You have made everything way to complicated...

[Sammo]

Gday boys, I have learnt something during my absence of this site and have since come to acknowledge the truth of the information i am going to give you.

I see all this information about mindset, how to ask for numbers, eye contact, conversation skills, social skills, reputation, dancing, how to be a DJ, how to work out, how to live your life.... Your makign everything WAY to complicated.

Let me tell you the difference between the average person and happy/succesful people. well the difference is that the average person will take something very simple and blow it out of proportion and turn it into a some kind of complicated load of bull ****, while a happy and succesful person would take something that is complicated, and make it simple.

How does this make you succesful you ask? Well average people will take something like making money and getting employed which is a complicated thing and make it even more complicated, while sucseful people will just turn it into something simple, this site is not about making money so im not going to go into further detail about this.

How does this make you HAPPY you ask? Well an average person would go to a party thinking "okay if i see a hot girl im going to make good eye contact, approach, fluff talk, establish rapport, number close while a happy person would just walk up to a girl and talk to her to have a good ****en time, thats why you are there right?

Look at what we have come to, we have created a website on how to talk to girls.. WTF! I didnt notice how stupid this was till today.

It is really amazing how people go to the extremes to find information that is right below their nose the whole time.

So you want to know how to be a DJ?

Well dont read the bible over and over again and pick up every little complicated detail.

Why don't you just do it yourself, go talk to girls, go have fun, go improve yourself, it's so simple! People want to find some sort of magic pill here that will fix everyhing for them.... You have to break your lazy habits... and get into productive & active habits.

Deep deep down, you know what to do, its simple. You think there is a easier more simple way, but while your searching for this you just make things more complicated.

I apolagise for my poorly organised post, hope this brought light to people around here.

 

[Evil-Rom]

Isn't being a DJ about improving oneself as the "main course" and getting girls as a "side dish"?

Anyways, I kinda don't really get the point of your post. So what you mean is to instead of sitting around the computer all day actually go out and DO it?

You DO actually need to read the bible over and over, as the vast amount of info will then eventually sink in and you can successfully practice it in the field!

You should NOT however pick up every little complicated detail. That is the death of a DJ.

"Ohhh did she smile at me?"
"She touched me!!!! What should I do!!??"
"Why didn't she say hi to me this morning? "

I used to be like that and I'm SO glad i changed.

Oh yeah, is your a "HAPPY" person you can still be the world's worst AFC

 

[Sisko]

I don't think this forum is stupid. Would you really go out and experiment if it wasn't for this site ?

I know I wouldn't.

 

[Cloud-uk]

yeah, actually I was always under the impression this site simplified everything down- we're talking about the way to attract women here, the question that has had men the world over perplexed since hitting her witha club and dragging her back to your cave became illegal.

I dont think the site is a stupid idea, its actually one of the best ideas anyone's ever had in my books, cos without it I would be a very unhappy guy...

 

[PEPE LE PIU]

OK, i agree in some parts with you. You are right about the complication tha we give to the whole subject. But most of the info here is a great lifechanger.

When i first came here i thought that not being a chalenge, not touching at all, being a therapist, vomiting my emotions, kissing a$$es, talking about each other ex etc... could make me attractive. As for the qualities eg. hit the gym, be happy, charisma, confidence, have a life etc. i would say "well everyone has it's own character". Gues what. At the end i had so many female friends that i started to expect my period too.

From the moment i came to this site, everything started to make sense. I know how to act, how to react and how to carry myself.
I don't have a clue what it means when she blinks 4,5 times or when she scraches her leg, or her nose or any part of her body. But who cares.


Being a DJ is not aplying the mathematics of the site. Is the way you see your life.

 

[Smooth as Anything]

Nothing's complicated here. Your making it to complicated, or you think your farther then you are.

All that "complicated" stuff is important. The most important part however, is learning it to habit, so it is simple.

Trust me.

 

[Da Game]

This site is interesting.. The advice given all comes from a mindset. Guys who have game describe what they do. Other guys who don't have game read it and try out what the experienced guys advise. This is a good system - the new guys learn stuff and can change themselves around to be successful.

The problem comes when someone thinks the actions are what are important, when it's actually the mindset. It's like treating a disease: you can notice the symptoms that result from it, but unless you look for the root cause of those symptoms (the mindset), you won't get anywhere.

So yeah. Use the site to develop a mindset. DON'T put too much stock in the techniques - once you have the mindset, you'll have your own techniques, and they'll work for you, regardless of whether they work for other people.

In short: I agree.