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Alpheta

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it's really hard to give you guys the picture but I'll give it a shot.

Lately, the girl I've been with has stopped really calling me in the nights. Now I know that's nothing to worry about but she always does.

Now she only calls at lunch or just after work when she gets home. There's nothing wrong in that but it's weird how she's told me that her mother knows we talk (she's Muslim) and wants her to stop. Her mother knows about us but now she says her mum wants us to marry but she mustn't speak to me.

It seems to me that she has purposely stopped talking to me when she gets home. It's not because her mum takes her phone off her but I feel she CHOOSES not to.

The fact is, she is coming over to my place this week (on her work day) she's coming to gift me for my bday and will come xtra early.

Now I've had a thought on this and I really don't want to call her out on it. I plan on literally ignoring her up until the meet up. When we meet instead of chilling with her im just gna pump and then just leave.

She'll be confused but the reason for this is that my gut tells me she's acting weird intentionally. I just can't help but want to get a power move on her.

Thoughts.
 

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Are you always waiting for her to call, or do you call sometimes as well? Maybe she wants you to to initiate more... I wouldn't worry about it unless she doesn't answer when you attempt to make contact, but if it's just you sitting around waiting for her then that's kind of weak on your part
 

lizardking82

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She's going about it in secrecy from her mother. I had a similar case and I do not like girls who are onto something "serious" with a guy, but don't tell their parents. Not a good signal so watch out.
 

AlphaNate

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I stopped reading near the beginning. You have her on a pedestal.
 

Roober

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Sounds like you guys talk too much! You don't need to talk to your woman every night.
 

ubercat

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Yep get out and about and then you will have more stories to tell.
 
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