Introduction
If you aren’t having any lasting success with quality woman, it comes down to one fundamental fact:
You haven’t earned the right!
Being the best man you can be and attracting quality woman is not attained through following a bunch of tips on an Internet forum (although these can help).
Being successful is attained through disciplined focus on attaining your ideal life and being the best man you can be, standing up for yourself, and having respect for yourself and others, but always for yourself above others.
So this is probably why at the present:
You don’t even do your own f@cking.
Sad fact is that some other better guy is doing it for you as you read this.
Instead of crying about the how the world is unfair, and before you complain about not having success with women, ask yourself the following questions:
1) Do you do the best you can to maximise your looks / physicality? -
Despite the arguments, it is an undeniable fact that looks / physicality are important (importance ranging from roughly 40% to 90% depending on context, especially for the critical first impression) and you should do the most you can to maximise yourself in this area.
Lift weights to build muscle mass, eat well, keep fit and live a healthy lifestyle. Buy some new clothes to show off your best attributes, and take care of your skin.
2) What do you do in my spare time?
Are you a fun person to be around, who always has something happening?
If not, and your days are spent surfing the net, jacking off to porno or playing games on the Xbox, turn that sh*t off, get out and do something worthwhile.
There’s a whole list of stuff you can do out in the real world. Just do something to start with, and you will find out what you like and don’t like.
3) Are you doing something with your life that you are passionate about and enjoy?
If not, you are wasting your life. You are simply a robot eating, drinking and sleeping until you die.
Work out what you enjoy (and yet you can still get paid to do), and go and do it. Build a bridge, write music or start a business. Work out what you want to do and go do it.
No excuses why you can’t – excuses are for losers and girls. Men make it happen, and so should you. That way, no matter what else occurs, your life will have been worthwhile to you.
4) Are your friends a burden or a blessing?
Do they help you achieve your full potential in every way, or are they holding you back?
If they are holding you back, and are not ready to change like you are, then ditch them. It is better to be alone than to spend your time with losers. Find people to spend time with who will help you become a better person.
5) Are you comfortable with your own company?
Following on from above, you must be able to enjoy your own company as well, and happy with who you are.
When given the choice between spending time on others who are not worthy and on yourself, you should choose yourself. And if you aren’t comfortable with who you are as a person, then change it.
6) Are your finances in good order?
Save money, invest and stop spending it on stuff that you don’t need. Financial freedom can also give you freedom in lots of other areas of life.
7) Is your level of self worth above that of others?
Or do you put others first even if they don’t deserve it? Are you overly nice and move out of other people’s way or do what others want you to do?
Or do you put yourself and your life goals first?
Just remember that you cannot help every loser (including women) that is out there. Respect yourself, be true to yourself and never let anyone walk over you, especially a woman. Be willing to walk away at any sign of disrespect.
There are physically attractive woman everywhere, but a man who has it all together in every aspect is much rarer. Remember this and walk tall!
8) Do you take action or do you procrastinate (masturbate)?
Procrastination = Mental Masturbation.
“Habit is all”. As you act, so you shall become. Words or thinking about it mean nothing. You must take action!
Other things being equal, action is what separates men who have success from those who don’t. Women talk about stuff, real men take action instead.
The above steps provide a brief outline on how to become a better man, but you must still approach women, and also be attuned to when a woman is interested and when she gives the signals, that’s your invitation.
Go for it! Cut out the masturbation (or at least reduce it as much as possible), eliminate all porno (completely), and stop fooling your mind and body. Then your body will revert to the natural order of things and the pre-programmed feminist b*s will disappear from your thoughts.
Conclusion
Once you start taking steps to improve yourself, you will hold yourself differently, and women will be much more receptive to your advances or will make the first move themselves.
No woman wants to (if she can avoid it) settle for a loser guy, just like no guy wants to settle for any ugly fat chick. So finally ask yourself, what kind of woman would want to be with a guy like me?
If you don’t like the answer to that question, it is not the fault of women. Their preferences have been honed over thousands of years of evolution to ensure the survival of our species, just like ours.
Accept that regardless of whatever else has happened in your life up until now, from this point on not having success in all areas of your life is your fault.
Acknowledging this and accepting that you are the problem will be the first step on your path to becoming the best man you can be.
The second step is understanding that you have the power to change it. Embrace the challenge ahead, accept that there will be setbacks along the way, and remain focused on your goals.
Focus always on becoming a better man in every aspect and take action to achieve it, instead of just talking about it.
And then you will have earned the right.
