You Never Know

[R19]

Do you go all out every day? Are you looking your best? Is your place decked out? You never know who you will meet or what situation you can find yourself in.

I find this interesting because it is almost the mindset of doing so that can lead to things... There are times where I leave my place in disarray or am wearing stuff I don't really like because 'I am not planning on anything to happen' that day or that part of the day. I don't think that this is the best approach, but it does take extra effort to keep things set up the best possible. And it is ridiculous because in my hood you can run into striking women at the most ordinary places. I once walked around the biggest drug store on my local main drag in awe as there were several hot chicks cruising the aisles for whatever.

I am in process of throwing out or giving away a ton of stuff and clothes (this is long overdue). This has taken too long to get done, and I know I will feel better after I am finished so I don't know why I keep putting it off.

How many of us always hit the streets with our 'A Game' knowing that our place is more than presentable? Any tips would be great such as how you work in a routine to make this happen more easily or with little effort.

 

[DonGorgon]

I am usually at 35% of my full potential.. due to many factors

 

[R19]

When I was making ridiculous money I never spent one red cent on a maid service or anything like that to get my place over the top. For you guys that are doing well, I suggest letting pro's come in and handle things at least every once and a while.

 

[R19]

ok... it would be good to hear some more thought on this as I doubt only a couple of us out there ever think about this.

Just took my place from a D into a A- in 30 and out the door.

 

[WC2]

I think it's a load of crap.

"Just took my place from a D into an A- in 30?"

Do you work for Better Homes and Garden? Want to come over and rate my pad 'bro'?

All jokes aside, stop sweating the small stuff.

Chicks will not flock to you just because you wore some new shirt today or just because your pad is 'decked' out.

Chicks flock to men who are men. Men with substance and depth. They don't want some coffee house fagboy who's more concerned with what color boxers he's wearing than what the chick in the blue looks like naked.

Catch my drift com padre?

I've gamed women when wearing a raggedy ass t-shirt and jeans in bare feet. No hair gel. No shower. Nope, no teeth brushing.

Pretty nasty right?

WHO GIVES A SH!T.

Sure, it's necessary for a man to groom himself appropriately, but women get 'dolled' up every time they go out. WOMEN are the insecure ones who are infatuated with their image, not us; well not me at least.

Sure, it's necessary to have a clean place, but 'decking' your place out just for the notion of attracting hot chicks is in itself putting pvssy on a pedestal once again. Deck your place out for yourself. Make it comfortable for you.

I can't tell you how many times I see these pretty boys out at clubs checking themselves in the mirror for hours on end only to go scoop their women up with a dose of reality.

Sure, I'm damn good looking. Sure, I get compliments from women about my looks.

Do I obsess over my looks? No.
Do I 'make sure I'm on my A game before I go out?' What does that even mean? Sh!t, I'm always on my A game whether I'm wearing some designer clothes or whether I'm in my boxers. I spit in any weather and I make it rain in those f'in panties.

I wear what I want. My place isn't anything special, actually a sh!thole at the moment.

Will I pull women back this weekend? Yes. Will they be disappointed? No complaints yet.

The #1 thing that matters to new women is your bedroom and how you use it.

They could give a sh!t what the rest of your place looks like, believe me.

 

[randomshinichi]

I think one should pretty up one's pad anyway, if only for the sake of self improvement.

 

[R19]

ha, ha - got that point before I started the thread. Not talkin' effen Martha Stewart, but I have found it better not to have a thrashed kitchen, and laundry thrown all over the place.

I have dated clothes that I should have thrown out or given away a long time ago in my closet. Not an issue of street or dressing up because my favorite thing to wear is a white t-shirt and denim because I am ripped.

Is it really AFC or 'queer eye for the straight guy' to counter thoughts like 'Yeah I don't really like this sh1t I'm wearing, but I'm only going to the grocery store' or 'I don't have any meetings today at work and there is no way anything could happen on the way, at lunch, or after work today'? This is a mindset that takes a couple seconds to change and make a difference. There are a lot of hot chicks around in the day time to be run into randomly.

And lot's of stuff I have in my place that I don't use that should be gone too.

WC2, you have the right attitude, but - lol - not everyone is as good looking as you. so back to the 'Looks don't matter', the more good looking and the more DJ, probably the less this matters... Maybe some of us can run the game better by doing these things here or there.