Your girls says other guys like her

[Ladiesssman]

When your girl/date tells you about other guys liking her?

Sometimes I see this as a turn off. Is this just a test that girls like to do? Or is it thing she likes to do to brag about herself?

 

[Wiesman44]

depends. How exactly did she say it ? be more specific.

 

[SheepSter]

She's testing you, just act cool, smile and ask her to tell an interesting story

 

[chancer]

a test? i donno. How did you respond?

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

She's trying to tell you that she doesn't feel that you appreciate her so she's trying to make you prove that you do. How you respond depends on what you want to convey to her. Stop worrying about saying the 'right thing' and focus on saying what's right.

 

[Climax]

The indirect hint...

Francisco d'Anconia said:

She's trying to tell you that she doesn't feel that you appreciate her so she's trying to make you prove that you do

Took the words out of my mouth!

Otherwise.... She is also looking for ur attention and indirectly saying to you "pay more attention to me or u might end up loosing me".



What you should do:

1) Pay more attention to her / spend more time with her

2) Let her know that u appreciate her

3) DO NOT act insecure when she sais this kind of thing, think of it more as a "way to get ur attention and tell u that she doesnt feel that appreciate her enough"

4) She might also be saying that U are "lucky" to have her cause all these other guys also want her, and she could be with any of them, but she is with you, so u better start "appreciating" her more, or u might end up loosing her.


Notice how the world appreciate comes up often in this post, the reason for this is because its the key word that u need to take note to. Make her feel appreciated!

Laterz...

 

[Wyldfire]

Re: The indirect hint...

Originally posted by aequitas
Francisco d'Anconia said:



Took the words out of my mouth!

Otherwise.... She is also looking for ur attention and indirectly saying to you "pay more attention to me or u might end up loosing me".



What you should do:

1) Pay more attention to her / spend more time with her

2) Let her know that u appreciate her

3) DO NOT act insecure when she sais this kind of thing, think of it more as a "way to get ur attention and tell u that she doesnt feel that appreciate her enough"

4) She might also be saying that U are "lucky" to have her cause all these other guys also want her, and she could be with any of them, but she is with you, so u better start "appreciating" her more, or u might end up loosing her.


Notice how the world appreciate comes up often in this post, the reason for this is because its the key word that u need to take note to. Make her feel appreciated!

Laterz...

You're a woman aren't you?


Okay...to the guy who started the thread...

It's most likely that you are being a bit too "unavailable" to her and she is unhappy with it. If you want to keep her you're going to have to be a little bit more available...just spend a little more time with her than you currently are. She wants you to get jealous enough to give her more of your time to make sure she doesn't ditch you for someone else. Girls will do this all the time rather than just say, "I want you to spend more time with me." I know, it's kinda dumb, but that's what she's doing. If you don't give her what she needs from you then it's going to lead to problems down the road. The thing is, though, is that if you're going to give in to her you need to do it in a way that doesn't make it look like that's what you're doing...or she'll use that method more and more often.

 

[Climax]

lol...

Wyldfire said:

You're a woman aren't you?

Answer:

No i'm not, i just understand them well enough to think like them

Laterz...

 

[Phoenix_of_the_ashes]

Maybe she feels that your not attracted enough and is trying to raise her value in your eyes.

 

[Climax]

hmmm.......

Originally posted by Phoenix_of_the_ashes
Maybe she feels that your not attracted enough and is trying to raise her value in your eyes.

This is also very possible, good observation.

 

[SamePendo]

I once saw a interview with Ashton Kutcher where he said he loves Jennifer Anniston. Well, then he said he actually went out on a date with her recently. The interviewer says she has been married for a while with Brad Pitt!?!?!

He answers, well yeah.. he actually arranged the date, I told him I liked her, and he said he should go out with her.. and that it was cool.


I've done this. You arrange (or plan to) a date where your girl goes out with another guy. Risky though.. it can backfire. Any DJ can do it.

 

[learningtopimp]

Man show her you don't care too much when she says it IF she is just trying to get attention and she's one of those attention whoares. That is key...be like oh really, interesting. Don't go off about other girls liking you right then because that shows insecurity and jealousy. Or be really sarcastic. Be like "Oh shyte, another guy likes you. Why don't you tell me where he lives so I can kick his ass." (not the best line but tone is everything here). Or be like "There's someone who needs his eyes checked" (Actually the second one is very risky, if you aren't good with C + F don't even touch that line.) But these are just examples on the fly. I think you need to gauge her mood. If she really does want you to spend more time with her and she really is sincere, then be like "oh he has good taste I see" or something along those lines. And subtly call her a little bit more often, or try to make her feel appreciated. If she keeps talking like this then she's an attention ***** who doesn't deserve your time.

 

[Lysol]

when a girl says this, it is definetly a test to see your reaction. it does not mean you are losing here. if shes gonna cheat, shes not going to tell you about it! play it cool when you hear this, like it doesnt affect you. I think you have the upper hand in the relationship when she asks you this.

 

[Trance]

I do this sometimes, it just makes you more wantable.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Re: lol...

Originally posted by aequitas
Wyldfire said:




Answer:

No i'm not, i just understand them well enough to think like them

Laterz...

You've been watching Oprah again, haven't you. ADMIT IT!!!!

 

[seize_the_pattern]

What a woman says: "You know guys are checking me out lately"

You:
"yeah i cant stop staring at your new skirt either (or fill in anything) cause I keep wondering what mushrooms were you on when you bought that skirt anyway?"

or"Oh baby is that really truuuueeee???? (exaggeratedly whiny) you know let my buy you flowers everyday and cook for you and brush you teeth and put on your shoes and on and on"

then sigh and do something that doesnt have her involved.