You know I just dont get it

[Hector]

Alot of people told me that women hate to lose friends, they just do. Especially to those they've known for years. Here's my situation, my friend she lives half city away goes to a different school than i, her friends say "oh she misses you" So dumb ***** goes and gets a boyfriend, cool congrats to her and the lucky ****, then after a month they break up, months later shes with another. Im just being this............dumb**** who's having a little trouble letting go. so what should I do, just stop talking to her? stop calling her? Dont talk to her for a few months, or what? I sent her messages and she only reads them then she protests that shes busy and all sorts of bs and I'm like whatever happened to her promise saying we'll be best friends forever or some hypocritical bull****, I mean I assume she has other guy friends whom she misses, more likely more than me. To think she once told her friends that I was kind,sweet, senstive, and all other lies. Im assuming here? yeah i am.

 

[smackler]

huh? What do you want, a gf??

I'm the one who doesn't get it... What's your point? The deal here is fairly simple IMO.

You're acting like a friend, and she's returning the favor. And you're frustrated at the whole thing!

Can I laugh... Can I? Lol!

Are you being... NICE? I think this lacks a bit of details. You just said what's going on and not what did you do so far. Or maybe I didn't understand it well.

 

[Technical1]

Alot of people told me that women hate to lose friends, they just do. Especially to those they've known for years. Here's my situation, my friend

Your friend? Your friend?? Who is so important that you have to post to an internet forum about her and are thinking about her boyfriends?

Obviously she is more than just a friend to you. You are not to her, that much is also clear.

Welcome to the world of AFC! Whether your stay here is long or short, it will almost certainly be one thing- painful!

If you want to learn from my mistakes, take this advice:

1) Forget about her completely! - because you already have feelings, which means she has already won.

2) chase other girls, i.e. diversify your portfolio

3) improve yourself in ways that increase your market value to ALL women, not just this one.

If you insist on learning things the hard way, however, which may be necessary for young guys to do, in that case I suggest you do this:

1) Keep thinking about her, each day if possible
2) Invent scenarios in your head of you two being together
3) Find out everything about her from other people
4) Begin to hang around places she hangs around at
5) Approach her in a nervous, mortified death-sweat
6) Hand her a bouquet of flowers and read a poem of your choice.
7) Ask her to marry you.

One of these ways is the path to happiness and freedom in relationships, I say you repeat these last 7 steps as many times as you need to before you start to want to do the 3 steps mentioned above them.

good luck.

 

[WC2]

Your friend? Your friend?? Who is so important that you have to post to an internet forum about her and are thinking about her boyfriends?

Obviously she is more than just a friend to you. You are not to her, that much is also clear.

Welcome to the world of AFC! Whether your stay here is long or short, it will almost certainly be one thing- painful!

If you want to learn from my mistakes, take this advice:

1) Forget about her completely! - because you already have feelings, which means she has already won.

2) chase other girls, i.e. diversify your portfolio

3) improve yourself in ways that increase your market value to ALL women, not just this one.

If you insist on learning things the hard way, however, which may be necessary for young guys to do, in that case I suggest you do this:

1) Keep thinking about her, each day if possible
2) Invent scenarios in your head of you two being together
3) Find out everything about her from other people
4) Begin to hang around places she hangs around at
5) Approach her in a nervous, mortified death-sweat
6) Hand her a bouquet of flowers and read a poem of your choice.
7) Ask her to marry you.

One of these ways is the path to happiness and freedom in relationships, I say you repeat these last 7 steps as many times as you need to before you start to want to do the 3 steps mentioned above them.

good luck.

amen to that. Sometimes the only way to learn is the hard way.. IF you're not mentally strong. Get strong, talk to other women and forget this broad. She's what I like to call a bloodsucker. She sucks the blood from you when she needs it and and she spits you out as soon as she has found something else. She's not into you. Chances are she will never be. I know you say you're just friends, but I don't know why you make it seem as if she's doing you an injustice. This is the reality of our world. You can either take it to heart and be in denial, or you can start living a much better life.

 

[KontrollerX]

You were friendzoned by her long ago.

Your solution is to next her and forget about her and persue a new chick but this time do not make yourself into her friend but establish immediately that you are interested in this new girl as something more and would like to date her/meet up with her at times that are convenient to you both.

If that girl rejects you and tries to friendzone you see my advice above.

Then once again seek out a new girl after honestly assessing what you may of done wrong to be rejected, correct that fault whatever it is in yourself and then get back in the field.

Next what is useless to your true goals and desires without hesitation.

You don't want friendship with beautiful women you want to fvck beautiful women and have relationships with them so start acting like it.

All I can tell ya brother.

 

[zinc64]

Alot of people told me that women hate to lose friends, they just do. Especially to those they've known for years. Here's my situation, my friend she lives half city away goes to a different school than i, her friends say "oh she misses you" So dumb ***** goes and gets a boyfriend, cool congrats to her and the lucky ****, then after a month they break up, months later shes with another. Im just being this............dumb**** who's having a little trouble letting go. so what should I do, just stop talking to her? stop calling her? Dont talk to her for a few months, or what? I sent her messages and she only reads them then she protests that shes busy and all sorts of bs and I'm like whatever happened to her promise saying we'll be best friends forever or some hypocritical bull****, I mean I assume she has other guy friends whom she misses, more likely more than me. To think she once told her friends that I was kind,sweet, senstive, and all other lies. Im assuming here? yeah i am.

You are being a *****. Go get another girl and only talk to her if she seeks you out in the future. But the attraction is probaly already dead. You are in the friendzone.

 

[DonJuan11]

Im just being this............dumb**** who's having a little trouble letting go. so what should I do, just stop talking to her? stop calling her? Dont talk to her for a few months, or what?

Keep phoning her, she may get weak knees for you and let you inside her after the 8th unreturned phone call.

 

[The Deacon]

Don't let your value be determined by what women think of you. Don't determine your value by how many women you've fvcked. It's all gotta be internal. You're you, and although you're not perfect, you're worthy to feel the natural feelings of ecstacy that only a girl you like can bring. You still gotta make sure you're attractive if you expect results, but remember that you deserve better than what you're makin yourself go through now. Don't let yourself turn into an AFC!

 

[MooseGod]

What is this crazy woman thinking living her own life and not worrying about what old friends think? Has she gone mad? And how dare she get a boyfriend without consulting you first...you'd think she believes she's her own person or something...sheesh.