You can have all of the game in the world, but if you're not comfortable with the way you look, your game will never reach the court. I sometimes have days, where my face seems kinda odd to me. Is it just because we've spent our entire life with the same face, that we begin to take it for granted? Because during those "days", I feel like the lowest of the low. Anyone know what I am talking about? If so, can you comment on this weird experience of not liking the way you look one day, and then having the ultimate confidence in yourself the next.
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Your Face
- Thread starter dualman7
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Well, I never have days when I think I look wierd but there are bad hair days, days I just feel outta shape when I have been working to hard and not taking care of myself, and oh yeah.. the occasional big, whopping zit that pops up right before a big date.... I mean we can't aways look fab every day. Not even me. Wink
LOL!
But it's not just your face that makes you confident. It's the entire package. Meaning size of course. Anything less than 8'' and you're doomed. JK!!!!!!!!Couldn't resist that one.
But seriously, everyone has days where they are more confident than others. Like today, at work.. I had a very good looking day hair and all and well, just woke up in a great mood. Probably cuz all the hugs on here lately.. But while that helped me boost my sales and do a better job.. I also know that on those days when I feel like I look like ****.. that it too shall pass.
I think it might help for you to make a list of all the good qualites, not based on looks only that make you special. Be it a mental note or on paper. ANd to also take note that your face is special. I mean it's unlike any other face on the planet. Think about those qualites that you do like and forget the rest. I often wish I didn't have this particular look I have. Very `1920's face, and classic. Sure it's attractive but I wonder what it would be like to have dark skin and a different look. Not often mind you but comes with my work I suppose. I see so many different faces and looks and it can be a little depressing. Or often, the other way around and I thank God for what I do have. You need to do the later and not worry so much. It's not and shouldn't be about your face. It's not necessarily your face that will land you a hot babe. I mean maybe the first couple of dates but not for the long haul and vice versa for woman.
Maybe the problem is more than just your face. Self Esteem and confidence can be like a big ocean. up and down until you are centered and content with who you are and what you have to offer. Focus on that and just be the best you can be.
Take heart. I am not sure if you suffer from other self esteem issues but at least you have good days. Some people sad to say never find their special qualites and we all have them, geeks, hotties and all and it's the inner stuff that will surpass any good looking face. We all age. I used to model full time in my younger days and a lot of my friends who were in the biz now like me that they are older.. it's sad to see them fret constantly over getting this lifted and that tucked. I mean sure that will help but there comes a time where there are better things to fret about. Like are you a nice person, have you followed your dreams, are you making each day count and doing what God put you on this planet to do. ANd the older I get the more attractive a man who can see that other side of me, not just my pretty face that matters. I would have to say, that I quite fretting on that and got outta of that biz, I am the happiest and most confident ever. Sure I have had some harsh times lately but we all have.
ANd I also desire a man who can score not only in looks but in so many other areas that in the end are a lot more important. Most women feel this way and think about the ugly men who have scored hot chicks. I mean butt ugly faces. There are plenty and not all drive a fancy car or have yacht or money. Some but certainly, not all. Start taking notice of them. They are out there and well you never know.
Dunno if that helped but good luck and don't fret about it.
Tamales
LOL!But it's not just your face that makes you confident. It's the entire package. Meaning size of course. Anything less than 8'' and you're doomed. JK!!!!!!!!Couldn't resist that one.
But seriously, everyone has days where they are more confident than others. Like today, at work.. I had a very good looking day hair and all and well, just woke up in a great mood. Probably cuz all the hugs on here lately.. But while that helped me boost my sales and do a better job.. I also know that on those days when I feel like I look like ****.. that it too shall pass.
