You will not believe the last 48 hours I had

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I don't even know where to start. Guys, listen and learn. This is why you have to be careful of who you mess around with, and everyone that looks good in pumps and a skirt isn't what's good for ya and why you have to be careful about the plates that you spin.

Okay.. I am, or was seeing 3 women on a somewhat constant basis. I had my fav... but the least fav, it was getting time I needed to cut her off. She is SMOKIN HOT but is SMOKIN CRAZY as well, as you will find out here soon. She is divorced and lives off her ex husbands montly check, which is a nice amount.. she's not hurting to pay bills.

Anyway, she happens to live about 2 blocks away from me (mistake number 1) and she is never busy and has alot of free time (mistake 2) and calls me about 10-15 times a day. It got to the point thursday night where I said you know what... I'm done. I told myself the next day I was going ot end it with her.. the right way, have her over and just tell her i'm done. She's older than me (28), I'm sure she can handle it.

I had someone over my house thursday night that wasn't her. So she leaves in the morning, I get up, do my thing on friday, start packing my bags because my plans were to go out of town Monday, but Sunday (tomorrow) is my Birthday and i had plans, and I was meeting a guy here at the racetrack later that night, so I wasn't going to have time.

so this girl starting at 10am is blowing up my phone and is leaving messages that are cursing me out.. I'm like damn.. what the fvck did I do that I haven't been doing? Well, maybe this saves me a confrentation. Wrong.

she pops up over my house banging at the door at about 2pm. She asks me who was over my house the night before. I ask her how the hell did she know I had someone over my house the night before. First, we aren't dating, second, she kNEW I was seeing someone else.. I guess it's one thing to know and a totally different thing to see it with your own two eyes. She still won't tell me how she found out.. I suppose she was spying. Anyway, this is where it gets interesting or better yet out of control.

So I sit her down and say to myself, might as well get this overwith.. I'm about to go get plastered anyway. I didn't like her, but she was hot and a great fvck, and telling someone you don't like them anymore is never easy, regardless. She starts crying and telling me "i thought you loved me! (WTF?, ***** I just meet you a month and a half ago.. i don't even take you out in public) and (I thought we were going to move in together!..At this point I realize how smart of a decision this was.

Okay, we were sitting on my couch.. we argued for about 15 mintues, but my mind was made up. So I get up and start heading to the door, thinking she is behind me...

this ***** grabs a glass vase, and chunks it at the back of my head. Dead aim and i'm not talking about a love lick either. She Chunked it. Busted the vast in the back of my head.

At first I thought I got shot. the only other time In my life i had that much pain I was knocked out by a baseball bat, playing catcher in a little league game and the batter got too close to the picther and me (catching, without my mask in between innings) warming up and cracked me in the mouth...actually I didn't feel that, I was knocked out but I'm sure it hurt like hell.

The impact made me go forard and bust the **** out of my lip as well... I'm laying on the ground, blood everywhere and I feel lke I want to just ripp my head off and just throw it out the window I was in so much pain.

even in pain, after about 15 seconds, addrenlion kicked in and I started to proceed to beat the living **** out of this girl.. but I thought better of it. By now, she's calling me all out of my name and threating to do it again with anohter one. If she would have hit me again, I probably wuld have put her in the hospital.

In the mist of all this chaos, my two Alaskian Huskies, one which is probably bigger than her, the other one not to much smaller than she is, come in the room... the younger one is looking at me with this dumbfounded look like "so I guess taking me out to **** right now is kinda out the question huh".. the older one, who I don't think ever liked her int he first place, once he saw the blood + her standing above me with a vase attacked her and had a death grip on her leg. so now the younger one, who just doesn't have "it" in him starts howling at her and showing his teeth.

So now I'm really in a predicument.. I'm in hella pain, to the point where I think i'm going ot faint, but my dog was not going to let go of her leg, and she had no chance of getting him off her. Now she's crying. so I have to yell at him for at least 10 seconds to get off of her go in my room. I'm glad he's trained or else I would have been in deep ****.

