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Royal Elite

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When you read a lot of the post here it's very clear why so many of you are having trouble with women. Too many people in here attitudes completely suck. Too many of you are full of negative energy, and negative thoughts, and this is why you interections with others end up negatively.

You may think you are just typing, but what are you typing? The things you type are you thoughts or your soul's way of expressing yourself. So when you say things like well I don't think a hot woman will like me, or only the 10 guys get women and Im only a 5 this is what you really feel about yourself.

You think you are exuding confidence, and charm by doing all the magic tricks here, but really you are not. It doesn't matter what you try to do, when within your soul you are a little child hiding in the corner in a feutel position.

This is what inner game is, or confidence. It's not thinking "bitc#s aint sh#t so if she don't like me fine", or "all women are hors", that has nothing to do with nothing when inside of yourself you still think "im a 6, I can never get a fine woman, I'm useless". This is all negative energy and a woman can sense that energy from your soul a mile away; women were taken from us, so they are more intuned to us then we really realize.

Why then would you think a woman will want to be around someone whose energy is needy, and negative, and who will only bring hers down? This is why so many guys come here and say I got a hot girl but now she is acting funny. It's because deep inside you are nothing but a ball of negative energy, which only turns her off (notice how women use terms like turn off).

So of couse you see a guy who on your scale is a "6" but he is with a "10" because inside himself he is the greatest thing since cook food. Why wouldnt a woman want to be with a man who is "secure" in himself over you, what just because you look better. You looks aren't going to help her when her energy is down, and she needs a pick me up? How do you think you are going ot help her when your energy is below hers, and the only thing you have to offer is a feeling of negativeness, and self pity?

Until you guys realign your spirits with more positive energy/thoughts you will continue to have bad experience. You will have read 1000 post but still have no change. I see people here with 1000's of post under their belt but still have the lowest self esteem in the world.

Magic tricks, insults, neg hits, c&f is not going to do anything to help you if you are just a negative person. Im a guy, and I feel disgusted (no offense intended) by some of your guys perceptions of yourself, so what do you think a girl will think.

Unlike us, girls think Long term, and if you display to her that you will not be a good person to feed off of in life, and who can hold her down when she is down, you already lost her.

By some of the guys attitudes in here I wouldnt be friends with you in real life and I dont mean that in a mean way, it's just I only want positive people around me who can enhance me, and guess what women are the same way.

Change your attitude and you will change your life!
 

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Personally I dont like these Hollier Than Thou threads...

A bit of humility is always nice to see...I think thats why Pook, A-Unit etc get so much respect here.

The 'Im up here, Youre down there' threads dont really help anyone. They just perpetuate a nasty cycle that fails to inspire those who struggle to negotiate a successful path through the minefield of dating.
With all due respect people, think carefully when offered advice from a know it all.

To proclaim posession of wisdom is probably the most unwise act of all.

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Originally posted by dearsappho
Personally I dont like these Holier Than Thou threads...

A bit of humility is always nice to see...I think thats why Pook, A-Unit etc get so much respect here.

The 'Im up here, Youre down there' threads dont really help anyone. They just perpetuate a nasty cycle that fails to inspire those who struggle to negotiate a successful path through the minefield of dating.
With all due respect people, think carefully when offered advice from a know it all.

To proclaim posession of wisdom is probably the most unwise act of all.

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I don't agree with some things royal elite says, but he's 100% right in this post. you ALWAYS have to think positive in order to get positive results.

but i do feel differently on some parts. in my mind, if a person sees themselves as a 6 and thinks he cant get a 10, he wont stop believing this until he improves and doesn't consider himself a 6 anymore. attitude change doesn't come from sheer willpower, at least not in my opinion.

edit - and please stop trying to compare every tip to Pook. not everyone is gonna write long winded philosophical posts, and i'm glad.
 

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Originally posted by dearsappho
Personally I dont like these Hollier Than Thou threads...

A bit of humility is always nice to see...I think thats why Pook, A-Unit etc get so much respect here.

The 'Im up here, Youre down there' threads dont really help anyone. They just perpetuate a nasty cycle that fails to inspire those who struggle to negotiate a successful path through the minefield of dating.
With all due respect people, think carefully when offered advice from a know it all.

To proclaim posession of wisdom is probably the most unwise act of all.

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Where do you see anything about proclaimation of wisdom? Where do you see anyone claiming to be HOLYIER Then thou?
This is your perception, because you are coming from a negative root. Out of all what was posted the only thing you could think is that "wow im being attacked" and yet this thread wasnt personilised towards you.
Just think you could have view and processed this post more then one way, so why did you think to process as something negative instead of something positve? Remember you didnt have to view it like that. That says something about the way you process information.
 