If you aren’t having any lasting success with quality woman, it comes down to one fundamental fact:
You haven’t earned the right!
Being the best man you can be and attracting quality woman is not attained through following a bunch of tips on an Internet forum (although these can help).
Being successful is attained through disciplined focus on attaining your ideal life and being the best man you can be, standing up for yourself, and having respect for yourself and others, but always for yourself above others.
So this is probably why at the present:
You don’t even do your own f@cking.
Sad fact is that some other better guy is doing it for you as you read this.
Instead of crying about the how the world is unfair, and before you complain about not having success with women, ask yourself the following questions:
1) Do you do the best you can to maximise your looks / physicality? -
Despite the arguments, it is an undeniable fact that looks / physicality are important (importance ranging from roughly 40% to 90% depending on context, especially for the critical first impression) and you should do the most you can to maximise yourself in this area.
Lift weights to build muscle mass, eat well, keep fit and live a healthy lifestyle. Buy some new clothes to show off your best attributes, and take care of your skin.
2) What do you do in my spare time?
Are you a fun person to be around, who always has something happening?
If not, and your days are spent surfing the net, jacking off to porno or playing games on the Xbox, turn that sh*t off, get out and do something worthwhile.
There’s a whole list of stuff you can do out in the real world. Just do something to start with, and you will find out what you like and don’t like.
3) Are you doing something with your life that you are passionate about and enjoy?
If not, you are wasting your life. You are simply a robot eating, drinking and sleeping until you die.
Work out what you enjoy (and yet you can still get paid to do), and go and do it. Build a bridge, write music or start a business. Work out what you want to do and go do it.
No excuses why you can’t – excuses are for losers and girls. Men make it happen, and so should you. That way, no matter what else occurs, your life will have been worthwhile to you.
4) Are your friends a burden or a blessing?
Do they help you achieve your full potential in every way, or are they holding you back?
If they are holding you back, and are not ready to change like you are, then ditch them. It is better to be alone than to spend your time with losers. Find people to spend time with who will help you become a better person.
5) Are you comfortable with your own company?
Following on from above, you must be able to enjoy your own company as well, and happy with who you are.
When given the choice between spending time on others who are not worthy and on yourself, you should choose yourself. And if you aren’t comfortable with who you are as a person, then change it.
6) Are your finances in good order?
Save money, invest and stop spending it on stuff that you don’t need. Financial freedom can also give you freedom in lots of other areas of life.
7) Is your level of self worth above that of others?
Or do you put others first even if they don’t deserve it? Are you overly nice and move out of other people’s way or do what others want you to do?
Or do you put yourself and your life goals first?
Just remember that you cannot help every loser (including women) that is out there. Respect yourself, be true to yourself and never let anyone walk over you, especially a woman. Be willing to walk away at any sign of disrespect.
There are physically attractive woman everywhere, but a man who has it all together in every aspect is much rarer. Remember this and walk tall!
8) Do you take action or do you procrastinate (masturbate)?
Procrastination = Mental Masturbation.
“Habit is all”. As you act, so you shall become. Words or thinking about it mean nothing. You must take action!
Other things being equal, action is what separates men who have success from those who don’t. Women talk about stuff, real men take action instead.
The above steps provide a brief outline on how to become a better man, but you must still approach women, and also be attuned to when a woman is interested and when she gives the signals, that’s your invitation.
Go for it! Cut out the masturbation (or at least reduce it as much as possible), eliminate all porno (completely), and stop fooling your mind and body. Then your body will revert to the natural order of things and the pre-programmed feminist b*s will disappear from your thoughts.
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Conclusion
Once you start taking steps to improve yourself, you will hold yourself differently, and women will be much more receptive to your advances or will make the first move themselves.
No woman wants to (if she can avoid it) settle for a loser guy, just like no guy wants to settle for any ugly fat chick. So finally ask yourself, what kind of woman would want to be with a guy like me?
If you don’t like the answer to that question, it is not the fault of women. Their preferences have been honed over thousands of years of evolution to ensure the survival of our species, just like ours.
Accept that regardless of whatever else has happened in your life up until now, from this point on not having success in all areas of your life is your fault.
Acknowledging this and accepting that you are the problem will be the first step on your path to becoming the best man you can be.
The second step is understanding that you have the power to change it. Embrace the challenge ahead, accept that there will be setbacks along the way, and remain focused on your goals.
Focus always on becoming a better man in every aspect and take action to achieve it, instead of just talking about it.
And then you will have earned the right.