So I decide to call the police. The ***** assalted me in my house. II'm knew to California and don't know many people.. I know a handful of people well enough to trust them.. but i knew I needed to go to the emgerncy room and i wasn't driving. i could barley walk straight. I had glass logged in my head, still bleeding from the front and back of my head. So I call the girl that I like more than the other two (and defiantly more than this tramp).I Knew she would come. Mind you, she's still talking ****, I don't know why she hasn't left and keeps saying she "kenw I was a *****"...only if she knew....

anyway, so the police officer gets there in a reasonable amount of time. I'm damn near crying layoung on the floor. My youngest of my two dogs is sitting with me crying.. he's too cute, he's just 6 months old.

This ***** had the nerve to say I attacked her. And what's even worse... the damn police officer beleved her at first! Which is exactly why I didn't attack her.. I knew I would have a hard enough time convicing a police officer I didn't od anything wrong when I DIDN'T, let along when I really did. The fact that she's smoking hot, white, blonde and tan and I'm a young black guy, and you see where it's going more times than not.

so another officer comes and points out something that I had been trying to explain to the officer... If I was attacking her, why did 1) I call the police and 2) I get an object thrown at the BACK of my head. i'm covered in blod and this *****es, besides the bite on the leg, is cut free.

Then she says changes her story, to the tune where I didn't attack her, but I told my dog to attack her... Then I explained well, when you have a guard dog, and they see their owner of 5 years covered in blood and someone standing over them attacking them.. that's kinda how they roll.

So my other friend comes, I give a statement, decide not to press charges (for the simple reason that If I did, i would have to see her again), I decide to get a restraining order, go to the hospital, get checked out.. just got my head rung thank goodness. I get some type of pills for the pain, because my head felt and still feels like someone is just throwing baseballs at it.

Oh..i'm not done

So after all this, my day is fuvcked.. i was planning ot go to hollywood park that night, I had my bets lined up.. i was in no condition mentially or physically to do anything. So I go home and she comes with me to spend the night in case I need anything.. you know like a ******* or something.


THIS ***** COMES BACK OVER!!!!!! i knew it was her while I was laying on the couch because my older dog was going apesh!t at the window.

My friend opens the door.. and mind you, neighboors are spying on me becuase of the police cars over earlier. She had come to "apologize and make it up"... not that i talked to her, I overheard her. I told her to leave...my friend wanted to kick her ass and I probably should have called the police. It was 3 in the morning (yeah) and I figured she had been drinking... I told myself if she can get off my yard without any conflict I will let it slide. She called to me at least 10 times but I wouldn't (and realy couldn't) come to the door.

Then she has been blowing up my phone all day today.. you ought to hear the messages she left. I don't' know what the fvck is wrong or what happened to her but she is a train wreck. 5'6, long LONG legs, beach body, long blond hair, blue eyes, C cup...

even now my head feels like crap, but I'm better. enough to where I was able to come here and check my emails. What's even worse, my birthday is in about 3 hours. My friend, who is pretty much camped out here (at my request) is trying to make it up to me by cooking and renting some movies, but still.. I had plans for this weekend. I look and feel like crap.

anyway, lesson be learned, and I knew better. I should have ran when I found out she lives off an alimony check. when someone calls you drunk on a Tuesday at 3pm, and that's "normal"... i don't care how hot she is. Now that I think about it I don't know what the fvck I was thinking.
 

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holly sh1t!! that was one fvcked up story.

Yeah you got to watch out who you are messing with these days because some of them could be real psychos.

It is a reason like this which is why I never break up in my own home because you never know how a woman is going to take it and if she is going to break something or throw something or accuse you of something. I either ask her to meet me in a coffee shop so I can finish quickly (also for witnesses reasons and the fact that there are less chances she will freak out) or just drive by her house and ask her to come outside while sitting in a car and breaking her the news. If she starts to go crazy I just step on the gas pedal and take off and she can run back home and blow some steam there. No need of me being there any second longer after I am done with her, like some of the chumps out there that go and buy her a big dinner in an expensive resturant before they break up with her.