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Fair point Royal. You know I admire your thoughts, but to be honest your delivery leaves a somewhat sour taste. I feel that a more humble approach would best suit AFC's in this vien. Just a thought...

Yes, I do have what could be viewed as a negative frame, but also harbour no allusions about the world around me.

Just as you pour scorn upon the seemingly weak minded fools you wish to educate, can one not criticise your train of thought? There are many opinions on this board and thats all there are: opinions.

We both share the same aim, but are approaching it from polar opposites, 'tis all. Its all good.
 

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Originally posted by dearsappho
Fair point Royal. You know I admire your thoughts, but to be honest your delivery leaves a somewhat sour taste.

Yes, I do have what could be viewed as a negative frame, but also harbour no allusions about the world around me.

Just as you pour scorn upon the seemingly weak minded fools you wish to educate, can one not criticise your train of thought? There are many opinions on this board and thats all there are: opinions.

We both share the same aim, but are approaching it from polar opposites, 'tis all. Its all good.
I never post from scorn because I don't hold on to that type of energy. You know what I would do if I found out my wife was cheatin on me? I would as calmly and rationaly make plans to go our separate ways, and would move on with life. Why? Because I know that the universe will deal with her for the negative energy she put out, and two anything else would have me carrying around that negative energy.

How many people still harbo the pain of their first hurt? How many guys will be angry for years because they was hurt at 13? How many women will sleep around because of a hurt at 12 or 16? The reason is becuase even though time has passed you are still carrying that negative energy around with you which will mold how you view the world for years to come.

Women are not from venus, and men are not from mars, but because someone was hurt 15 years ago and didnt let go of the negative energy the rest of the lives will be to prove that men and women are just completely different. There are people 30 and 40 still holding on to the hurt of a bad relationship at 16, men and women alike.

So Im not scorning anyone, I dont hold on to that energy because it only effects me.

View points that come from holding on to negative energy from a past hurt:

All men are dogs
Bit#ches aint sh$t
YOu cant trust no woman
Woman will only use you
Woman are all gold diggers.
Attentions hors (like who dont like attention)

Your entire life will be forged by walking around for years holding on to negative energy. YOu will dog 14 good women because of 1 bad one 10 years ago. So none of this is posted from scorn or the negative, it's only from the positive aspect, since that is what I want the universe to return to me.
 

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Originally posted by Royal Elite
I never post from scorn because I don't hold on to that type of energy. You know what I would do if I found out my wife was cheatin on me? I would as calmly and rationaly make plans to go our separate ways, and would move on with life. Why? Because I know that the universe will deal with her for the negative energy she put out, and two anything else would have me carrying around that negative energy.

How many people still harbo the pain of their first hurt? How many guys will be angry for years because they was hurt at 13? How many women will sleep around because of a hurt at 12 or 16? The reason is becuase even though time has passed you are still carrying that negative energy around with you which will mold how you view the world for years to come.

Women are not from venus, and men are not from mars, but because someone was hurt 15 years ago and didnt let go of the negative energy the rest of the lives will be to prove that men and women are just completely different. There are people 30 and 40 still holding on to the hurt of a bad relationship at 16, men and women alike.

So Im not scorning anyone, I dont hold on to that energy because it only effects me.

View points that come from holding on to negative energy from a past hurt:

All men are dogs
Bit#ches aint sh$t
YOu cant trust no woman
Woman will only use you
Woman are all gold diggers.
Attentions hors (like who dont like attention)

Your entire life will be forged by walking around for years holding on to negative energy. YOu will dog 14 good women because of 1 bad one 10 years ago. So none of this is posted from scorn or the negative, it's only from the positive aspect, since that is what I want the universe to return to me.
Hey Royal I'm diggin the whole buddhism thing you saying! Great post!
 

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Originally posted by Royal Elite
Because I know that the universe will deal with her for the negative energy she put out
I dont buy into this ethereal rationale, Royal, although it is an interesting take nontheless.

But as you have said before "You will only see what you believe, and what you believe you will always see."
 

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Very good post, Royal. I was told that this site is like a bucket of crabs. When one tries to pull itself out the others will reach up and pull it back down.

One guy above posted something about humility and this vein of AFC's, which is very true of the men who come to this site. I have no admiration for a man who acts like an AFC.

One thing I have learned is that the guys with the knowledge who try to share it do so because of it makes their own ego's feel good and so they do come from a place of holier than thou, which is ok, because it shows others the way.

So you can stay up on your soap box and continue preaching the word in my opinion. You have earned the right to your higher view point.

And I say never try to fake humility and humbleness. As a man I do not find those (nice guy) qualities very appealing.
 

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all women are just little girls. they just like to play.

that's all you have to realize
 
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