I think it might help for you to make a list of all the good qualites, not based on looks only that make you special. Be it a mental note or on paper. ANd to also take note that your face is special. I mean it's unlike any other face on the planet. Think about those qualites that you do like and forget the rest. I often wish I didn't have this particular look I have. Very `1920's face, and classic. Sure it's attractive but I wonder what it would be like to have dark skin and a different look. Not often mind you but comes with my work I suppose. I see so many different faces and looks and it can be a little depressing. Or often, the other way around and I thank God for what I do have. You need to do the later and not worry so much. It's not and shouldn't be about your face. It's not necessarily your face that will land you a hot babe. I mean maybe the first couple of dates but not for the long haul and vice versa for woman.
Maybe the problem is more than just your face. Self Esteem and confidence can be like a big ocean. up and down until you are centered and content with who you are and what you have to offer. Focus on that and just be the best you can be.
Take heart. I am not sure if you suffer from other self esteem issues but at least you have good days. Some people sad to say never find their special qualites and we all have them, geeks, hotties and all and it's the inner stuff that will surpass any good looking face. We all age. I used to model full time in my younger days and a lot of my friends who were in the biz now like me that they are older.. it's sad to see them fret constantly over getting this lifted and that tucked. I mean sure that will help but there comes a time where there are better things to fret about. Like are you a nice person, have you followed your dreams, are you making each day count and doing what God put you on this planet to do. ANd the older I get the more attractive a man who can see that other side of me, not just my pretty face that matters. I would have to say, that I quite fretting on that and got outta of that biz, I am the happiest and most confident ever. Sure I have had some harsh times lately but we all have.
ANd I also desire a man who can score not only in looks but in so many other areas that in the end are a lot more important. Most women feel this way and think about the ugly men who have scored hot chicks. I mean butt ugly faces. There are plenty and not all drive a fancy car or have yacht or money. Some but certainly, not all. Start taking notice of them. They are out there and well you never know.
Dunno if that helped but good luck and don't fret about it.
Tamales
Thanks for the reply. You're right about some people NEVER feeling good about themselves. I am sure we all have a day like that, but I can't imagine how it must be to ALWAYS feel that way.
As for me, i don't think I am ugly or anything. It's just that I sometimes have these days, where my face doesn't look normal to me. I don't know, i guess it's tough to explain. Here's an example. I always wanted a Ford Mustang. I finally bought my dream car about a month ago. ALl of a sudden all the other cars around me began to look great, while mine doesn't seem as great, as it seemed to be before i bought it. So I was wondering if we experience the same feelings with ourselves? Maybe I am just taking my face for granted, and ignoring all the good qualities, and just trying to find the negatives? I'd love to hear from someone who experiences similar tendencies.
As for me, i don't think I am ugly or anything. It's just that I sometimes have these days, where my face doesn't look normal to me. I don't know, i guess it's tough to explain. Here's an example. I always wanted a Ford Mustang. I finally bought my dream car about a month ago. ALl of a sudden all the other cars around me began to look great, while mine doesn't seem as great, as it seemed to be before i bought it. So I was wondering if we experience the same feelings with ourselves? Maybe I am just taking my face for granted, and ignoring all the good qualities, and just trying to find the negatives? I'd love to hear from someone who experiences similar tendencies.
Hope you hear from them ( and hope there aren't too many on here!) but another point to add. In the end, what does it matter unless you are considering reconstructive face surgery. But be careful, just like at ol' Mikey.
I mean we are all born with a face and relatives... Either learn to love it and care for it and make the best of it.
Or waste a lot of time worrying what others have instead. I never worry about what someone else has as there's not a whole lot I can do about it. ANd in the end it doesn't help me become any better. Rather worse.
Now, those nasty, no good relatives.. I can't help ya with that
PS Hence your member name, you aren't some sort of Jeckle & Hyde now are ya!
I mean we are all born with a face and relatives... Either learn to love it and care for it and make the best of it.
Or waste a lot of time worrying what others have instead. I never worry about what someone else has as there's not a whole lot I can do about it. ANd in the end it doesn't help me become any better. Rather worse.
Now, those nasty, no good relatives.. I can't help ya with that
PS Hence your member name, you aren't some sort of Jeckle & Hyde now are ya!
digitalrat
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