Glad your ok bro, that was a close call and its a good thing you have dogs, loved the part where one of those guys chewed on her leg - MAN BEST FRIEND FOR A REASON.

Oh yeah and save the phone messages she send you, you will never know if you will need them in the future to prove in court how fvcked up she is.
 

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yeah ribot (my older dog) is bigger than me when he stands up about 125 pounds as well.. he does what I say.. but he gives me that "arlight now nigga" look, even I don't fvck with him. I don't even attempt to put a chain on him anymore when I take him outside. He knows what to do. I can let him outside, go inside, take a nap, eat, open the door and he's sitting right there on the front lawn, probably knocked out. I love huskies, they are smart as hell and they don't bark, that's why I keep them. He's been getting bored and I travel alot so I got him a companion he's lovable and you have to piss a husky off to bite you, i mean REALLY piss him off.. I can slap him in the face for about 5 mintues and he will just look at me.
 

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damn dude thats one hell of a story. You were thinking about that pusssy man. Sucks to have things end this way. Just proves to show that sometimes you really never know how these hot b1tches will react. Then again with hot bltches i can sometime expect them to have "less personality" and sometimes even more insecure then the lesser hot chicks due to the fact that they have gotten everything they want on their looks alone and maybe some personality. Regardless you forgive and forget and you cut the b1tch out of your life which you did. Be careful bro and i hope you have a great birth day.
 

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She is divorced and lives off her ex husbands montly check
as you finally pointed out at the end, that should have been your major clue to avoid her. If you read some of the stuff that's linked off Pook's blogsight, you'll see that the current state of marriages today is pretty dire (due largely to problems with its legal foundations, but also due to horishness). B1tches like this one are ruining society.

And you should've had the hor locked up. Justice demands it. Don't chicken out just because you "didn't want to see her again."

Happy birthday, tho. ;)
 

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Obsidian said:
as you finally pointed out at the end, that should have been your major clue to avoid her. If you read some of the stuff that's linked off Pook's blogsight, you'll see that the current state of marriages today is pretty dire (due largely to problems with its legal foundations, but also due to horishness). B1tches like this one are ruining society.

And you should've had the hor locked up. Justice demands it. Don't chicken out just because you "didn't want to see her again."

Happy birthday, tho. ;)

First of all, you are preaching to the Mississippi mass choir. The alimony isn't what should have thrown me off.. it's the fact that when I say she does nothing all day long.. everyday is a Saturday to her. no job, no kids, no ambitions, no life..spending money, drinking and going to the beach.

It was just too much crap to put up with. Plus it's my birthday, I would llike to just enjoy of it what I can without this damn cloud over my head.

justice is me living my life without her in it, as happy as I possibly can. I'm not worried about her, and I can take care of myself if need be. But if she shows back up I will call the cops.
 

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justice is me living my life without her in it, as happy as I possibly can.
well, if you say so...

if it were me, i'd be happiest getting revenge on that b1tch. And kudos to your noble dog; I hope the girl's leg gets gangrene and falls off. After that thread you posted where you blew up at the fat lady in the grocery store, I'm kinda surprised at your tolerance. ;)

Also, it'd be nice to get her off the streets for a while and (possibly) teach her a lesson for the protection of future men she encounters.

And yeah, the whole alimony setup just proves that she's a golddigging hor. Marriage laws today are so f*cked up that they provide a major monetary incentive for this type of thing. You may not be looking for marriage, but if she's willing to screw over a partner in such a way (marrying him at a young age then leaving him with half his assets), she's not worth getting close to at all, imo.
 

