewels have come from here. But they're being hidden by the shit and piss of the deluge of worthless members now.
So, which one are you?
The guy who goes out and fucks up with a chick, walks away with a smile, and posts about misinterpreting buying temperature. Or, are you the guy who comes here and asks twenty questions about how to respond when a girl says hello to you?
One of those two people is themself.
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