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Obsidian said:
well, if you say so...

if it were me, i'd be happiest getting revenge on that b1tch. And kudos to your noble dog; I hope the girl's leg gets gangrene and falls off. After that thread you posted where you blew up at the fat lady in the grocery store, I'm kinda surprised at your tolerance. ;)

Also, it'd be nice to get her off the streets for a while and (possibly) teach her a lesson for the protection of future men she encounters.

And yeah, the whole alimony setup just proves that she's a golddigging hor. Marriage laws today are so f*cked up that they provide a major monetary incentive for this type of thing. You may not be looking for marriage, but if she's willing to screw over a partner in such a way (marrying him at a young age then leaving him with half his assets), she's not worth getting close to at all, imo.

well moreso because I know what I am capable of, it's a hell of alot more than throwing glass at someones back/head. I'd snap that ***** in two if I started, so I don't start. it's pretty simple actually. I took martial arts for 6 years and I warm up when benching with almost twice what she weights.

actually I am pretty tolerable. I make smart remarks but I don't' argue and I don't raise my hands, I just tune out. I rarely raise my voice. Even in that grocery store event I wasn't yelling, nor was I really close to really doing anything physical.

Revenge? What type of revenge do I get to see her sit in jail. That's not revenge. Jail is not something to take lightly, and I'm not taking this lightly whatsoever, but the best revenge is living a happy life.. trust me. it's better than any thing you can imagine when that person sees you a year later and you are as happy as can be and have completely forgotten about them.

It's one of the benefits of having a life and spinning plates... I just want to get on with the rest of it. When I'm done with someone, for better or for worse, i'm done. i dont' have time to muster and think about what could have been or how to get back at them, etc.

Ribot? lol, that's my homeboy. I've had him around so long it's like we can read each others minds. He's getting up there however (10).. he doesn't let me oversleep (seriously, he will drag my ass out of bed, I never sleep past 8), he gives me his opinion of women when they come over.. if he likes them he let's them pet him and he likes to lay under them.. women go gaga over him, huskies are some of the prettiest dogs on earth. if he doesn't like them (and this is how I knew he didn't really ever like her).. he will just sit in his corner and stare at them and at me.. ike he is saying "man do what you do, but I don't approve".. **** I need to listen to him. He didn't like my old GF but he warmed up to her eventually. When I go out I have to bring them tacos back, they eat more taco bell than i do. and the best thing about huskies besides they don't bark? YOU DON'T HAVE TO WASH THEM!..they are the cleanest dogs on earth... they clean themselves.. I gave mono (the younger one) a bath 2 weeks ago because he was playing in dirt outside.. but ribot I haven't washed in about 2 years, there is no need to, they clean themselves.

anyway back on point. This chick is sleep (my friend that took me to the hosptail)... she is waking up so I'm out, but I'll keep you undated on what's going on
 

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WOW dude, that totally sucks. Well, happy birthday, sorry to hear you had that crap happen to you. Hope you can feel a little better without her out of your face. Damn, that's messed up. That's a great dog you have though. I used to have a neighbor who had an Alaskan Husky, and they are just awesome dogs. And the part about the smaller dog crying with you, I just had to saw "awww" in my head. How loyal.
 

It doesn't matter how good-looking you are, how romantic you are, how funny you are... or anything else. If she doesn't have something INVESTED in you and the relationship, preferably quite a LOT invested, she'll dump you, without even the slightest hesitation, as soon as someone a little more "interesting" comes along.

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you are right about that, it almost did and I didn't hit her.

she just sent me a text asking could she come over... this b!tch is psychotic.. I ought to go and take my dogs for a walk and accidently pass her house and see what accidently happens
 

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You know what you could do if you were up to it is have some CRAZY ANGRY SEX as a way to pay her back because you obviously can't hit her, but you can get sexually rough with her if you get what i mean:box: Then again that probably would not be a good idea because she will constantly keep calling you more and more. But hey man it's your birthday and it is pvsssy. Now i know your probably thinking fvck that this b1tch fvckeded my head up. Well you know what you can always get even by fvcking her pvssy up. I would get as rough as possible with this b1itch. As rough as your body can take since i know your still recovering. Make that b1tches pvssy hurt for days.

Then after you fvck her this last and final time you keep the communacation off. Block her number, don't answer her when she rings your doorbell, change your number do whatever the fvck you want to keep her away from you after you roughly fvck the sh1t out of her. You'll have her head spinning so fast if you did that. You fvck her tonight so she thinks everything is ok but then she keeps fvcking with you and you continue to ignore her. If worst comes to worst if she's ringing the doorbell to your house and she knows your there you can simply call the police because you do have a restraining order against her:crackup:
 

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I have a woman in my bed sleeping as we speak... I'm not hurting for female company.

yeah, I'm going to not hit her, but then fvck her so she can possibly claim rape? don't think so

right now I'd rather be a monk and have my **** chopped off than talk to her. it's not worth it.
 
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Haha, Backbreaker got beat up by a gir!! l:D. Why watch soap operas - there is so much better drama on SoSuave.com!

As I told you years ago - you become "too friendly" with hors too quickly!! This should be a lesson for you - quit being so nice and start being a hard -ass when need be!!

I would personally sue this hor because hors like these are bold and think they are above the law and others -- sue her and teach her a lesson - especially since she lied to the police and blamed you for her attack - teach the hor a lesson - this was a violent act!!!! Can you imagine what she would do to you if you threw a vase at her head - you would be in jail!!

Don't let hors stay in your house as if they own it!!!

At least she didn't scar your pretty-boy face:)
 

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Fvck dude I am so sorry to hear that. I really think that you should have had her azz locked up. This girl sounds like she is fvcking crazy. Be careful. If I were you I would get a restraining order. Do not attempt to contact her. Totally fvcking ignore her.
 

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backbreaker said:
I have a woman in my bed sleeping as we speak... I'm not hurting for female company.

yeah, I'm going to not hit her, but then fvck her so she can possibly claim rape? don't think so

right now I'd rather be a monk and have my **** chopped off than talk to her. it's not worth it.
Yeah when thinking about it with a bytch as unpredicatble as this is better to just leave her ass alone. Well it's just one of the ****ty moments in our lives that we can't really control. Chalk it up as **** happens and what doesn't kill you makes you stronger:up:
 

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she just sent me a text asking could she come over... this b!tch is psychotic..
Doesn't that violate the restraining order?

I'm sure it does. So take it to the police NOW. This criminal needs to be locked up before she ruins more lives.

I mean, how do you think she got those alimony checks from her husband, and that nice house she lives in? Because he "abused" her, of course, hurr! You saw how those cops reacted to her story.

You need to start collecting evidence of any further drunken visits.
 

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i was actually thinking.. her ex husband got a divorce and moved to North caronlina.. humm.. I wonder why

what the fvck have i gotten myself into

I'm hoping if I just don't pay it any attention it will go away. maybe I can grab an AFC guy off this forum and send him over her house to take the attention away.

and my lip is more swollen than my head.. I busted it when my head hit my barstool
 

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and this is the sole reason why spin plates guys. End of discussion. No posts about what to do, no posts about how to handle it.. drop the ***** and move on

also, if there is any bright light to this, the girl that's over here now is trying her damnest to play "wifey" and she's loving every minute of it. she has never been over here as long as she has now.. she cooked and she even bought me a birthday present.. it's a nice sized fish tank..which funny enough I've wanted to get into the hobby for a while now. I've spent most of the day setting it up and just looking at the fish. I like her more than she thinks I do, but I don't like her enough for me to give up the other girl I'm seeing, or any future prospects at this time.. plus she's 32, but she is probably in better shape than both of the other ones.. in fact I know she is.

anyway, she still feels the need to justify herself, because there is STILL someone else in the picture.. it's like she's saying "if I were the only one you were seeing, this would be every night" but we all know that's a lie.
 

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